I don’t get it - why wouldn’t you want to be present during a c-section? Even if it’s not the preferred way to give birth, I mean it’s still the birth of your baby, like why the hell would she want to dissociate ??
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I felt the same way! He just wanted to know the plan and she and her mother weren’t reacting really nice.
and what’s that talk about Labour feeling more clinical in a hospital. I mean obviously a hospital is a clinical environment. But how can Labour feel more clinical ?
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I felt the same way! He just wanted to know the plan and she and her mother weren’t reacting really nice.
and what’s that talk about Labour feeling more clinical in a hospital. I mean obviously a hospital is a clinical environment. But how can Labour feel more clinical ?
I don’t know what possessed me to watch the vlog but half way through and I actually feel a bit bad for Kurt. He seems unsure the plan, and clearly they haven’t talked about it. To call him your birth partner, but then scoff at him when he asks when to grab your hospital bag is gross. He left when you asked, came back in a calm manner and is doing all your ridiculous vlogging for you. He surely gets nit picked for every little thing and it’s obvious his self esteem and trust have taken a hit. I don’t like him, but can empathize with living with a narcissist who constantly lies, or finds flaws with everything you do. The loud moaning for hours is so strange to me. I have PCOS as well as fibroids which often means intense pain. I would never want my partner around for it, as it feels personal to be in that state? He’s helpful and soothing but men can’t understand that type of pain so I don’t need to be perceived during it. Maybe that’s just me though, clearly Sez loves that attention.
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Update. They have just gotten to the hospital and I swear you’d think it was Halloween with her ghostly whaling. I’m all for women embracing the process of birth but this is so performative
“lifeless” 
