Ashley James #28 my body is Ada’s home, Alf’s is down the road

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@SassyLad8 you gave her the idea!

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Never known anyone to go on about lockdown so much!
Also correct me if I’m wrong but pretty sure you could meet people by now? I was definitely doing baby classes in May with my LO who is same age as Alf so would seem odd she couldn’t meet her parents/friends etc

agree with everyone else it’s bloody weird to have your baby to strangers sit at least a metre away from them and then film it?!

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My daughter was born October 2020, we’d taken her the pub while her dad was on Pat leave. She’s off her head
 
My daughter was born October 2020, we’d taken her the pub while her dad was on Pat leave. She’s off her head
Ditto. My husband was allowed with me through all the birthing stuff, stayed after my LO was born, and we got discharged the same day.

My oldest bore the brunt of lockdown - two parents who had to work and a nursery that was shut, no interaction with anyone else other than me and my husband (my family lived the other side of the country at the time). But he's recovered. Everyone seems to have recovered, apart from her?!

When will she stop using it as an excuse? Just say you didn't want to go to baby classes, it's fine to say that no doubt the rest of the mums there would have hated you anyway. She's a dick.

Passing her baby about on the tube 🤯 the amount of times I've not gone to the toilet /almost peed myself because I couldn't get a pram into the loo. And she's giving her baby to strangers for CONTENT. Is she so desperate to be relevant that she's endangering her child?! When only a week ago she posted a story about children's safety?! Blows. My. Damn. Mind.
 
Catching up with old car crAsh and my christ, what is she on?!

“Ada is my priority” - no mention of Alf.

Knowing she had the gig long enough to have ordered two dresses and made time that, fannied about at her family bbq while she had plenty of people to look after Ada, made time to book and sit for hair and make-up but making out like she had to do her playlist on the day, while caring for Ada because being A “busy working mum” is so difficult to meet deadlines. No mention of what she did while Ada’s napped.

Having to work to provide for her family while spending a fortune on dresses, hair and make-up and childcare - how much is she left with after all that?

Being a face of RSV while passing her baby to strangers for no reason so that she can rant about the pandemic and travel again.

Again, saying there’s no help or physio for mums on the NHS despite being told multiple times that there is. (Her Physio llegedly agreeing, she should know better)

Asking her mate how baby is sleeping which I don’t know but suspect lead to her giving unsolicited advice about sleep not being linear.

“How much time did you waste feeling insecure about parts of your body that you now know are perfectly normal? I know I've spent way too much time from such a young age.
I wish making content like this was irrelevant actually because we didn't even focus on our bodies. We just appreciated having them.
I certainly want my children to grow up with a better mindset. I know it starts with me”
Gets Botoxed to the hilt
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Catching up with old car crAsh and my christ, what is she on?!

“Ada is my priority” - no mention of Alf.

Knowing she had the gig long enough to have ordered two dresses and made time that, fannied about at her family bbq while she had plenty of people to look after Ada, made time to book and sit for hair and make-up but making out like she had to do her playlist on the day, while caring for Ada because being A “busy working mum” is so difficult to meet deadlines. No mention of what she did while Ada’s napped.

Having to work to provide for her family while spending a fortune on dresses, hair and make-up and childcare - how much is she left with after all that?

Being a face of RSV while passing her baby to strangers for no reason so that she can rant about the pandemic and travel again.

Again, saying there’s no help or physio for mums on the NHS despite being told multiple times that there is. (Her Physio llegedly agreeing, she should know better)

Asking her mate how baby is sleeping which I don’t know but suspect lead to her giving unsolicited advice about sleep not being linear.

“How much time did you waste feeling insecure about parts of your body that you now know are perfectly normal? I know I've spent way too much time from such a young age.
I wish making content like this was irrelevant actually because we didn't even focus on our bodies. We just appreciated having them.
I certainly want my children to grow up with a better mindset. I know it starts with me”
Gets Botoxed to the hilt
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Make up and hair done at your house don’t come cheap plus hiring dresses and shoes that has to all set you back at least £300? surely she doesn’t make much more than that ‘dj-ing’ for 2 hours at bar Elba
 
@MidnightRambler any idea on DJ fee for a two hour corporate set? I'd be very interested to know. because yes as others have said, once you've bought a dress, rented a dress, got your hair and makeup done professionally, arranged and paid for childcare, transport etc.... how much goes into the family kitty? she's a total waste of space.
it irks me how she always says she's got a 'DJ gig' - she always emphasises the DJ bit like it's possible we've forgotten she's a DJ guys??? most people I know in the arts just say they have a gig. no need to specify. it's cooler and more irreverent. she is such a try hard it's so cringe lol
 
My daughters a month younger than Alf and by April we were meeting friends/families in parks and by May baby classes had resumed and indoor things. So by the time Alf was Ada’s age things had opened up

She moans about the lack of baby groups she could go to with Alf to meet other mums because of covid but…how many baby groups has she been to so far with Ada? 😂
 
Honestly she makes her life harder than it should be. Juggling making a playlist while taking care of Ada. Just the other night she was watching Mafs while Ada was asleep. Could've made the playlist then. But no she has to make a show of how hard it is. What a joke.
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These reels about her old body and fine lines etc. sounds like she's trying to convince herself
 
And what does she do while Ada naps? She’ll still be napping 3-4x a day surely. I’ll bet you naps are just for ‘her’ time and relaxing and she’ll make sure she has to do deadline stuff while Ad is awake because then she has an excuse not to focus completely on her and play with her, since she finds it so unnecessary and tedious.
 
She moans about the lack of baby groups she could go to with Alf to meet other mums because of covid but…how many baby groups has she been to so far with Ada? 😂
Also she started bringing Alf to baby swim but stopped because she hated other mums … they all asked/were competitive about sleep. She says while bragging about her babies sleep and asking friends how their babies are sleeping!
 
I realise that I’m not a superstar DJ so I don’t know how these things work, but couldn’t she have sorted her music out before yesterday so she wasn’t so ‘overwhelmed’ by not having enough time?
I thought this. She could put headphones on when Ada is asleep instead of watching MAFS all night 🙄

Eta - oops, just seen your comment @shovemytitsinyourface 😂 great minds!
 
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