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pixieshix said:
That’s it she is just a teenager . She’s young . When I was younger there wasn’t the internet and social media , so when I broke up with someone the only option was to ring their house phone to chat to a mate. Or physically knock on for someone. Perhaps she isn’t getting that support off her family ? I know when I’ve tried in the past to speak to my own parents about some issues I’ve been having they have been dismissive and it has made me feel worse. Maybe it’s the same for her ?
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It defo is because remember that scene in the cafe, she told her mum she cried last night and her mum actually looked her up and down and made her feel like she was stupid, offered no sympathy and in the end Charlie was just like ‘yeah was a bit stupid’ ... her mum seems vile in my opinion
 
Fishnips said:
Again with the "everybody is arse licking" comments. 🙄 Nobody is arse licking, at the same time nobody is (or should be) here to just rip apart every single thing anybody does. That's bullying, not gossiping. Yes Tattlers do make fun of stuff, but they also give credit where it is due and don't just rip people apart for no reason. Nobody wants to see people suffering and alone.

It's clearly a sensitive subject so I think it should be left here. I just don't think it's right to start screaming arse lickers when people don't wish to see a young girl upset and hoping she gets support.
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I’ve seen plenty of people ripping people apart on here for nothing actually that’s all you do see For example one minute people are calling Charlotte a scruff bag and she needs to clean her floors etc then she mops them and cleans up then it’s she could of put her pots away before taking a picture or them floors don’t look clean to me or omg why are the twins strapped in high chairs whilst she’s mopping so to me people do rip people apart for everything they do On here so that’s a lie
 
Danielle91 said:
Yeah I do have a lot of rage about people throwing the ill ness around like it’s a common cold having a bad day or two or feeling abit down doesnt Always mean depression & it rages me when people milk it
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But no one here is ‘millking’ it so what is your point unless you’re implying Charlie is milking it?


Danielle91 said:
I’ve seen plenty of people ripping people apart on here for nothing actually that’s all you do see For example one minute people are calling Charlotte a scruff bag and she needs to clean her floors etc then she mops them and cleans up then it’s she could of put her pots away before taking a picture or them floors don’t look clean to me or omg why are the twins strapped in high chairs whilst she’s mopping so to me people do rip people apart for everything they do On here so that’s a lie
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Bit of a difference between criticising someone’s floor, which is something that is easily fixed with a mop, and implying they don’t have depression because they don’t act the ‘right’ way on social media.
 
I also have to agree with Danielle's point of 'depression' and 'mental health' been thrown around way too freely these days. Having a bad day -depressed, struggling with ordinary life stress- anxiety. Mental health is a real serious issue for SOME people but it does get overused by people who just want an excuse for their own crappy behaviour, the effect is the seriousness of those problems are diluted, the stigma is heightened rather than reduced and everyone is seen as a 'faker', for some people its like the new bad back.
 
Danielle91 said:
She has a sister and dad she posts about and sees and speaks highly of I’m sure they would help her out in a heartbeat no questions asked she would certainly get more help off them than her followers she doesn’t no or even follow back or what about the friends she was out with at the weekend they must love and care for her I’m not saying I don’t feel for her I’m saying she’s looking for help in the wrong places that’s all I would be absolutely devastated if I knew my child or family member was posting things like that and not coming to me for the help and support they need
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And maybe she Dosent feel comfortable approaching her family members?! Just because there family Dosent automatically mean that your able to spill your heart out to them whenever your upset, I know that I wouldn’t be able to. Personallly, I think it’s easier opening up to strangers online(her followers) which she might not of even done. You can’t decide whether someone’s cry for help is real or not! Whether that be to strangers or your mum, it’s still a cry for help! And maybe the real reason why people don’t open up about there feelings is because people shoot them down and try to invalidate them.
 
MrOnions said:
SHE DID NOT SAY SHE WAS DEPRESSED SHE SAID ‘STRUGGLING’ THE ONLY PEOPLE THROWING THE TERM AROUND NOW ARE THE COMMENTERS ON THIS THREAD. STOP ARGUING ABOUT SOMETHING THAT NEVER HAPPENED
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People started to use the term ‘depressed’ because someone posted that she had suffered with pre/post natal depression before. So I think that’s where the assumptions came from😂
 
Danielle91 said:
I’ve seen plenty of people ripping people apart on here for nothing actually that’s all you do see For example one minute people are calling Charlotte a scruff bag and she needs to clean her floors etc then she mops them and cleans up then it’s she could of put her pots away before taking a picture or them floors don’t look clean to me or omg why are the twins strapped in high chairs whilst she’s mopping so to me people do rip people apart for everything they do On here so that’s a lie
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Well a second ago you were saying we're arselickers now I'm lying for saying we don't just rip people apart so which is it?

