Ashley James #28 my body is Ada’s home, Alf’s is down the road

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Elle055 said:
She doesn't follow milestones, regressions, leaps and whatever else because she's too lazy. It would require effort to figure out how you can help your child through those tough times, and she just wants to live her life the way she wants it regardless of what her babies want and need.
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Eta - I should stress that I'm only talking about Ash here. I'm not calling anyone here lazy if you don't follow these things but we know with Ash that it is laziness and doing the bare minimum.
 
Honestly how can you hate playing with your baby, I get some might find it a bit mundane but that’s the mums/dads that do it EVERYDAY whose baby might also not sleep / nap (unlike Ashley) but how can you not love their giggles & laughs? watching them learn how to hold stuff, chuck stuff around, shake things?
I understand it more when people don’t like the newborn stage as they’re very ‘fragile’, hormones are wild, it’s scary post birth etc etc.
This woman doesn’t want kids. She wants grown adult children. Like many rich parents I’ve worked for, zero interest in them until they’re independent and don’t need them physically (and they aren’t there emotionally for them either).
 
MillionDollarBaby said:
Never have I ever passed my child to a stranger. On the tube. In the park. Anywhere. Know why?
Because I’m not a bleeping idiot.
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I have, on the train across the country when I was desperate for a wee and I was on my own and a lovely elderly lady offered to hold him, he was sociable and smiley too so he loved it. It definitely doesn’t make you mental or a bleeping idiot. Realistically what is the danger? Other times I’ve had to through necessity too, collapsing the pram because there’s a wheelchair user on the bus etc. It’s not a big drama to let people hold your baby, really. Although of course she makes it one and she’s the only person to be cool enough to do this ever.

I’d bet my flat they didn’t ask to hold Ada and she plonked her on them because she noticed they were Spanish and she could say look it’s only British people who hate children, if we were in Spain Ada would probably be held by a waitress in a tapas restaurant all night while we had a nice dinner.
 
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ShhItsASecret said:
She’s really getting to me lately.
I’m struggling with going back to work and leaving my boy at nursery- and she is Triggering me with every single bleeping post.
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You are doing the very best you can. I promise that you are.

Never, ever let her - or anyone - make you feel anything less than a wonderful parent.

The mums that worry whether they’re doing the right thing, the ones who worry if they’re doing enough, or if they’re good enough, are the good mums. They’re the best mums. They’re the mums who put their children first, time and time again. The mums who put their children’s well-being and happiness above their own, every day, because it feels like a part of them is missing when their child is away from them. Because it feels like they’re leaving a piece of their heart behind when their child is somewhere else.

The mums who worry are the ones who care. The ones who are absolutely, without question, getting it right. xx
 
Never known anyone to go on about lockdown so much!
Also correct me if I’m wrong but pretty sure you could meet people by now? I was definitely doing baby classes in May with my LO who is same age as Alf so would seem odd she couldn’t meet her parents/friends etc

agree with everyone else it’s bloody weird to have your baby to strangers sit at least a metre away from them and then film it?!

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Catching up so apologies if already said. But why can’t she grasp that babies are not “mini-adults”. We don’t discuss “leaps” with adults because our brains are developed. Ada’s brain is growing and developing, so it’s not a “belief system,” Ash, it’s a scientific fact that she goes through developmental phases.
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Oh okay, you were all WELL on the case with the leap thing. As you were 😂😂
 
There’s a big difference between needing an extra helping hand in the form of an approachable female stranger, like needing the toilet on a train that doesn’t stop every minute hello zero pelvic floor, and passing your vulnerable baby to foreign strangers language barrier on a tube that stops very frequently in a capital city. All for Instagram content. For someone so ‘well travelled’ she is not street wise at all.

Many peadophile rings and sex work rings are of course fronted by women because they’re unassuming.
 
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willowtree2 said:
There’s a big difference between needing an extra helping hand in the form of an approachable female stranger, like needing the toilet hello zero pelvic floor, and passing your vulnerable baby to foreign strangers on a tube that stops very frequently in a capital city. All for Instagram content. For someone so ‘well travelled’ she is not street wise at all.

Many peadophile rings and sex work rings are of course fronted by women because they’re unassuming.
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This.. the amount of times I’ve had to squeeze a buggy, my 2 nanny kids & myself in a cubicle in London just for a wee 😂 I’d never forgive myself if something happened but then I’ve grown up in an area where it isn’t very safe so maybe I feel differently.

She just needs to say “I didn’t want a boy, I didn’t/don’t like spending time with Alf, I use lockdown as an excuse and I hate English people” because the way she goes on is ridiculous
 
Freedomofspeech89 said:
Her breastfeeding pics honestly makes me feel sick 🤮🤮🤮. I swear she tries to sexualise it.
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I think she tries to make it ‘strong empowering woman’ but she’s not a good ‘model’ so all she can actually do is be sexual. It’s like when she tries to be all girly with the hands in the air and blowing a kiss… it’s just cringe, not cute. Tyra Banks would say she has no range.
 
DaisyDaisy87 said:
But yet someone chose her out of everyone to do an advert for RSV 🤯🤣
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Honestly blows my mind. It will never happen to her though because Ada is magical & has the best immune system to ever live because she went abroad when she was weeks old 🤪
In all seriousness she is a mess.
Even being on the underground that is an avoidable journey for her is a joke in itself. I know many people who the minute they started WFH and stopped commuting they were never sick. The tubes are absolute germ fests
 
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