Niomi Smart #86 The woman is having a never ending existential crisis

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I’m always surprised that her plummeting views on YT aren’t enough to convince her to stop with the woo woo stuff. Like surely she can’t be confused that there is a correlation between boring, substance-less woo woo vlogs about light or freedoms or whatever? Also how is SHE not bored by it? Do you never just want to read a fiction book instead of your 800th manifestation/spirituality book? Do you never just want to have a cup of breakfast tea and some toast? Sorry I sound INSANE but I feel like you guys will get it 😂
 
Hereforthelellls said:
Anyone got the engagement video/photo. I want to subject myself to the cringe again and don’t want to dig in past threads - thank youuu
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I’m still mad that he flew her family in (including Daisy May) without telling Niomi. He knew she wouldn’t say “no” in front of them, so he sprung it on her.

It was also such an imposition on her family to make them all get on a plane. He should’ve gone to them and proposed in England. Such an ass.
 
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Hannabeth_ said:
I’m always surprised that her plummeting views on YT aren’t enough to convince her to stop with the woo woo stuff. Like surely she can’t be confused that there is a correlation between boring, substance-less woo woo vlogs about light or freedoms or whatever? Also how is SHE not bored by it? Do you never just want to read a fiction book instead of your 800th manifestation/spirituality book? Do you never just want to have a cup of breakfast tea and some toast? Sorry I sound INSANE but I feel like you guys will get it 😂
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To be fair when you're in that deep of a mental chasm, anything that offers an explanation and a light at the end if the tunnel seems reasonable. It's difficult to face the music and put in the work and claw your way out of your misery, not everything happens for a reason, there is cruelty and injustice in the world for absolutely no reason other than human nature. We gound ourselves alone, rejected, disliked, unloved. Sometimes it's for a reason, like maybe you're a cult-minded freak like Jamie, and sometimes you're just not their cup of tea. If you are already wobbly on your feet and unable to deal with difficulties, a breakup like Joe's would deck you flat. I kind of have sympathy but also she sort of brought it on herself as well.

Niomi could have taken the opportunity and looked inwards, got therapy, made sure she knew who she was and where she stood, before she embarked on other relationships. But it's quicker and easier to ask for compliments and companionship from some random guy you're bleeping, it's a lot kinder on the ears compared to a good therapist's advice and counsel. I'm afraid Niomi will find herself in similar positions over and over again in the future, unless by sheer luck she meets the kindest, most gullible fool who is utterly in love with her and willing to tolerate all her bullshit, or she actually fixes herself and becomes her own person.

Based on her behaviour so far, I don't think she will take the bumpy road. She'll just waffle on about butterflies and signs and full moon until she comes across a new man who will indulge her tomfoolery. I don't dismiss spirituality, we are free to believe all we want but Niomi uses all this as a crutch and traps other vulnerable people too.
 
It’s amazing how much the Joe break up destroyed her. Because I can’t even imagine her missing him as a person that much, their connection seemed so shallow and superficial. Their conversations were stilted and awkward and they were never on the same wavelength with jokes or anything. They didn’t come across like best friends.

It’s the perfect, camera ready life she’s really heartbroken for, the handsome fiancé with a royal family connection who regularly bought her jewellery and flowers she can brag about in her vlogs. But not the love of her life, her best friend and soulmate. At least, that’s not what I saw. That’s why I’m surprised it derailed her so much - she could probably get back to a similar life.

(But she dedicated three years to a shoeless man who gifts her feathers he found on the ground and a Chinese takeaway they can eat sitting on a wall because he didn’t book anywhere for her birthday.)
 
Rosie34567-2 said:
Slightly off topic, but this is a PSA: NEVER DELETE MESSAGES. Sure, block the person, but never delete the messages. At least take a screenshot.

It doesn't matter whether it is a random person online, a coworker, a boyfriend, etc. There may come a day where you need to report someone, and you'll want all the evidence you can get.

Saying "I can't remember" isn't going to hold up. Protect yourselves!

Thank you for coming to my TedTalk LOL.
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Honestly, this is the best advice and something I wish I hadn’t done. You WILL need those messages in the future.
 
