Jenny Apple

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Some people are of sound mind up until their last breath. Dying doesn't necessarily mean incapacitated.
Joe Plater did a video about a week before he died. He sounded very weak but was sitting up. It was obvious he was in a bad place. It was horrible but he was lucid and while barely able to speak above a whisper he was totally in control

I watched it and then a couple weeks later noticed he didn't post anymore. I found out he passed I think from his the comments on that video. So damn sad. He seemed like a truly nice guy.
 
If a man has sex with a woman while she is asleep it is rape as you can’t consent when you’re asleep. It doesn’t matter how many times in the past you have consented to having sex with him. Legally you can’t consent at that time. (In the UK at least.)

In my opinion it is also unethical, in fact morally reprehensible, to continue filming a terminally ill person with brain metastases who is under the influence of opiates and asleep. They simply are not in a position to give current consent.

It’s getting to the stage that Jenny’s loved ones need to step up and refuse to film/facilitate her filming this stuff, or at least actively discourage it. The only advantage I can see for her and/or her family to not strongly oppose this is monetary reward.
 
In my opinion it is also unethical, in fact morally reprehensible, to continue filming a terminally ill person with brain metastases who is under the influence of opiates and asleep. They simply are not in a position to give current consent.

...or able to withdraw any prior consent, with a change of circumstances or a change of mind...

Since, I am so invested in the person’s journey I am drawn to watch, but wish there were only written updates not videos.

I feel the same way. I appreciated how both Naomi and her sister (@survivingsupportingsisterhood) gave updated written accounts towards the end, with the occasional photo that did not show Naomi's image. I still follow SJ, I was so touched by their beautiful sister bond. I want to know how she and the family are doing. Her YT video recounting Naomi's hospice experience was so touching.

I just hope that Jenny doesn’t feel any external or self-imposed pressure to keep producing videos to maintain a steady stream of income. That would be heartbreaking and quite pitiful.

Thankfully, she wasn't the major breadwinner in the family nor have I seen many endorsements on her channel, so I don't think Kyle or she would feel a great pull to prop her in front of a camera simply for financial reasons. I just don't get that slick, polished, moneymaking vibe from their channel.

As I wrote earlier, I do wonder if Jenny had any reaction to Kyle buying the tickets for October. If it were me, that would have made me incredibly sad to feel left out, like my husband was moving on without me and making plans, unless Jenny believes she'll be able to attend it as well. But, it saddened me.
 
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If a man has sex with a woman while she is asleep it is rape as you can’t consent when you’re asleep. It doesn’t matter how many times in the past you have consented to having sex with him. Legally you can’t consent at that time. (In the UK at least.)

In my opinion it is also unethical, in fact morally reprehensible, to continue filming a terminally ill person with brain metastases who is under the influence of opiates and asleep. They simply are not in a position to give current consent.

It’s getting to the stage that Jenny’s loved ones need to step up and refuse to film/facilitate her filming this stuff, or at least actively discourage it. The only advantage I can see for her and/or her family to not strongly oppose this is monetary reward.
Agreed, under the influence of sedatives she should not be filming. Sarah has apparently expressed that she wants to be filmed no matter what the circumstances, lm unsure who it's beneficial to though.
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...or able to withdraw any prior consent, with a change of circumstances or a change of mind...



I feel the same way. I appreciated how both Naomi and her sister (@survivingsupportingsisterhood) gave updated written accounts towards the end, with the occasional photo that did not show Naomi's image. I still follow SJ, I was so touched by their beautiful sister bond. I want to know how she and the family are doing. Her YT video recounting Naomi's hospice experience was so touching.



Thankfully, she wasn't the major breadwinner in the family nor have I seen many endorsements on her channel, so I don't think Kyle or she would feel a great pull to prop her in front of a camera simply for financial reasons. I just don't get that slick, polished, moneymaking vibe from their channel.

