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Danielle91 said:
But why don’t people understand that social media has a big part to play on your mental health so if you really want to fix things and get the help you need close down your account stop contradicting yourself and speak to your GP not people who follow you because you appeared on a show these people she’s preaching to don’t care you need professional help if your ok opening up to the world your ok to talk to your gp who can actually do something and you should want to even more so coz of your baby and I use proper depression because sadly it’s the truth these days people use it and abuse it my poor dad suffered in silence and it killed him and over the last few years since it’s more talked about all over sadly people do lie either to get a long term sick note on full pay when in fact there’s nothing up with them or to get more benefits because they know it’s an illness that can’t be proven & some people don’t understand the difference between a bad off day or two and depression and because people throw it around so much this days that’s why the real sufferers are scared of opening up it’s the sad truth agree or don’t agree I’m not causing an argument and nothing said will change it
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That’s not really fair to say because she does that it means she isn’t depressed, you don’t know her personally, everyone deals with it differently
 
Lets all agree that depression has many forms and people deal with it in different ways, yes? I hope her next stories are happier ones.

Aaaaaanyway to bring it back on topic, Charlotte has been pretty quiet of late hasn't she? I hope everything is ok...not like Don Dons to stay silent so long is it? I have seen screenshots on here of the FB TMUKY&P page and it shows her commenting, has anyone seen her comment there recently? Im not a member x
 
Jennytea said:
I feel famous 😂😂😂
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You were already famous, your the one that says all the tit Donna makes up 😂😂😂

CoolMom said:
Lets all agree that depression has many forms and people deal with it in different ways, yes? I hope her next stories are happier ones.

Aaaaaanyway to bring it back on topic, Charlotte has been pretty quiet of late hasn't she? I hope everything is ok...not like Don Dons to stay silent so long is it? I have seen screenshots on here of the FB TMUKY&P page and it shows her commenting, has anyone seen her comment there recently? Im not a member x
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Someone said Charlottes Snapchat shows she's at connors 👀👀
 
CoolMom said:
Lets all agree that depression has many forms and people deal with it in different ways, yes? I hope her next stories are happier ones.

Aaaaaanyway to bring it back on topic, Charlotte has been pretty quiet of late hasn't she? I hope everything is ok...not like Don Dons to stay silent so long is it? I have seen screenshots on here of the FB TMUKY&P page and it shows her commenting, has anyone seen her comment there recently? Im not a member x
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I'm a member I'll look now see if there is anything interesting

Sophm19 said:
I'm a member I'll look now see if there is anything interesting
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Not alot going on really. Someone asked if there was going to be another series and Donna commented saying the usual they havent heard anything either way but it's unlikely the longer it goes on. A few people then said she should go on tmuk and Donna said charlotte would wet herself with excitement if she was offered a place on there because she loves it so much. I though charlotte said she didnt want to do another series? Or was that just charlie and laura
 
Fishnips said:
Sorry if I offended anyone with my single parent comment. Co parenting is not what I considered being a single parent but obviously I'm wrong.
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I was a single/co parent but you didnt offend me. I was going to go into a big comment about how it was being on my own but I wont bore you all with and every bodies situations are different so theres no comparing really.
 
Bostonx said:
Don't try to scare people with social services. Mums are allowed to get upset and feel tit. If she's going to burst into tears she's going to do it.
Social services aren't just people who come in and steal kids they are humans who understand struggles and emotions and supports parents in getting the help they need. She's locked down with a 1 year old, her family can't pop round & she's just lost her boyfriend. I don't think it's a call for a welfare check it's just a young woman upset that her life's a bit all over the place the now
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Social services wont pop in and take Harlow because shes having a hard time. Everyone's having a hard time in lockdown. If she needs support she needs to contact her health visitor. I'm having a hard time with lockdown but it's not impacting on my kids well being.

Her emotions are all over the place.

It's hard to take your mind off things when your stuck in the house with a baby.

I hope her and Brett both realise the grass inst greener and pull back together. They are both great parents and the love they have from Harlow is amazing ❤ Think they need some time to their self and start to appreciate each other.

And calling people out on their looks isn't acceptable. Shes a good looking girl, dont know how anyone can say other wise 😒

Weve all made comments on here, thats why we use this page. Some can be abit harsh I know mine have been. But some people take it too far.
 
