Except contrary to what a lot of Americans seem to think, they have no say in our monarchy.
It was obviously a racist comment, but not just that, she showed an arrogance and entitlement in invading someone's personal space by moving the hair. Nothing to do with race but I've had that done to me before in a professional environment and it's a controlling move and unacceptable. She may not have meant any malice, but it just highlights ingrained issues with many of her class and age.
I can't stand harry and meghan, and don't believe majority of what they say (mainly as so much can be fact checked) but I have no doubt there are issues in an institution like the monarchy. So far I'm disappointed in Charles as there doesn't seem to be the sweeping reform he supposedly stood for.
I hate ageism but I do feel there should be a retirement age for courtiers and the like, unless they can show they are significantly in touch with the modern world.
There are so many things I must be totally unaware of! I get that Lady Susan Hussey is an old lady and tactless, except I thought her role at these kind of events, after reading the bio of her, was to chat to guests, find out a bit about them so she could introduce them appropriately to the RF, so I would expect her to be asking questions of the guests!
Why is asking someone where they come from, automatically a racist comment? It was an international event with Guests from all over the world. Ngozi could have been there representing a charity from Africa, from the Caribbean or from the Commonweath. Ngozi could even have been the British figurehead for an overseas charity.
I can see the conversation between them both, was stilted with misunderstandings on both sides. But how was it so so racist?
The trouble is, I have no idea at of what Susan Hussey's character is, is she an incipient racist, who looks down on people, or is she just tactless and a bit too direct? Maybe she is an old school racist, I honestly cant tell from that brief exchange though.
From the conversation breakdown, I thought Ngozi was being pretty stubborn herself, she works for a charity that supports women from Caribbean and African heritages, so surely she understood that SH was asking her about her heritage?
If its an anathema to discuss ethnicity, and something that should not be done. How does Ngozi talk to the women who come to her for help?