As I wrote earlier, I do wonder if Jenny had any reaction to Kyle buying the tickets for October. If it were me, that would have made me incredibly sad to feel left out, like my husband was moving on without me and making plans, unless Jenny believes she'll be able to attend it as well. But, it saddened me.
Off topic, l was in Costco (Australia) yesterday and they where setting up all the Halloween stuff already.
 
There are pelvic exenteration videos online, as well as open heart surgeries online. While the faces of the patients aren't shown in the ones I saw, those surgeries literally involve deep views of the insides and private parts of the patient (intestines, buttocks (front, back, and middle bum-bums, as Tiffany might say)) or with the chest cavity fully open. Those patients gave written consent forms PRIOR to surgery for those videos to be filmed and shown online.
However, as per the reasoning of 'oldandgrey', unless the patient could consent right before being filmed (which they can't because they are under anaesthetics), then they shouldn't be filmed?! : If a man has sex with a woman while she is asleep it is rape as you can’t consent when you’re asleep. It doesn’t matter how many times in the past you have consented to having sex with him. Legally you can’t consent at that time. (In the UK at least.)
What about a patient who signed all paperwork for a surgery, is then sedated, but under sedation shows resistance to the procedure? The procedure would stop, correct?
What if a patient who signed all paperwork for surgery, is sedated, cannot speak, but mentally now wants to back out of surgery but can't tell that to the staff? Surgery proceeds regardless.

When people of sound mind and body sign documents giving future consent for 'filming under sedation' to occur, or other types of filming, that document is obviously still valid when that person is under anaesthetic, which is the point, really.
What about patients who have a 'living will' drawn up that specifically states 'don't resuscitate' (or whatever the medical terminology is) and that patient has a fatal heart attack? Should his 'living will' be in effect and no resuscitation occur, or, should he be resuscitated regardless of what he signed? Legally, if he is not resuscitated, the doctor is not in legal trouble.
There are many instances where people give written consent for various things precisely because they wouldn't be able to do so physically or mentally later on.
Using the analogy of 'having sex' is incorrect in the cases I have just mentioned, which includes filming. (pelvic exenteration videos, open heart surgeries, mastectomies, etc etc...all consent given PRIOR to filming and IMPOSSIBLE to give just a minute before the surgery.) which opens up another point:
TIME. Why would giving prior consent days before a procedure, or a filming, for example, when one is of sound mind and body, be INVALID ONE MINUTE before that procedure?? Why would consent be required TWICE if the person already gave consent to be filmed-under-duress or filmed-under-sugergy??
So, using the 'sex consent' analogy, would ALL consent to ANYTHING and EVERYTHING health-related, (filming, surgeries, why not even 'living wills') need to be given 'ONE MINUTE' or 'ONE SECOND" before it is done? It would be IMPOSSIBLE in the context of surgery, or surgery-filming, or other types of filming where one is sedated as well. In that case, even someone's will would be invalidated because he/she didn't sign it 'one minute' before passing away, but maybe wrote it YEARS earlier, when the person was of sound mind and body, and dully signed before a lawyer.

If Jenny gave her clear consent, verbally, to Kyle to film her even sedated and asleep, then Kyle is permitted to film her. No one knows what occurs behind the scenes in their household or what was said. However, it is my opinion that Kyle is an upright and loyal individual who would always follow Jenny's wishes.
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With reference to my very previous post, one reason the 'consent to sex' would be implicitly required in all cases is because this is an act where two people should be of sound mind and body to proceed with the act, and it is an act in which both should be participating equally. Because, theoretically, both should be of sound mind and body even one minute before the act, then if one party or the other changes his/her mind, the act should not proceed. The act also should not proceed if one is not 'of sound mind and body' because the other could not participate equally and there could be an element of 'taking advantage' of the other.

When someone has surgery, or consents to be filmed for that surgery or consents to be filmed in all cases while under sedation, the 'activity' is not an equal one for both. There is a videographer (the filmer) and the 'filmee'. WHEN the filmee gives consent (for films of a certain nature) the filmee needs to be of sound mind and body. Contrary to having sex, the consent to being filmed does NOT need to occur 'right before' the filming is taking place because the filming that is consented to could be one where the filmee is sedated or even undergoing surgery. The filmee, of sound mind and body, could have written documents drawn up that will legally be binding, for the filmee to be filmed while sedated, while undergoing surgery, etc etc.

