Teen Mum Young & Pregnant UK #7

[Bec3007]

@Danielle91 First off I’m sorry for your fathers passing. Have you gotten any help for it at all? I ask because you seem to have a lot of rage around the topic of depression. As someone who suffers with mental health, I think your comments were really insensitive. Also just so we are clear, my anxiety played up last year and I spoke to my HV and she had nothing but kind words to say. That’s the thing, when people do suffer from mental health, more often than not people like HV or social services want to help parents, not take their children away. Don’t try to scare people, that’s a dick move.

 

[Mummm00]

I may just not read this thread anymore it’s rarely about the programme now and about everyone else

 

[Bec3007]

I know ill get a warning for this but I don’t really care. This is the only thread on here where I’ve seen so many people moan daily about what’s posted. People are allowed to comment their opinions and experiences, if you don’t like it then scroll on. Yes I’m a bit of a bleep but I draw a line when it comes to trying to scare teenage girls with social services comments or belittling someone’s mental health because it doesn’t fit in with their ‘stereotype’. If my boring comment offends you so much, my bad, but they all read here and I wanted to let a young girl know that it’s ok to feel the way she does and that nothing bad will come of it.

I await the reports of this comment and I’ll enjoy my warning

 

[Bostonx]

@Bec3007, Sometimes feel that too. Whiles we do derail on here it's often comes from a subject we are talking about when talking about the people on the show. A few times there can be more comments of people complaining about what's being talked about than what's being talked about

 

[Armagh556]

Charlie's obviously waiting for brett to bring harlow

This is embarrassing how obvious

I know ill get a warning for this but I don’t really care. This is the only thread on here where I’ve seen so many people moan daily about what’s posted. People are allowed to comment their opinions and experiences, if you don’t like it then scroll on. Yes I’m a bit of a bleep but I draw a line when it comes to trying to scare teenage girls with social services comments or belittling someone’s mental health because it doesn’t fit in with their ‘stereotype’. If my boring comment offends you so much, my bad, but they all read here and I wanted to let a young girl know that it’s ok to feel the way she does and that nothing bad will come of it.

I await the reports of this comment and I’ll enjoy my warning

Why would you get a warning this is true? I’m new to this thread

There is no "proper depression" it isn't one size fits all. Some people talk about it and some people don't. Some people look fine and others don't. Sick of explaining that mental health isn't once size fits all on here.

I don't post about my depression on social media. When I leave the house I don't "look depressed" whatever that look is. But the world didn't see the energy it took to have a wash and look like the person I show the world. So I look presentable, wearing makeup, having my hair done. Can't see I suffer with self harming. It just really isn't the same for everyone..

My mum had depression for years before she passed + I have to agree! It’s an illness +not one size fits all. Different people cope differently and have different coping mechanisms + people “feel” emotions differently too

 

[Gossandposh]

Charlotte seems to be at connor’s by her snapchat stories. Which only means one thing, Donna is on her own at her house and if she’s as bad as she says and can’t do anything herself then how on earth is she getting by? I could be wrong so don’t jump down my throat but just a thought

If Donna was as bad as they said she wouldn't be going out she be isolating...

 

[Sj888]

Social services isn’t necessary, Charlie may benefit from some support from early help or even just attending a YAPS group for young mums she is newly single and needs a bit of support for herself and Harlow, the crying picture is probably for brett to see so he will take her back

 

[Danielle91]

@Danielle91 First off I’m sorry for your fathers passing. Have you gotten any help for it at all? I ask because you seem to have a lot of rage around the topic of depression. As someone who suffers with mental health, I think your comments were really insensitive. Also just so we are clear, my anxiety played up last year and I spoke to my HV and she had nothing but kind words to say. That’s the thing, when people do suffer from mental health, more often than not people like HV or social services want to help parents, not take their children away. Don’t try to scare people, that’s a dick move.

