Sarah’s Day #77 3rd pregnancy over and out, another child to use for clout

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pepsi_max_love said:
Hm I’m not sure but it feels like a cop out to suggest she has postpartum depression. I feel like that condition in my mind is reserved for individuals who aren’t struggling because of their own choices and selfish desires. But perhaps I’m off the mark.

Sarah definitely lacked that telltale pregnant puffy face. Which I personally think is a beautiful part of pregnancy!!
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I agree about the pregnant puffy face! I never even thought about that. Even the thinnest of women seem to get that puffy face especially at the end. Look at Holly Kingston. She’s normally TiNY - like Sarah. Even Beth had a bit of fullness to her face towards the end. Sarah literally looked like a skeleton her entire pregnancy - even at full term.

It’s crazy how she can’t comprehend that her actions could have potentially caused this.
Not only was H a tinnnny baby (which means he is likely going to have feeding issues) whether that’s due to Sarah starving herself or just genetics I mean we’ll never know. But the fact that from quite early on she was trying to induce him! Instead of letting him come when he wants she was doing evvvvverything to bring him on because SHE was over it.
 
this ad just popped up on my IG feed, Sezzy??
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PiperPepper said:
I believe she has tried all of those things. But I also belive she would expect one thing to fix everything with not just one day but with one feed. So she cuts out garlic and the baby still has reflux after next feed. Must not be garlic. On to the next solution. And yes its probably just a little milk coming back up, but as we know Sarah she has to paint it really dramatic and name it "severe" vomiting.
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Ahahaha look this was me as a ftm but I have extreme anxiety and I have PPD/PPA really bad. I could never give it the 2 weeks. It was always like it should be instant. My husband had to take over because I was so cooked thinking it should be instant. I however got help in the meantime. She needs to do the same
 
I would have more respect for her if she just came out and said “look I underestimated how tough a newborn would be and how hard struggling three kids would be”, why does everything always have to be this extremely curated narrative with her?

It’s not like she’s struggling because she has three kids, no no no, it’s this very special circumstance that makes her life way harder than everyone else’s. Nothing can ever just be her putting her hand up and saying she’s struggling, it has to be this narrative of how all these things are going wrong, it’s like she can’t be like “yeah I’m struggling like other mums be”, it always needs to be that she’s a victim of something bigger.
 
pepsi_max_love said:
Hm I’m not sure but it feels like a cop out to suggest she has postpartum depression. I feel like that condition in my mind is reserved for individuals who aren’t struggling because of their own choices and selfish desires. But perhaps I’m off the mark.

Sarah definitely lacked that telltale pregnant puffy face. Which I personally think is a beautiful part of pregnancy!!
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I am one of those people who also does not think she has PPD. I just think she’s a head with an ED and narcissistic tendencies. I feel like saying she has PPD is insulting to the women that actually do.
 
pippyforyou said:
I would have more respect for her if she just came out and said “look I underestimated how tough a newborn would be and how hard struggling three kids would be”, why does everything always have to be this extremely curated narrative with her?

It’s not like she’s struggling because she has three kids, no no no, it’s this very special circumstance that makes her life way harder than everyone else’s. Nothing can ever just be her putting her hand up and saying she’s struggling, it has to be this narrative of how all these things are going wrong, it’s like she can’t be like “yeah I’m struggling like other mums be”, it always needs to be that she’s a victim of something bigger.
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Exactly! She HAS to be better than everyone so the ONLY reason she's suffering is it's the WORST type of issue (colic, reflux etc) for her.
 
recoveryqueen said:
I bet talk of an accidental fourth will stop after this experience 😅 I wouldn't even be surprised if a vasectomy was on the cards. No way she's deluded enough to think she could handle more after this, right???
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Kurt should go and get the snip asap. IMO if you dont get one you are basically saying you’re not done having kids and are happy for an “accident” to happen
 
