Ashley James #37 Captions full of bollox, forehead full of Botox.

[willowtree2]

She really bleeping loathes mums doesn’t she? Why would you hold it against someone if all they uploaded were photos of their kids?

Anyone else seen Alfs left leg twist awfully in the video clip of the most recent grid post? Made me wince, poor sweetheart.

 

[screenfreelookatme]

What am I supposed to be taking photos of? Endless selfies of myself??

I do wish she’d to and get help for her depression. All this “I know it will be better when…”. Not to “just you wait” her, but kids are always challenging. Yes it’s different as they get older, but you don’t suddenly stop being in mum mode all the time or whatever she thinks.

 

[anotherday07]

I wanna know how she’s picking these winners of her competitions - she’s posting them on TikTok aswell - not that anyone is really caring

 

[Lurker121]

View attachment 2614478 q
She really bleeping loathes mums doesn’t she? Why would you hold it against someone if all they uploaded were photos of their kids?

Anyone else seen Alfs left leg twist awfully in the video clip of the most recent grid post? Made me wince, poor sweetheart.

I saw the way he’s sat in picture from the cinema on her latest post and it’s awful. It’s at a right angle, can’t be good for him. I really, really wish one of her followers would comment on her posts about his legs/hips. He seriously needs to be seen by a professional.

 

[MillionDollarBaby]

We all think Ash’s use of screens as a parenting mechanism is horrific but…..
Remember when she gave Alf a screen and his own table at a restaurant once so she could eat in peace.
Lovely day x

 

[Ss-ldn]

So someone (possibly one of us awful trolls) has said about Alfie's hips. And this is the response.
Hello H.alice.m version 2!

Can't have been following Ash that long or she'd know the boy child gets no attention at all as he's TNB's to look after. Or Nana, or anyone except Ash. She didn't notice when he was covered in vomit and diarrhoea, didn't realise he was waking at night because he was cold, no way in hell she's clocked his mobility is not right and so she should get him checked.

 

[cahil]

Ashley. an EMPATH? ive heard it all now.

 

[Rainbow1]

It’s worrying how much she has pinned on this alleged house move. Like all her ‘problems’ will suddenly be gone once she moves back to London

this ‘woe is me’ is getting super boring- even her die hard fans must raise their eyebrows at her saying she needs a ‘proper break’ when she’s literally just come back from the bloody Maldives, a weekend away at a 5 star hotel and has childcare in shape of nanny/childminder and NNB on tap!

 

[graceanatomy]

A proper break? What does a break entail then if it's not a luxury holiday to the Maldives?

 

[screenfreelookatme]

I keep saying it, but she’ll feel worse if/when they move back to London. Right now she’s at least got something to pin her magical thinking to. Once she’s there and she still has no friends and nothing to do and feels meh…there’s nothing left.

 

[littlepup]

Putting a bikini on for a bath with your kids so you can get a pic for the ‘gram and is that her nipple showing anyway?

Something about his movement in the nose picking video looked off, it’s clicked that it looks like, (what I, non medically trained, thinks is) hyper-mobility. Makes sense with his sitting too.

 

[Tiredbones]

I've also been wondering if he's hypermobile recently. His joints bend in ways they shouldn't be able.
It could also explain his speech difficulties

 

[willowtree2]

Ashley James needs a proper break?

 

[girl123467]

Alfieeeee. Poor boy.

 

[aggytha]

Putting a bikini on for a bath with your kids so you can get a pic for the ‘gram and is that her nipple showing anyway?

Something about his movement in the nose picking video looked off, it’s clicked that it looks like, (what I, non medically trained, thinks is) hyper-mobility. Makes sense with his sitting too.

I’ve thought this for a long while I have a lot of experience in hypermobility and associated connective tissue diseases as I really think he could have hypermobility spectrum disorder which can come with a lot of pain and other symptoms. It would explain his poor posture and tone and difficulty walking. It might even explain why he spends so much time in the pushchair.

I always feel so sad for that sweet boy.

 

[sohomum]

I’m still raging about Ash’s comment regarding taking pleasure from seeing all the kids in front of screens at Nando’s. Why does she get pleasure from seeing pure laziness and selfishness all around her? Why are we becoming so used to seeing parents putting themselves and their own needs ahead of their children?