Yeah I do have a lot of rage about people throwing the ill ness around like it’s a common cold having a bad day or two or feeling abit down doesnt Always mean depression & it rages me when people milk it

 

[Bloom95]

My dad killed him self he had proper depression the one that you wouldn’t discuss on social media to loads of people you don’t know the one that you find it hard to talk about to just anyone when your that badly depressed you barely want to talk to anyone never mind be on social media posting your every move you don’t hardly want to get out of bed in the morning and it’s a hard to get dressed every day never mind putting your 50 inch lashes on face full of make up extensions in just to post a picture of your self In skimpy pjs acting seductively sorry but know this isn’t the behaviour of someone who’s depressed and or not coping ..... FACT

Im truly sorry to hear about your dad, I can’t imagine how painful that must have been for you.
However please dont forget that depression can show itself in many, many forms. So what seems “normal” for one depressed person, may not be the same for another - I speak from personal experience when I say that not all depressed people express it by going into a hole and not wanting to talk about it. Lets not treat it as a one size fits all thing, as that’s most certainly not the case x

 

[pixieshix]

Charlie seems to have had some messages going from her key post . Should imagine it’s hard for her, being on her own with Harlow when Brett is at his mums with his family around . His Instagram of him
having a few drinks , while the realisation of their split in sinking in for her . While she’s alone at home . Like someone said she’s stuck her lashes on, put some make up , dressed up took some racy pics. Had a night of drinking , and now the realisation is more than likely sinking in . Just to add she never said she was depressed she was struggling . Anyone with kids knows it’s not all smiles , rainbows and family crafts . It’s hard and at times you do feel like your struggling .

 

[Fishnips]

I didn’t say they “WOULD” get involved I said you need to be careful what you post on social media exposing every aspect of your life to people you don’t no Isn’t a wise thing to do as there are nasty people out there what would do something like that for example screenshots have been took off her personal Snapchat of her doing balloons at the weekend and people have even posted them on here next minute she’s really struggling and crying so that looks like a girl who’s all over the show who’s in charge of a minor and no I’m not saying you can’t cry when you have a child but if you don’t want back lashes from the things you post then don’t post it coz like I said some people are nasty and she she know this seeing as half the people on here have done nothing but slate her for everything now all of a sudden she’s crying your all licking her arse like she’s amazing grace hypocrites springs to mind

Again with the "everybody is arse licking" comments. Nobody is arse licking, at the same time nobody is (or should be) here to just rip apart every single thing anybody does. That's bullying, not gossiping. Yes Tattlers do make fun of stuff, but they also give credit where it is due and don't just rip people apart for no reason. Nobody wants to see people suffering and alone.

It's clearly a sensitive subject so I think it should be left here. I just don't think it's right to start screaming arse lickers when people don't wish to see a young girl upset and hoping she gets support.

 

[Gossandposh]

Don't understand why she would post herself crying on social media. Wouldn't you call a friend or someone not post it for the world to see.. it's what pubescent teenagers do and she has a one year old should be grown up and realise what she posts. Yes she may be going through a hard time but ain't we all... I'm away from family friends in a different country but I dont post it on my social media I vent to people because that's the adult thing to do end of story

Used to like shannon until she continuously posted paid ads to her followers go and get a real job love... instead of trying to sell crap to people

 

[Newbie]

And breathe!

I didn’t say they “WOULD” get involved I said you need to be careful what you post on social media exposing every aspect of your life to people you don’t no Isn’t a wise thing to do as there are nasty people out there what would do something like that for example screenshots have been took off her personal Snapchat of her doing balloons at the weekend and people have even posted them on here next minute she’s really struggling and crying so that looks like a girl who’s all over the show who’s in charge of a minor and no I’m not saying you can’t cry when you have a child but if you don’t want back lashes from the things you post then don’t post it coz like I said some people are nasty and she she know this seeing as half the people on here have done nothing but slate her for everything now all of a sudden she’s crying your all licking her arse like she’s amazing grace hypocrites springs to mind

 

[Gossandposh]

And breathe!