What about the 'adult film' industry...What if, of sound mind and body, actors consent...They 'film', and the film is published. Then, later on, one of the actors (of sound mind and body) changes his/her mind and doesn't want the film to be published anymore? Too late! Contract was already signed. Film does not have to be retracted.
What about private couples who are into 'kinky' behaviour? What if a wife tells her husband that she wants to experience 'the act' while drunk, and even signs a written consent to her husband that this one time, no matter what, she wants to be drunk and experience 'the act'. The husband then proceeds, perhaps several hours later, while the drunk wife 'doth not protest', and voilà!

Bottom line: Be careful what you sign, whether it is medical or other. If in doubt, seek legal advice. When the other party (whoever that may be) has a written document with a signature, it is difficult to prove verbal 'protest' right before whatever act or film in case the person changes his/her mind 'one minute' before.
 
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...or able to withdraw any prior consent, with a change of circumstances or a change of mind...



I feel the same way. I appreciated how both Naomi and her sister (@survivingsupportingsisterhood) gave updated written accounts towards the end, with the occasional photo that did not show Naomi's image. I still follow SJ, I was so touched by their beautiful sister bond. I want to know how she and the family are doing. Her YT video recounting Naomi's hospice experience was so touching.



Thankfully, she wasn't the major breadwinner in the family nor have I seen many endorsements on her channel, so I don't think Kyle or she would feel a great pull to prop her in front of a camera simply for financial reasons. I just don't get that slick, polished, moneymaking vibe from their channel.

As I wrote earlier, I do wonder if Jenny had any reaction to Kyle buying the tickets for October. If it were me, that would have made me incredibly sad to feel left out, like my husband was moving on without me and making plans, unless Jenny believes she'll be able to attend it as well. But, it saddened me.
I did not follow closely the disney purchase but assume there is a ticket for jenny,...for a family in this crisis October is a long time in the future but maybe that is designed to give everyone including Jenny something to look forward to.Again she has not given up...does not mean she is not in her own mind realistic but I think at her age you just have to have hope.If he did not buy her a ticket that would surprise me .
 
I did not follow closely the disney purchase but assume there is a ticket for jenny,...for a family in this crisis October is a long time in the future but maybe that is designed to give everyone including Jenny something to look forward to.Again she has not given up...does not mean she is not in her own mind realistic but I think at her age you just have to have hope.If he did not buy her a ticket that would surprise me .

I agree and I certainly assume Jenny was bought a ticket. If Kyle bought the family tickets and didn't buy Jenny one... I mean.. that would be pretty awful imo. One always has to have hope. It's the only way to continue on really.
 
I sound like a broken record but Jenny edits her videos so if there is any footage she doesn't like or didn't consent to she can just delete it.

Going forward we have no idea if Kyle will do any inappropriate filming once Jenny is unable to edit but I certainly hope not.

The time Josh filmed Sarah having the seizure he said a couple of times that he asked her after she recovered if it was okay to post it. He also had not shown her several times when he said she was not up to be being filmed.
 
There are pelvic exenteration videos online, as well as open heart surgeries online. While the faces of the patients aren't shown in the ones I saw, those surgeries literally involve deep views of the insides and private parts of the patient (intestines, buttocks (front, back, and middle bum-bums, as Tiffany might say)) or with the chest cavity fully open. Those patients gave written consent forms PRIOR to surgery for those videos to be filmed and shown online.
However, as per the reasoning of 'oldandgrey', unless the patient could consent right before being filmed (which they can't because they are under anaesthetics), then they shouldn't be filmed?! : If a man has sex with a woman while she is asleep it is rape as you can’t consent when you’re asleep. It doesn’t matter how many times in the past you have consented to having sex with him. Legally you can’t consent at that time. (In the UK at least.)
What about a patient who signed all paperwork for a surgery, is then sedated, but under sedation shows resistance to the procedure? The procedure would stop, correct?
What if a patient who signed all paperwork for surgery, is sedated, cannot speak, but mentally now wants to back out of surgery but can't tell that to the staff? Surgery proceeds regardless.