You seem upset that people aren't bullying somebody who is clearly having a rough time and YES people break up all the time and become single parents all the time, doesn't make it any less hurtful or stressful. I said nobody does OR SHOULD BE ripping people apart for everything they do. There's clearly something personal here so I'm just going to stop.


As far as family/friends go, I know it's been said a lot in previous threads that it seems Charlie asks daft questions on her stories e.g. where can I buy shorts because she wants the interaction as much as anything. I think if she was close enough to confide in her family she'd have probably gone to stay there with Harlow? Who knows.
 
Geemem said:
I may be of the small minority that doesn’t feel bad for her. Do we forget that we are all in the same boat here cooped up. Most of us sticking by the rules and not escaping the house to see friends and suck on balloons🙃 yes she’s gone through a break up, but it’s not a new thing for her, we know from the show it was always rocky. Did she honestly think that he’d stick around with the way she treated him constantly. Her behaviour is probably absolutely draining mentally to Brett. And no i don’t like him either 😂 I think they’re both rude people, however in a relationship there’s no need to treat the other person badly.
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Well said 😊

ForTheDrama said:
I also have to agree with Danielle's point of 'depression' and 'mental health' been thrown around way too freely these days. Having a bad day -depressed, struggling with ordinary life stress- anxiety. Mental health is a real serious issue for SOME people but it does get overused by people who just want an excuse for their own crappy behaviour, the effect is the seriousness of those problems are diluted, the stigma is heightened rather than reduced and everyone is seen as a 'faker', for some people its like the new bad back.
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Thank you depression and mental
Health is a close subject to me and that’s all I was saying there’s a difference between having a bad day and abit of a rough patch in life it doesn’t have to be depression and tbf it’s people on here who’s saying because she’s cried on her post she’s depressed Charlie didn’t actually post “I am depressed” x
 
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_basic_ said:
I agree with the Shannon comment but seems like a product goes around all of them at once as all of a sudden they are drinking flat tummy shakes 😆 glad she got rid of Charlie tho.

Charlie isn’t an adult tho she’s to be fair an immature young girl and everyone is on a learning curve. I’ll bet 90% of girls her age and boys! Will use SM for attention for something like this. Just because she has a child doesn’t mean she automatically acts like an adult, but she’ll learn from her mistakes.

I’m still fairly new here and don’t mind a debate, and can get sucked into a derailment. But I have noticed some people come on here to just be genuinely nasty about someone, and then disappear when no one agrees with them.

Anyway, anyone got charlottes snapchat? 😁
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Charpops.x
 
Danielle91 said:
Well said 😊


Thank you depression and mental
Health is a close subject to me and that’s all I was saying there’s a difference between having a bad day and abit of a rough patch in life it doesn’t have to be depression and tbf it’s people on here who’s saying because she’s cried on her post she’s depressed Charlie didn’t actually post “I am depressed” x
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But she actually was diagnosed with depression?
 
Not saying Charlie doesnt have depression or anything, I have no idea if she does or not but a few years ago when I had Instagram it blew up pretty quick in the years and I ended up having soical media training, its different depending on the amount of followers but it was basically telling you what to post to gain engagement so asking a question in the caption bla bla... but then a few of the brand deals and gifting and collabs and stuff, it would tell you do make your followers worried or make it obvious your sad or Ill so brands and companies want to "cheer you up" and send a gift, it said to do that once every 6 weeks. Same with hospital visits or doctors, make them aware your at the hospital but dont tell them why for a few days or a week.

Not sure if shes doing this, she might not of gone through the same media training as me though.

Btw I didnt pretend to be sad or depressed for any free wax melts 🤣🤣
 
Princess_pie139 said:
I wanna know why he split up with his fiance! Broke up, got back together, proposed now split up again! He loves himself when single just posts pics of his posing and his awful teeth
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Omg I was wondering this! Did either of them ever address it? When I got my new Instagram Zach went private but yesterday I went back after a while now there’s barely a sign she existed and he’s gone public!

I feel bad for all their kids thinking they’ll be together all of them
 
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