You put yourself in the public eye and pst crap luke that people will say something... I know my mum would go mad if I posted tit like that... and sure she was only with Brett for a few months before getting pregnant what did she expect

You put yourself in the public eye and post crap like that people will say something... I know my mum would go mad if I posted tit like that... and sure she was only with Brett for a few months before getting pregnant what did she expect

 

[pixieshix]

Don't understand why she would post herself crying on social media. Wouldn't you call a friend or someone not post it for the world to see.. it's what pubescent teenagers do and she has a one year old should be grown up and realise what she posts. Yes she may be going through a hard time but ain't we all... I'm away from family friends in a different country but I dont post it on my social media I vent to people because that's the adult thing to do end of story

Used to like shannon until she continuously posted paid ads to her followers go and get a real job love... instead of trying to sell crap to people

That’s it she is just a teenager . She’s young . When I was younger there wasn’t the internet and social media , so when I broke up with someone the only option was to ring their house phone to chat to a mate. Or physically knock on for someone. Perhaps she isn’t getting that support off her family ? I know when I’ve tried in the past to speak to my own parents about some issues I’ve been having they have been dismissive and it has made me feel worse. Maybe it’s the same for her ?

 

[_basic_]

Don't understand why she would post herself crying on social media. Wouldn't you call a friend or someone not post it for the world to see.. it's what pubescent teenagers do and she has a one year old should be grown up and realise what she posts. Yes she may be going through a hard time but ain't we all... I'm away from family friends in a different country but I dont post it on my social media I vent to people because that's the adult thing to do end of story

Used to like shannon until she continuously posted paid ads to her followers go and get a real job love... instead of trying to sell crap to people

I agree with the Shannon comment but seems like a product goes around all of them at once as all of a sudden they are drinking flat tummy shakes glad she got rid of Charlie tho.

Charlie isn’t an adult tho she’s to be fair an immature young girl and everyone is on a learning curve. I’ll bet 90% of girls her age and boys! Will use SM for attention for something like this. Just because she has a child doesn’t mean she automatically acts like an adult, but she’ll learn from her mistakes.

I’m still fairly new here and don’t mind a debate, and can get sucked into a derailment. But I have noticed some people come on here to just be genuinely nasty about someone, and then disappear when no one agrees with them.

Anyway, anyone got charlottes snapchat?

 

[Geemem]

Don't understand why she would post herself crying on social media. Wouldn't you call a friend or someone not post it for the world to see.. it's what pubescent teenagers do and she has a one year old should be grown up and realise what she posts. Yes she may be going through a hard time but ain't we all... I'm away from family friends in a different country but I dont post it on my social media I vent to people because that's the adult thing to do end of story

Used to like shannon until she continuously posted paid ads to her followers go and get a real job love... instead of trying to sell crap to people

I may be of the small minority that doesn’t feel bad for her. Do we forget that we are all in the same boat here cooped up. Most of us sticking by the rules and not escaping the house to see friends and suck on balloons yes she’s gone through a break up, but it’s not a new thing for her, we know from the show it was always rocky. Did she honestly think that he’d stick around with the way she treated him constantly. Her behaviour is probably absolutely draining mentally to Brett. And no i don’t like him either I think they’re both rude people, however in a relationship there’s no need to treat the other person badly.

 

[Mummm00]

I may be of the small minority that doesn’t feel bad for her. Do we forget that we are all in the same boat here cooped up. Most of us sticking by the rules and not escaping the house to see friends and suck on balloons yes she’s gone through a break up, but it’s not a new thing for her, we know from the show it was always rocky. Did she honestly think that he’d stick around with the way she treated him constantly. Her behaviour is probably absolutely draining mentally to Brett. And no i don’t like him either I think they’re both rude people, however in a relationship there’s no need to treat the other person badly.

Didn’t want to say anything in case I got back lash but you’ve took the words right out of my mouth

 

[ForTheDrama]

Honestly as much as I have a tiny smidgen of sympathy for Charlie, I don't 'feel for her' in particular. She a young girl with a huge mouth and can have a nasty tongue (from what we have seen), been on TMUKYP has given her the 'celebrity status' that makes her believe she can speak to people however she likes because she is queen charlie. Maybe there are some lessons for her to learn here, like what goes around comes around. Shape up or ship out, think Brett would take her back in a heartbeat if she somehow showed she valued and respected him.

 

[daes56]

Does this give anyone else major anxiety? All those blankets she sleeps with AND the dummy clip