Niomi Smart #86 The woman is having a never ending existential crisis

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frooshh said:
Tbh I don’t think she’s going to address breakup numero 2 at all. She’s just going to start posting holiday content, vlog around London, talk about how happy she is on this next journey of her life. And then maybe a couple weeks or months from now she’ll slip in just one sentence and be like “I’m single but I’ve truly learned to love myself, etc.” and then never talk about it again. I think she’s embarrassed she ever even went back to him at all and doesn’t want to admit that to her viewers.
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To be fair she was so careful not to ever post him I really do think most people who follow her have zero clue she's in a relationship. You'd only need to miss one Instagram "we're back together" story and that was it! She can carry on as normal and eventually soft launch a new relationship and they'll be none the wiser.

I did think she'd eventually get fed up of not being able to show off a new boyfriend- she LOVED showing off how romantic Joe was and going to glam events with him. Part of her love of being in a relationship is showing it off, being smugly loved up etc. This whole Lordon thing must have been so frustrating for her, having a boyfriend but not being able to show it off ever because of how strongly her audience disliked him!
 
Clover123 said:
To be fair she was so careful not to ever post him I really do think most people who follow her have zero clue she's in a relationship. You'd only need to miss one Instagram "we're back together" story and that was it! She can carry on as normal and eventually soft launch a new relationship and they'll be none the wiser.

I did think she'd eventually get fed up of not being able to show off a new boyfriend- she LOVED showing off how romantic Joe was and going to glam events with him. Part of her love of being in a relationship is showing it off, being smugly loved up etc. This whole Lordon thing must have been so frustrating for her, having a boyfriend but not being able to show it off ever because of how strongly her audience disliked him!
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Agree! Maybe she’ll try to pull the whole “showing everything but his face” because she needs everyone to know she’s in a relationship. But eventually I’m sure whoever it is will make a full appearance on her Instagram.
 
Meanwhile, she spends all her energy convincing herself she's vibrating on a higher frequency to us mere mortals. She is so delusional. Her woo-woo fantasy world is going to collide with reality sooner or later, and she will crumple. Fortunately, she has family and wealth to scoop her up
 
I hope that she stays safe. I think she is incredibly brave for leaving a very toxic relationship. It seems like she has set up a game plan to permanantly escape him. This should be applauded.
Looking at his behaviour through this thread, it looks like has already planned on following her, which seems very dangerous for her. I hope she stays safe and has a safe network.
 
BooBoobedoo said:
Looking at his behaviour through this thread, it looks like has already planned on following her, which seems very dangerous for her. I hope she stays safe and has a safe network.
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Yes absolutely, she’ll need a safe, strong support network whilst she navigates this because if she doesn’t he will have his claws straight back into her. It’s great that she appears to have blocked him because the only way out is to be absolutely militant about having zero contact, he’ll latch onto and use the tiniest thing if she gives it to him, again saying this from experience. I know we love to slate her for being all woo woo and smug and entitled and all sorts but even us shadows have to make sure we support her now, no snide comments on her profiles etc, not to say that any of us would do that because we’re not bad people like creepy Lordon…
 
BooBoobedoo said:
I hope that she stays safe. I think she is incredibly brave for leaving a very toxic relationship. It seems like she has set up a game plan to permanantly escape him. This should be applauded.
Looking at his behaviour through this thread, it looks like has already planned on following her, which seems very dangerous for her. I hope she stays safe and has a safe network.
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She’s blocked him but she also needs to be careful what she shares because there are ways and means to see what someone is up to on IG despite being blocked.
 
I don't know about him trying to physically stalk her this time. Of course she should still take precautions to be safe, but I think he likes feeling like he has the upper hand, and now that she's blocked and left him, his ego couldn't handle following HER around when before it was always her going to him.
 
She’s needs to stay in London/Sussex for the next 4-5 months at least. Lordon’s family/base is in Dublin, there is absolutely no reason for him to go to London (and we know he hates it there, that why he was so intent on keeping Niomi anywhere but London). Seriously, she should just stay put and not travel for a while, so he can’t accidentally turn up in some European country where she happens to be.
 
??? ??????
Dimbobs is not fragile by any stretch of the imagination. She's perfectly capable of setting herself up wherever she pleases. 'Hiding' from Lordon is laughable. She's a gold standard witch and walked into her 'second' round with the fruit loop with eyes wide open. I don't see her as a 'victim' either. She knows how to get to the bottom line every time £££££££££££
 
BooBoobedoo said:
I hope that she stays safe. I think she is incredibly brave for leaving a very toxic relationship. It seems like she has set up a game plan to permanantly escape him. This should be applauded.
Looking at his behaviour through this thread, it looks like has already planned on following her, which seems very dangerous for her. I hope she stays safe and has a safe network.
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I’m not sure if he’ll follow her to England..but I was thinking the other day, when he was at her run club, had he ever been to it before? It always seemed like Niomi’s thing to do on her own and he was never in the group photo. Also, Lordon never runs?? He just handstands and talks for exercise..I was thinking he showed up to her run club as a last effort to try and see her again or get her back, it creeped me out
 
Didn’t she went back to him after she was alone at her parent’s place?
Niomi has make a lot of awful decisions and we can criticize her for all of that. But it has been proven than when it comes to Jamie she is in a weak position because he is an a+ manipulator. He isolated from friends and family, made sure she only had him.
Niomi also is really good at late posting, so hopefully Lordon won’t be able to stalk her that way.
 
MaggieRoo said:
I’m not sure if he’ll follow her to England..but I was thinking the other day, when he was at her run club, had he ever been to it before? It always seemed like Niomi’s thing to do on her own and he was never in the group photo. Also, Lordon never runs?? He just handstands and talks for exercise..I was thinking he showed up to her run club as a last effort to try and see her again or get her back, it creeped me out
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Lordon runs! His mouth all day long 🤪 🗣 🥗
 
cherryblossomlatte said:
Didn’t she went back to him after she was alone at her parent’s place?
Niomi has make a lot of awful decisions and we can criticize her for all of that. But it has been proven than when it comes to Jamie she is in a weak position because he is an a+ manipulator. He isolated from friends and family, made sure she only had him.
Niomi also is really good at late posting, so hopefully Lordon won’t be able to stalk her that way.
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She isolated herself from friends( Charlotte esp) and family. She is also an ace manipulator - look at what she did to Marcus and Joeeeeeey. Forky couldn't be manipulated.
We really don't know ALL there is to know re their dynamics tbh.🥱
 
Coldfeet said:
??? ??????
Dimbobs is not fragile by any stretch of the imagination. She's perfectly capable of setting herself up wherever she pleases. 'Hiding' from Lordon is laughable. She's a gold standard witch and walked into her 'second' round with the fruit loop with eyes wide open. I don't see her as a 'victim' either. She knows how to get to the bottom line every time £££££££££££
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agree. I have to tread carefully here not to say the wrong thing, but Jamie is to Niomi what Niomi was to Joe…that guy was walking on eggshells around her constantly, she was controlling him with diet and exercise, etc. She’s really not a helpless victim (in my opinion of course, I may be wrong). Marcus explicitly talked about getting an eating disorder during a relationship with her.
 
Guysss, super random and not actually sure how I came across his profile 😆 but this is who Anna is now dating… a professional model. Total opposite to Joey.

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