To be fair to Charlie too
She's very young and very insecure. And everybody wants to keep that family unit together. I'm a massive advocate of not staying together for the kids but I fully understand why people do, and I'd really struggle if I split with my baby's dad (though we barely get time together). She's so used to being with Brett, it's all she's really known, she's had a baby with him and a first home with him and all that stuff. Now she's dealing with a break up as well as the fact she'll be "sharing" Harlow for the rest of their lives, Brett will eventually get with somebody else and she won't be able to ignore it, Harlow will be spending time around the new person, there will be separate holidays and birthdays and Christmas, she's probably stressed about her finances etc. To make comments that social services will get involved because she's upset sat in the same room as her daughter is awful!
 
I also lost my mom to suicide late last year and it really isn't one size fits all. She was evidently seriously depressed but she still got up every day and done her hair and make up. Just because Charlie posts things that may appear to be attention seeking it really could be a cry for help. I'm in no way saying she's suicidal but the feeling of loneliness when you're young, have a child and are going through a break up are immense. Just because she posts selfies one minute and crying photos the next doesn't mean her feelings aren't real. I really hope she has people around her who care. She's made bad decisions but haven't we all at one time or another
 
Fishnips said:
Sorry if I offended anyone with my single parent comment. Co parenting is not what I considered being a single parent but obviously I'm wrong.
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Some people can get really offended it’s bizarre! I was a single parent but I didn’t get mad if anyone I knew called themselves one if they had the babies dad coparenting with them. Everyone’s situation is different. I can’t imagine having a partner there hands on then all of a sudden being alone. Even if your child goes to their other parents, while they are in your care you’ve all of a sudden gone from “oh just popping in the shower/to the shops” to being tied to a baby. It was all I knew but must be hard when you break up never mind the added emotion into that
 
Fishnips said:
To be fair to Charlie too
She's very young and very insecure. And everybody wants to keep that family unit together. I'm a massive advocate of not staying together for the kids but I fully understand why people do, and I'd really struggle if I split with my baby's dad (though we barely get time together). She's so used to being with Brett, it's all she's really known, she's had a baby with him and a first home with him and all that stuff. Now she's dealing with a break up as well as the fact she'll be "sharing" Harlow for the rest of their lives, Brett will eventually get with somebody else and she won't be able to ignore it, Harlow will be spending time around the new person, there will be separate holidays and birthdays and Christmas, she's probably stressed about her finances etc. To make comments that social services will get involved because she's upset sat in the same room as her daughter is awful!
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I didn’t say they “WOULD” get involved I said you need to be careful what you post on social media exposing every aspect of your life to people you don’t no Isn’t a wise thing to do as there are nasty people out there what would do something like that for example screenshots have been took off her personal Snapchat of her doing balloons at the weekend and people have even posted them on here next minute she’s really struggling and crying so that looks like a girl who’s all over the show who’s in charge of a minor and no I’m not saying you can’t cry when you have a child but if you don’t want back lashes from the things you post then don’t post it coz like I said some people are nasty and she she know this seeing as half the people on here have done nothing but slate her for everything now all of a sudden she’s crying your all licking her arse like she’s amazing grace hypocrites springs to mind 🐸☕️
 
Danielle91 said:
I didn’t say they “WOULD” get involved I said you need to be careful what you post on social media exposing every aspect of your life to people you don’t no Isn’t a wise thing to do as there are nasty people out there what would do something like that for example screenshots have been took off her personal Snapchat of her doing balloons at the weekend and people have even posted them on here next minute she’s really struggling and crying so that looks like a girl who’s all over the show who’s in charge of a minor and no I’m not saying you can’t cry when you have a child but if you don’t want back lashes from the things you post then don’t post it coz like I said some people are nasty and she she know this seeing as half the people on here have done nothing but slate her for everything now all of a sudden she’s crying your all licking her arse like she’s amazing grace hypocrites springs to mind 🐸☕
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Longest. Sentence. EVER.
 
Geemem said:
Why can’t she just send it back, not really a waste is it 😂 i darent comment on her insta incase she takes the huff and blocks me and I miss out in seeing things 🕵🏻‍♂️
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Not sure if everywhere is taking returns at the minute and some car places are weird about returns. But probably was a ploy to get Brett to contact her.

CoolMom said:
Longest. Sentence. EVER.
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First of all, nearly suffocated reading that. Second she’s hardly “all over the show” with tears in her eyes and saying she’s struggling.
Yes she really does need to be careful about what she puts on SM as people might be nasty saying she’s got all her body hanging out 👀 No ones licking anyone’s arse, this is a gossip site, some things shouldn’t be talked about 🤷🏻‍♀️ You can gossip about people and the daft things they do without being a complete hole.

ETA quoted wrong post soz 😆
 
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