One Day of Winter #2 Slop for dinner, nips on tap, Dads not allowed to help with naps!

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I am absolutely sick to death of seeing Raven hanging off her tit. YES PEA WE GET IT, YOU BREASTFEED YOUR 3.5 YEAR OLD.
The smiling really unnerves me. This woman has serious problems.

Also, I though raven had all but weaned at one point or was down to just a feed before sleep ( rather, using Nicola as a dummy) and now she's feeding throughout the day?
 
The recent story on IG is awful... She doesn't even look to be HOLDING her new baby. It looks like ember is just laying on her unsupported

How does it work with colostrum when feeding a child and a newborn? Will ember not get as much as she would if raven was not being breastfed?
 
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Peakyblinders said:
I haven’t got kids yet so asking on here as I don’t know... will a midwife/health visitor pick up on this when they come round and say something to pea?
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when i had mine (a good while) midwives do a post birth visit a day or 2 after discharge and then another a week or so after. usually a visit from health vis at 2/3 months (i think)
they might recommend more conventional sleeping arrangements and will have to give safe sleep advice but she doesn’t have to follow it and while there are no safeguarding concerns there’s nothing more they can really do 🤷🏽‍♀️
 
When I had my day 1 visit from the midwife she asked to see where baby sleeps. The moses basket was downstairs at the time so I just told her that and she didn't go up...unsure if they do this in all areas though
 
FraggleRock said:
You’re right, she said that ember was unsettled and that woke Raven up, Dean took Ember into another room so Raven could be settled back to sleep and Dean bought Ember back a few hours later!




Pea put in her stories that the baby woke Raven, ember was removed from the shared sleep space so Raven could be settled, not so Pea could get sleep! That isn’t normal to me, I agree their sleep set up is just weird, Dean as of a few weeks ago is now sleeping in another room after being together for 3.5 because his alarms and snoring are suddenly issues after all this time.
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I guess I'm just looking at it that a three year old should be easier to settle than a newborn so she was getting the easier job. Who knows with her though haha
 
Ravens probably only interested in the sausage nips again cause she’ll be jealous of the baby. It’s so so so bleeping weird to film it Nicola. We know you read here, stop putting up videos of your kid sucking on your tits. If not for her own privacy, then at least cause of all the bleeping creeps on the internet these days
 
I feel bad for her, on that clip this morning on her and Ember in the rocking chair I could totally see the "what have I done" moment in her eyes... Except i can only imagine the reality check of attempting to cosleep with a newborn and a 3.5 year old would be a lot worse.. They won't have the energy to attempt any kind of sleeping arrangement that would suit them better now because 1 they're too tired and 2 raven would most likely feel pushed out..
 
SilverSpoonNotIncluded said:
Why didn’t Dean say ‘go to bed with the baby!’ I mean come on Nicola, prioritise yourself for once. Raven is fine she’s with her Dad. Go nap, or just snuggle the baby FFS
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She said that Ember woke Raven so she got Dean to take Ember so she could settle Raven back down and that Dean would bring Ember back when she needed feeding.
 
hogwarts27 said:
I feel bad for her, on that clip this morning on her and Ember in the rocking chair I could totally see the "what have I done" moment in her eyes... Except i can only imagine the reality check of attempting to cosleep with a newborn and a 3.5 year old would be a lot worse.. They won't have the energy to attempt any kind of sleeping arrangement that would suit them better now because 1 they're too tired and 2 raven would most likely feel pushed out..
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She looked so vacant didn’t she, it actually made me sad seeing that, she didn’t appear happy! She says that she’s snuggling the baby in the photo, that’s not a snuggle to me, it kinda seems like she’s a bit disconnected from the baby in a way! When my little boy was newborn he was constantly being snuggled with him on my chest and actually hugging him, this just seems a bit off.
 

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Her Facebook is quite open - there’s some posts about breastfeeding and one woman commented saying she breastfed till 6.5 and Pea commented saying ‘goals’ 🥴

there was also an interesting post about schooling and one of her colleagues called her out on her working in a school and constantly slating it!
 
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