Sarah is a good reminder that you can be mentally ill AND a head. Even rich, unpleasant women can have PPD/PPA. This current thread just feels like snarkers doing mental gymnastics to deny Sarah's "right" to be mentally ill in order to feel less bad about snarking on someone with a condition you would otherwise feel obligated to pity/excuse/support 🤷‍♀️
 
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Please feel sorry for me !! 🤍
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What did she expect with 3 kids. Why she even had 2 baffles me immensely. She is the least maternal person and is way too self absorbed to give anything to anyone .. let alone 3 kids who just want to be shown real love by their mum. I strongly believe they will have struggle in future relationships with various attachment issues because of the lack of care they felt when they were kids.
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shoppingismycardio said:
bleeping hell! How old is this kid? Like 4 weeks? How about give each thing a chance to settle/work before moving onto the next thing?
I’ve had two colicky (one also had reflux) babies and with both the first 6 months were hell on earth, but we gave each thing a minimum of a week to work before trying something new
And honestly some babies are just whingey little assholes and they are miserable, but they grow out of it. Most of the time anyway - looks like Sarah hasn’t 😂😂😂
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I doubt she has actually done any of that. She would just be palming off people's suggestions. FFS he is 4 weeks old give him a break and let him settle in to been outside the womb. She probably moves him around too much and he gets motion sickness and she is confusing it with reflux.
 
I don’t know what possessed me to watch the vlog but half way through and I actually feel a bit bad for Kurt. He seems unsure the plan, and clearly they haven’t talked about it. To call him your birth partner, but then scoff at him when he asks when to grab your hospital bag is gross. He left when you asked, came back in a calm manner and is doing all your ridiculous vlogging for you. He surely gets nit picked for every little thing and it’s obvious his self esteem and trust have taken a hit. I don’t like him, but can empathize with living with a narcissist who constantly lies, or finds flaws with everything you do. The loud moaning for hours is so strange to me. I have PCOS as well as fibroids which often means intense pain. I would never want my partner around for it, as it feels personal to be in that state? He’s helpful and soothing but men can’t understand that type of pain so I don’t need to be perceived during it. Maybe that’s just me though, clearly Sez loves that attention.
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ACLACL said:
I don’t know what possessed me to watch the vlog but half way through and I actually feel a bit bad for Kurt. He seems unsure the plan, and clearly they haven’t talked about it. To call him your birth partner, but then scoff at him when he asks when to grab your hospital bag is gross. He left when you asked, came back in a calm manner and is doing all your ridiculous vlogging for you. He surely gets nit picked for every little thing and it’s obvious his self esteem and trust have taken a hit. I don’t like him, but can empathize with living with a narcissist who constantly lies, or finds flaws with everything you do. The loud moaning for hours is so strange to me. I have PCOS as well as fibroids which often means intense pain. I would never want my partner around for it, as it feels personal to be in that state? He’s helpful and soothing but men can’t understand that type of pain so I don’t need to be perceived during it. Maybe that’s just me though, clearly Sez loves that attention.
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Update. They have just gotten to the hospital and I swear you’d think it was Halloween with her ghostly whaling. I’m all for women embracing the process of birth but this is so performative 😳
 
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android_x said:
Sarah is a good reminder that you can be mentally ill AND a head. Even rich, unpleasant women can have PPD/PPA. This current thread just feels like snarkers doing mental gymnastics to deny Sarah's "right" to be mentally ill in order to feel less bad about snarking on someone with a condition you would otherwise feel obligated to pity/excuse/support 🤷‍♀️
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I’d say the perception of ‘mental gymnastics’ you’re getting has come about from the lack of sympathy many here feel toward her.
Not denying she may have a condition but it’s hard to feel pity/excuse/support given the way she clearly exploits the insecurities of women for clicks and dollars.
For me personally, I find her ‘look at me I’m so skinny when pregnant’ + ‘I’m 2 weeks postpartum and going to workout’ just plain evil. Then add the usual medical misinformation and general lies for clicks.
Sez is a brand, a company - she makes a hell of a lot of money off her followers. She shows no moral sense of accountability toward them and prays on their vulnerabilities. So yeah, no sympathy or support here
 
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