When people of sound mind and body sign documents giving future consent for 'filming under sedation' to occur, or other types of filming, that document is obviously still valid when that person is under anaesthetic, which is the point, really.
What about patients who have a 'living will' drawn up that specifically states 'don't resuscitate' (or whatever the medical terminology is) and that patient has a fatal heart attack? Should his 'living will' be in effect and no resuscitation occur, or, should he be resuscitated regardless of what he signed? Legally, if he is not resuscitated, the doctor is not in legal trouble.
There are many instances where people give written consent for various things precisely because they wouldn't be able to do so physically or mentally later on.
Using the analogy of 'having sex' is incorrect in the cases I have just mentioned, which includes filming. (pelvic exenteration videos, open heart surgeries, mastectomies, etc etc...all consent given PRIOR to filming and IMPOSSIBLE to give just a minute before the surgery.) which opens up another point:
TIME. Why would giving prior consent days before a procedure, or a filming, for example, when one is of sound mind and body, be INVALID ONE MINUTE before that procedure?? Why would consent be required TWICE if the person already gave consent to be filmed-under-duress or filmed-under-sugergy??
So, using the 'sex consent' analogy, would ALL consent to ANYTHING and EVERYTHING health-related, (filming, surgeries, why not even 'living wills') need to be given 'ONE MINUTE' or 'ONE SECOND" before it is done? It would be IMPOSSIBLE in the context of surgery, or surgery-filming, or other types of filming where one is sedated as well. In that case, even someone's will would be invalidated because he/she didn't sign it 'one minute' before passing away, but maybe wrote it YEARS earlier, when the person was of sound mind and body, and dully signed before a lawyer.

If Jenny gave her clear consent, verbally, to Kyle to film her even sedated and asleep, then Kyle is permitted to film her. No one knows what occurs behind the scenes in their household or what was said. However, it is my opinion that Kyle is an upright and loyal individual who would always follow Jenny's wishes.
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With reference to my very previous post, one reason the 'consent to sex' would be implicitly required in all cases is because this is an act where two people should be of sound mind and body to proceed with the act, and it is an act in which both should be participating equally. Because, theoretically, both should be of sound mind and body even one minute before the act, then if one party or the other changes his/her mind, the act should not proceed. The act also should not proceed if one is not 'of sound mind and body' because the other could not participate equally and there could be an element of 'taking advantage' of the other.

When someone has surgery, or consents to be filmed for that surgery or consents to be filmed in all cases while under sedation, the 'activity' is not an equal one for both. There is a videographer (the filmer) and the 'filmee'. WHEN the filmee gives consent (for films of a certain nature) the filmee needs to be of sound mind and body. Contrary to having sex, the consent to being filmed does NOT need to occur 'right before' the filming is taking place because the filming that is consented to could be one where the filmee is sedated or even undergoing surgery. The filmee, of sound mind and body, could have written documents drawn up that will legally be binding, for the filmee to be filmed while sedated, while undergoing surgery, etc etc.

What about the 'adult film' industry...What if, of sound mind and body, actors consent...They 'film', and the film is published. Then, later on, one of the actors (of sound mind and body) changes his/her mind and doesn't want the film to be published anymore? Too late! Contract was already signed. Film does not have to be retracted.
What about private couples who are into 'kinky' behaviour? What if a wife tells her husband that she wants to experience 'the act' while drunk, and even signs a written consent to her husband that this one time, no matter what, she wants to be drunk and experience 'the act'. The husband then proceeds, perhaps several hours later, while the drunk wife 'doth not protest', and voilà!

