Niomi Smart #86 The woman is having a never ending existential crisis

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Jelly Bean said:
It was ages ago at the beginning of their relationship (first time around).
On a podcast they did Niomi was banging on about how great it was Jamie challenged her. She said she'd wanted to run away a few times and he'd hold her tight to stop her and told her he loved her.
She was telling this gruesome anecdote as a positive thing, that Jamie knew her better than she knew herself. But the basics were he physically restrained her leaving.
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this is giving when a friend tells a story at the dinner table and while they're telling it the whole table goes quiet and starts looking at eachother in shock....
did she not realise this was odd behaviour???
 
kittymeowlondon said:
this is giving when a friend tells a story at the dinner table and while they're telling it the whole table goes quiet and starts looking at eachother in shock....
did she not realise this was odd behaviour???
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It's wierd isn't it? It was when she was going through that phase of saying she recognised the importance of 'surrendering yourself' and acknowledging what is best for you might not be the thing you originally thought it was. Lots of talk of 'challenging your behaviour', turn negatives into positives. Obviously Donkey had been working on her, making her doubt her initial gut instincts to not go out with him and to leave.

Sometimes I hear about people who've been scammed over the phone and think how the hell did they fall for that? It was obviously a scam? But if they get the right people at the right time of vulnerability they can reel them in. That's what Donkey did with her. We all hear his patter and realise he's a opportunistic unpleasant scammer but he was so persistent she started believing it.
 
This was just a minute ago, when I search followers she doesn’t pop up though. I hope this isn’t a sign from the universe… someone send a butterfly to cancel it out.
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Jelly Bean said:
It was ages ago at the beginning of their relationship (first time around).
On a podcast they did Niomi was banging on about how great it was Jamie challenged her. She said she'd wanted to run away a few times and he'd hold her tight to stop her and told her he loved her.
She was telling this gruesome anecdote as a positive thing, that Jamie knew her better than she knew herself. But the basics were he physically restrained her leaving.
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Oh sorry, didn't realize that was what you were referring to (I thought it was something new). You're right, that was super toxic and weird.
 
I think she has been with him too long, and too immersed in her culty lifestyle to leave it behind. Even now she is single I think she will be even more lost now, and dive deeper into all the spirituality to get her through the next period of her life alone. She is so lost, I think she will be even worse with all word salad and woo woo crap she's constantly on about. She's just so brainwashed by it all amd has lost touch with reality for so long and it was her way of coping with losing joey. I really hope she gets the proper therapy she needs now and doesn't go back to bali, but I think she now struggles to be in the uk around normality so she will probs be off travelling somewhere spiritual she can bury her head in the clouds.
 
Littleflojo said:
I think she has been with him too long, and too immersed in her culty lifestyle to leave it behind. Even now she is single I think she will be even more lost now, and dive deeper into all the spirituality to get her through the next period of her life alone. She is so lost, I think she will be even worse with all word salad and woo woo crap she's constantly on about. She's just so brainwashed by it all amd has lost touch with reality for so long and it was her way of coping with losing joey. I really hope she gets the proper therapy she needs now and doesn't go back to bali, but I think she now struggles to be in the uk around normality so she will probs be off travelling somewhere spiritual she can bury her head in the clouds.
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This. It was obvious during the last breakup that she had totally fallen for his faux-spiritual nonsense and I think she’s even deeper into it now than back then. She might have wanted to get rid of him (again) but the „find your path“ callings are right up her street and she will continue to spread those messages even without him.
 
If she actually managed to leave him (I'm still skeptical lol, the same thing happened before) she should change all her social media passwords and maybe emails as well. Jamie strikes me as the type of person to secretly read your private journal and then act like he instinctively knows your thoughts and worries, and works them for his own benefit. We know that his sister practically scouted Niomi like a recon mission before they got together, he definitely knew LOADS more about her then she did about him. Who knows, maybe he was keeping an eye on her in other ways too.
 
pinkmug said:
If she actually managed to leave him (I'm still skeptical lol, the same thing happened before) she should change all her social media passwords and maybe emails as well. Jamie strikes me as the type of person to secretly read your private journal and then act like he instinctively knows your thoughts and worries, and works them for his own benefit. We know that his sister practically scouted Niomi like a recon mission before they got together, he definitely knew LOADS more about her then she did about him. Who knows, maybe he was keeping an eye on her in other ways too.
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OMG yes, I totally agree. Wasn`t there an instance where Niomi said she had been manifesting receiving a flower/gift from Jamie, probably jotting it down in her journal. I can totally picture him reading her journal and then boom! the next day he picks a flower and gives it to her. She is overwhelmed by her emotions, thinking her manifestations actually worked and what does he do next? Actually take his phone and record her crying and relating that "magical" moment that painted him as such a thoughtful boyfriend when in reality he probably just read her journal. Fake, fake, fake. There is not an ounce of authenticity about this guy.
 
waterchaser77 said:
OMG yes, I totally agree. Wasn`t there an instance where Niomi said she had been manifesting receiving a flower/gift from Jamie, probably jotting it down in her journal. I can totally picture him reading her journal and then boom! the next day he picks a flower and gives it to her. She is overwhelmed by her emotions, thinking her manifestations actually worked and what does he do next? Actually take his phone and record her crying and relating that "magical" moment that painted him as such a thoughtful boyfriend when in reality he probably just read her journal. Fake, fake, fake. There is not an ounce of authenticity about this guy.
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I 100% believe he read her journal often becasue when she spoke about how no one should be allowed to read your journal in one of her you tube videos she said it with such conviction it was like she was speaking from experience
 
waterchaser77 said:
OMG yes, I totally agree. Wasn`t there an instance where Niomi said she had been manifesting receiving a flower/gift from Jamie, probably jotting it down in her journal. I can totally picture him reading her journal and then boom! the next day he picks a flower and gives it to her. She is overwhelmed by her emotions, thinking her manifestations actually worked and what does he do next? Actually take his phone and record her crying and relating that "magical" moment that painted him as such a thoughtful boyfriend when in reality he probably just read her journal. Fake, fake, fake. There is not an ounce of authenticity about this guy.
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I was going to post the same thing!
Him presenting her with a flower after she manifested it (why she needed a sign of his devotion is another matter entirely :unsure: ).
But yes he was probably snooping and reading her journal, then gave her the weed with a lot of 'I don't really know why but I felt an overwhelming urge to pick this and give it to you. Almost as though the universe was telling me to'.
 
I suspect that, if she ever bothers to announce the breakup, she's going to make us wait until the New Year.

Princess Niomi couldn't possibly be expected to ✨disturb her own peace✨ by acknowledging reality and giving us an update during the holiday season. :rolleyes: She's going to milk the holiday season bubble as long as possible, and then release a video talking about some New-Year-new-me BS (like she did the last time they broke up).

Product Idea: Feel New Year, New Niomi Tea
 
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