Ashley James #28 my body is Ada’s home, Alf’s is down the road

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Notice she's duck all to represent her and Alf, nothing she can pass onto him. What about his heart? My heart absolutely bleeping breaks for that little boy. My son's a month older than him and I love my son to absolute death and can't imagine not feeling like that for him. I wear a bracelet, it's nothing fancy (I could afford a £1000 birthstone ring if I wanted one but that rings a bit on the garish side)but it's got his name on it and at least once a day he likes to come up to me, touches it and says that it's his bracelet. It's so simple but it feels like a special thing between us.
 
Says something when you can’t keep up with the Trashley James thread. You’re reaching new lows, Ash.

Don’t even know where to start with all the tit I’ve just seen. You’ve all articulated it much better than me.

A walking mean-girl, spoilt brat who lashes out and cries victim the minute she doesn’t get her way. Handing #Ad to strangers on a tube feels like her absolute lowest low, though the field is pretty wide open with some of the tit she’s pulling.
 
How can she post pictures and videos of her babies, especially bath, nappy and feeding ones, when there are comments like this on her own photos and reels?

If this is what the creeps write in public, what goes on in their heads? What do they save? How do they edit and alter the images?

It’s terrifying to know that there are people out there who get pleasure from the most disturbing things.

It’s terrifying to know that there are people out there who don’t care enough about their children to protect them from being the ones used.


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Here we go again....if you really don't like this stage of parenting and really want to go back to "work" , then go to work and don't resent your children that you chose to have
it is perfectly possible to work and breastfeed!...millions of women have no choice....and honestly, breastfeeding your daughter on a street corner is not necessary!
.As I've mentioned numerous times on here, I went back to work full time as a HCP in a busy dialysis unit when my eldest was 16 weeks old , which involved commuting 50 miles/day ....I had no choice as maternity leave in the 90's was awful
I was still breastfeeding her , and had to leave her with childminder who tried numerous bottles/ teats before we found something that would work- daughter never could take a bottle from me! ....but I was lucky I was able to continue to breastfeed her for a year
Yes it was a struggle and took a lot of juggling/ organisation and , yes getting up at 6am to feed her , take her to childcare and then drive 25 miles for a full day of work...then do the same in reverse at end of the day and collapse on sofa to breastfeed her when we got in !by end of the day, my boobs would often leak on my scrubs
....I didn't have any family nearby to help and my husband was a jnr Dr working 100hrs/week so yes I I'd have the majority of the burden of childcare....but it wasn't anything to do with the patriarchy....it's just how it was ( my sister was a GP and husband a Consultant Cardiologist and they had 4 children but she also managed to work full time and they coped with their family situation too....it's how many families have to deal with work / childcare balance and it's what you have to accept if you both want decent careers)
What does she expect with 2 young kids? ....she has no friends nearby because she's not made the effort to integrate into the local community a brief trip,to the library once in a while doesn't count ....and like hell is she a good toddler mum, reading a book wile eyefucking yourself is not what real mums do!
They pawn their son off to anyone at the first opportunity!- we've never seen her go to a toddler group or have any local friends with toddlers at her house to play with Alf ....she could easily fit this into her "hectic' week
Once the kids go to school, she's really going to need/ rely on having some close friends to help with the after school situation because she'll soon find out how dire after school provision is for working parents!
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I imagine it's very easy to love the toddler stage, never be impatient and feel like you're brilliant at it too if you only spend brief amounts of time with the toddler. But if she loves it so much why did she build the Duplo garage by herself and not let Alf explore it from scratch with her?
 
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