Bottom line: Be careful what you sign, whether it is medical or other. If in doubt, seek legal advice. When the other party (whoever that may be) has a written document with a signature, it is difficult to prove verbal 'protest' right before whatever act or film in case the person changes his/her mind 'one minute' before.

You have made made very valid points, well articulated. I would hope that Jenny did give (most likely verbal rather than written) prior consent. Even if she didn’t, as she’s the one who edits the videos she could have chosen not to publish that section.

I personally don’t believe that she/they should be filming and publishing scenes such as those, but of course none of us really know whether she has mental capacity to make a truly informed choice. We can only hope she does.
 
I agree and I certainly assume Jenny was bought a ticket. If Kyle bought the family tickets and didn't buy Jenny one... I mean.. that would be pretty awful imo. One always has to have hope. It's the only way to continue on really.
I see a number of posters that consider if a Stage 4 patient has hope.willing to make plans and try treatments(trials) that they are somehow not in the real world. I don't see the two as being mutually exclusive. I assume behind their closed doors many tough discussions and legal matters are being put in place. I think much more is going on apart from some Disney tix.
 
I see a number of posters that consider if a Stage 4 patient has hope.willing to make plans and try treatments(trials) that they are somehow not in the real world. I don't see the two as being mutually exclusive. I assume behind their closed doors many tough discussions and legal matters are being put in place. I think much more is going on apart from some Disney tix.
Even in the real world miracles do happen. I certainly pray everyone has hope. What's the saying "hope for the best but prepare for the worst" I think that is must likely what is happening with Kyle and Jenny.
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You have made made very valid points, well articulated. I would hope that Jenny did give (most likely verbal rather than written) prior consent. Even if she didn’t, as she’s the one who edits the videos she could have chosen not to publish that section.

I personally don’t believe that she/they should be filming and publishing scenes such as those, but of course none of us really know whether she has mental capacity to make a truly informed choice. We can only hope she does.
I'm not really sure why everyone is so upset about the last video where she was sort of sleeping. She actually seemed to be just dozing and sure managed to correct Kyle about also having blood tests. She also was using the back massager thing. She looks like crap but she was just resting. He has always filmed her taking a naps.
 
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Re - Hope.
To enter a clinical trial then you have to have some hope, otherwise you could be spending the remainder of your relatively ok days on treatment and its side effects.
It's tough, really tough.
If you don't try then you don't know.
And if it fails then its a bigger kick in the teeth because precious time has been wasted.
I think anyone willing to partake in any clinical trial deserves respect.
Better treatments are available today thanks to those patients who participated in clinical trials. Each and everyone of them I respect so much.
 
This is from Jenny’s Insta:



My brain is still trying to comprehend what my eyes are seeing. I just don’t understand the attraction.

Edited to add: This is an older post, obviously.
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Here’s another picture I found of their typical vegan meals when eating out:



So tired of the comments about her “healthy” diet. It’s not healthy in any way. That meal is in one of her old videos. That’s not veggies.

 
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So the scans were done last Thursday? They have the results so are they waiting to get to a certain number of views ($$$) on the last video before posting an update? If they’re busy, or whatever, they could post a simple screenshot w/text. The fans are getting restless. The prayer groups continue.
They might have the results online but maybe haven't had the visit with the oncologist so they truly have no news to share. They will need to talk to her team to find out the next steps and to interpret the scan results. They actually said last time they didn't look at the results because they often get upset and then the doctor says they are fine.
 
They might have the results online but maybe haven't had the visit with the oncologist so they truly have no news to share. They will need to talk to her team to find out the next steps and to interpret the scan results. They actually said last time they didn't look at the results because they often get upset and then the doctor says they are fine.

The whole business of not looking at the scans just seems very Tiffany-ish to me. It’s denial, I think. It’s not that difficult to understand a scan result especially with so much information online to reference. Tiffany always glossed over the scan results and posted vague, strange info supposedly given to her by her doctor which was always bizarrely positive. Then she would post enough crying videos to keep up the drama. It just all seems so familiar. At least the POG family do seem to share actual test results honestly and frankly.
 
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