Screens have a valuable place and I genuinely think we are lucky to have them as an option in this day and age. But I think it is so tragic that people would rather plonk their kid in front of a screen so they can enjoy their own meal rather than engage with their child and teach them how to behave when out and about. I say this as a parent who has had to leave a restaurant just after the main meal was brought out because my two children (18 months and 3 at the time) were both having massive tantrums. It was very embarrassing for me to have to pay the bill and leave the food uneaten but I’m glad I dealt with it and lived through that experience rather than whip a screen out as a short term fix. That’s life with two small children and it happens. An easy meal for us is not ignoring our children in a restaurant but defrosting something from the freezer for them, sitting with them while they eat and then ordering a takeaway while they’re in bed. I’ll never forget the sight of Alf sitting at a separate table on his iPad while Ash was out for lunch. Hideous woman.

The comments about needing a proper break having just returned from the Maldives and after posting videos of a luxury stay at the Four Seasons are stomach turning. What more does she want? No children for a year?

 

[Mousejen]

The 'proper break' comment has really, really hit me this morning! I would love her to elaborate as to what exactly constitutes such a break, from the woman who is constantly away from home and just had her 'in laws' join her on holiday presumably so that she and Tommy can have some kid free time while they were away.

I genuinely feel for anyone who suffers low mood and depression at any time, not least following having had a baby (I'm currently going through that and it is brutal and such a rollercoaster), but she never seems to recognise just how fortunate she is. My husband is out of work, money is ridiculously tight at the moment and I'm facing having to return to a job where I will be out of the house and away from my kids for 12-13 hours five days a week to make ends meet (thanks to a company who has decided that WFH doesn't work for them). I live a long way from my friends and family, it's not just a train journey away and I've really struggled to make friends where I am despite going to many baby and toddler groups (I seem to have moved somewhere where breaking in to social circles beyond the baby groups is nearly impossible for some reason.....or perhaps I'm just terrible in social circumstances )

Ashley needs a reality check, her desire to move and head back to London could all be a waste of when she gets there she actually finds that it's just normal life with kids to not spend masses of time with friends without a fair amount of complex logistics.

 

[boundandgagged]

What is this word?!!!

 

[willowtree2]

What is this word?!!!

Written by an A grade student apparently

 

[Trollypusher]

I’m still raging about Ash’s comment regarding taking pleasure from seeing all the kids in front of screens at Nando’s. Why does she get pleasure from seeing pure laziness and selfishness all around her? Why are we becoming so used to seeing parents putting themselves and their own needs ahead of their children?

Screens have a valuable place and I genuinely think we are lucky to have them as an option in this day and age. But I think it is so tragic that people would rather plonk their kid in front of a screen so they can enjoy their own meal rather than engage with their child and teach them how to behave when out and about. I say this as a parent who has had to leave a restaurant just after the main meal was brought out because my two children (18 months and 3 at the time) were both having massive tantrums. It was very embarrassing for me to have to pay the bill and leave the food uneaten but I’m glad I dealt with it and lived through that experience rather than whip a screen out as a short term fix. That’s life with two small children and it happens. An easy meal for us is not ignoring our children in a restaurant but defrosting something from the freezer for them, sitting with them while they eat and then ordering a takeaway while they’re in bed. I’ll never forget the sight of Alf sitting at a separate table on his iPad while Ash was out for lunch. Hideous woman.

The comments about needing a proper break having just returned from the Maldives and after posting videos of a luxury stay at the Four Seasons are stomach turning. What more does she want? No children for a year?

It's my birthday today and we went out for dinner (don't live in the UK any more so different time zone and no grandparents around for babysitting duties). I'd have loved to have gone somewhere a bit fancy with a good atmosphere but given we have a five year old and three year old, we ended up in a Chinese restaurant at 5pm, only ones in there, food came out within 10 mins, kids played with their chopsticks, then home by 6pm for birthday cake. Food was great, we had a night off from cooking and was just lovely to be out as a family chatting and talking about their days.

Ash doesn't realise that parenting is about compromise, mostly in the kids' favour. In fact, I bet she gets Tommy to buy HER a gift on Alf's birthday to mark her third year of being a mother.