coconochanel
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When SCD first started it was just a light hearted Saturday night fun where some celebs who couldn't dance came out every week and had a go at the Tango, Cha Cha etc.
Is there a reason they are referred to as Karen's and not any other name, I've always wondered this.I believe you use the phrase - the Karens on Facebook. Might it be a good time to stop using that descriptor. You recognise there is an issue and using Karen is just adding to it.
The thing is they shouldn't need chaperones it's supposed to be a light entertainment show!I wonder if having chaperones in the training rooms at all times will limit the amount of hours they can train? I’m not sure 12 hour days will happen now, or training until 10pm.
Imagine any right thinking person, when confronted with abuse allegations about a colleauge saying.
"Well he's good to MY mother". Sweet Jes*s, words fail me. It would be hilarious if it wasn't such a serious matter.
Shirley Ballas shame on you.
My understanding is that they didn't see the video until last week. There was a report of abuse, which presumably he denied. Not defending them. They should have put her with someone else, and Amanda too, as soon as there were issues. Presumably one thing encouraging G +G was the knowledge that action probably wasn't going to be taken.Sorry but i think it should be cancelled, for this year atleast, but they won't because it's their big anniversary year, and that's all that matters.
The bbc in yet another cover up. Why wouldn't they have sacked Graziano straight away after seeing the footage, then put Zara with another partner (if she wanted), and with Amanda they could have atleast put her with another partner while Gio was investigated. They clearly don't care about the welfare of the contestants.
I think it started as the idea of a charicature of a middle aged woman with a particular hairdo being the type who normally complained to the manager and for some reason it was decided she was probably called Karen.Is there a reason they are referred to as Karen's and not any other name, I've always wondered this.
I was called a Karen the other day because I have short hair. I wish a haircut could make me a good complainer as I’m very British about complaining and am more likely to smile and say it’s fine whilst inwardly seething.I think it started as the idea of a charicature of a middle aged woman with a particular hairdo being the type who normally complained to the manager and for some reason it was decided she was probably called Karen.
Shirley’s ‘ten pence’ on Giovanni’s character annoyed me to my core.What a ridiculous comment. Men who are abusers don’t go round beating everybody up do they?!
It's also down to the fact that if abusers were nasty all of the time, people would not be taken in by them. So they can switch on the charm, at will, and the person they are abusing starts to doubt themselves. And on it goes in a vicious circle. I hope that your friend is okay now.Shirley’s ‘ten pence’ on Giovanni’s character annoyed me to my core.
My friend was with a guy who abused her, to most people, you’d think he was the loveliest guy. It’s what’s called a narcissist and they can put on the charm when needed!
They had to do this really.Strictly Come Dancing: BBC to introduce chaperones in rehearsal rooms
A member of production staff will be in all rehearsals following complaints about two former dancers.www.bbc.co.uk
Chaperones at all rehearsals.
My understanding is that they didn't see the video until last week. There was a report of abuse, which presumably he denied. Not defending them. They should have put her with someone else, and Amanda too, as soon as there were issues. Presumably one thing encouraging G +G was the knowledge that action probably wasn't going to be taken.
I’m not a Shirley fan at all, but I didn’t think her comments where that biased - she said not to believe everything you read (fair), that she hadn’t ever experienced anything negative from him (fair, she was asked a direct question) and something about the investigation will get to the bottom of it, I don’t think she could say much more really? I think it must be hard for the dancers and crew who’ve worked with the pros and never seen these sides before to reconcile the person they think they know and this other person (obviously not as hard as it is for the people impacted directly, before anyone comes for me).I don’t think it should be scrapped. That would be punishing all the staff that work on it and reliant on the money - assuming that includes the brave whistleblowers.
I do think they need to make a stand though. I think the boss should go as should the head judge who has been unprofessional not just in her nasty biased judging but also her recent comments about FR.
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Weirdly I’ve never seen an Argentine Tango that involves spitting on your dance partner. Maybe that’s one for the after show BDSM polyamorous orgies (the real strictly scandal )
I agree and the people suggesting otherwise and trying to understand the mind of someone who suffered abuse is strange to meIn regards to SM and Zara continuing to dance with Graziano, a lot of those sorts of things are not organic they are agreed upon with the folk who represent them be it management or PR some of those things may have been agreed upon with their teams making it difficult for Zara to back out.
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