I think she'll drop all the woo stuff the second she meets a new man who mentions he doesn't believe in it. Perhaps she'll meet someone actually quite normal and her new boyfriend inspired personality might end up being vaguely normal again?

She'll always be spoiled, selfish and narcissistic but she'd do far better without all this self obsessed woo!
 
earlgrey said:
It’s amazing how much the Joe break up destroyed her. Because I can’t even imagine her missing him as a person that much, their connection seemed so shallow and superficial. Their conversations were stilted and awkward and they were never on the same wavelength with jokes or anything. They didn’t come across like best friends.

It’s the perfect, camera ready life she’s really heartbroken for, the handsome fiancé with a royal family connection who regularly bought her jewellery and flowers she can brag about in her vlogs. But not the love of her life, her best friend and soulmate. At least, that’s not what I saw. That’s why I’m surprised it derailed her so much - she could probably get back to a similar life.

(But she dedicated three years to a shoeless man who gifts her feathers he found on the ground and a Chinese takeaway they can eat sitting on a wall because he didn’t book anywhere for her birthday.)
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I think what derailed her was the humiliation that someone rejected her and it was so public because she put everything in the SM domain. She seems to have grown up as the apple of everyone's eye- princess Dimbobs. She has a sense of entitlement because of this. She immediately said she 'leaned into the pain' and quickly healed herself. BUT she couldn't deal with the fact that DJ deemed her unsuitable to be his wife. She was publicly judged and her pig headedness can never accept this.
 
Coldfeet said:
I think what derailed her was the humiliation that someone rejected her and it was so public because she put everything in the SM domain. She seems to have grown up as the apple of everyone's eye- princess Dimbobs. She has a sense of entitlement because of this. She immediately said she 'leaned into the pain' and quickly healed herself. BUT she couldn't deal with the fact that DJ deemed her unsuitable to be his wife. She was publicly judged and her pig headedness can never accept this.
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And with Lordon she realized that most of her followers didn’t envy her at all, so the humiliation is a different one, but still the reason she won’t acknowledge the breakup.
 
supercalifragilis said:
Speculation (since this is what we do, other than actual legit FBI-level work): she heard Dreamy Joe was single and she's running back to London to be available and waifish hoping it will suffice to get him again (I don't know him, lol, just speculating on what would lead her to finally get off the London train.
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When her and Joe broke up her thread was the most read on here, think her getting back with him would do the same 😂 Niomi seems a hopeless romantic so I could see her holding out hope for this, like some cheesy Hallmark film they’d bump into each other in the rain on Bond Street and catch up in a coffee shop before announcing their reunion to the family on Xmas day
 
Hannabeth_ said:
I’m always surprised that her plummeting views on YT aren’t enough to convince her to stop with the woo woo stuff. Like surely she can’t be confused that there is a correlation between boring, substance-less woo woo vlogs about light or freedoms or whatever? Also how is SHE not bored by it? Do you never just want to read a fiction book instead of your 800th manifestation/spirituality book? Do you never just want to have a cup of breakfast tea and some toast? Sorry I sound INSANE but I feel like you guys will get it 😂
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But she doesn't achually read anything.🤭
 
Rosie34567-2 said:
I’m still mad that he flew her family in (including Daisy May) without telling Niomi. He knew she wouldn’t say “no” in front of them, so he sprung it on her.

It was also such an imposition on her family to make them all get on a plane. He should’ve gone to them and proposed in England. Such an ass.
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She was so miserable in that basement flat in Dublin and I fully believe he proposed to stop her from leaving him and going back home. He then arranged for both their families to be there so she couldn't say no.

He is a real nasty piece of work.

I wonder how many times she's actually tried to leave him? We know she tried to run away from him early on in Bali and she's dumped him once before. Even on their first meeting when she told him she wasn't interested in a relationship, he wouldn't take no for an answer and 'challenged' her on it. He won't let her go easily this time either, but hopefully she has seen him for who he really is, and can stay clear of him.
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Grizmond said:
That comment is deleted; maybe she’s already considering reconciliation number 3…🤣
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That comment was left on her previous post. Sorry for confusion!
 
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