Ashley James #28 my body is Ada’s home, Alf’s is down the road

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If she was genuine about all the 'overwhelm' that she's currently feeling how about take one thing off the to-do list and don't bother with the reel? We don't need to see that, it provides no interesting insights in to her life or situation it just makes her look pretty heartless to drag her baby and partner out like that for some lackluster event that she wants to do so that she can continue to call herself a DJ
I bet they were snorting or inhaling Batiste in the loos. Had to do summat to liven it up.
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Haven't been on here in ages and I'm currently 2 threads behind but I've just seen that day in the life of a dj with a baby bollocks on her insta and I flew over here. Has she given up all pretence of being a mother to Alf now? As there is zero mention of him, never mind an appearance from him. He literally doesn't exist and I'm so angry I feel like crying. That poor baby boy is nothing to her. Literally nothing. I fuckin dislike her 😭
Not to derail the thread Birko but she makes Kate Hayes look like Olivia Walton doesn't she? Sorry mods xx
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Haven't been on here in ages and I'm currently 2 threads behind but I've just seen that day in the life of a dj with a baby bollocks on her insta and I flew over here. Has she given up all pretence of being a mother to Alf now? As there is zero mention of him, never mind an appearance from him. He literally doesn't exist and I'm so angry I feel like crying. That poor baby boy is nothing to her. Literally nothing. I fuckin dislike her 😭
Not to derail the thread Birko but she makes Kate Hayes look like Olivia Walton doesn't she? Sorry mods xx
 
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She’s said in the past that someone told her toddlers are happy enough having 10 minutes of their parents everyday so that’s what Alf gets. They do 10 minutes of reading and stacking blocks (filmed) before Tommy does his bath and bed time. Alf is Tommy’s and Ada is hers. Prepare to have your blood pressure continue to soar. She has me bleeping raging tonight.
She is disgusting and the evilness is spilling out of her pores. Nasty ugly witch. I hope Alf gets love from the other people who are seemingly raising him because since the girl child has been born he's just been phased out of his wicked mother's life. Horrible slag
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I bet they were snorting or inhaling Batiste in the loos. Had to do summat to liven it up.
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Not to derail the thread Birko but she makes Kate Hayes look like Olivia Walton doesn't she? Sorry mods xx
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Not to derail the thread Birko but she makes Kate Hayes look like Olivia Walton doesn't she? Sorry mods xx
Cady, my love. Kate is miles ahead of this bleep in the mothering stakes and that's saying something 🫠

Sorry about my language people. I'm dead common 🤣
 
No sane person is going to not be perplexed as to why your three month old baby has to hang out on the street at night whilst you piss about pressing buttons dressed in a bit of tarpaulin.
 

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Not only did TNB do all that but then sent her that message this morning saying how proud he was and calling her supermum! 🤢 I’d actually feel sorry for him if he wasn’t such an enabler.

Also if perfect angel Ad didn’t wake up until 8.30, surely she could be spending quality one on one time with poor little Alf.
100% the boy child is kept well away from her bedroom and perfect princess Ad in the mornings. It sounds like she doesn’t even get her saggy tits out of the bed to wave him off to childcare! She’s a nasty piece of work and a tit mother.
 
TNB needs to go and have a long hard look in a mirror. How he thinks this is acceptable behaviour for parents of TWO children is beyond comprehension. I’m sure Alf and Ada could have both been left with the sitter for the short while until TNB gets home and then he could have taken over the care of both children in a safe environment where they can both be put to bed at a reasonable time by a parent. Ada would probably have been more likely to take a bottle in a calm, familiar environment and Alf wouldn’t feel cast aside once again.
My heart bleeds for that little boy. I sincerely hope someone is looking out for him.
 
I won’t take screenshots as they’ll cross reference and work out who I am. But they’ve read Tattle basically and her reel tonight has made them realise a lot of stuff so we’re ok to come out from under our troll bridges now 😂😂

She doesn’t even have the decency to strap Ada into the bleeping Doona. The straps are down her arms and she’s having to carry her up and down stairs! Breaks my heart seeing Alf looks so uncomfortable avoiding eye contact with her. Of course he’s only watching one episode of Bluey 🤥

She could do with a can of Batiste. bleeping hell she looks dirty AF. Michael HATES her doesn’t he 😂
 
Ah just catching up on all your comments after a 3am wake up from my little one. This woman never ceases to amaze me. That reel just shows how out of touch she is. In a desperate attempt to be relatable she has completely missed the point that actually, Tommy could have just stayed home with both of his children and she could have gone to “work” for a couple of hours. The children would have been asleep for the majority of the time if they’re in any kind of routine, so Tommy could have chilled out on his home for a bit like a normal parent. There was no need for him to go, she seems to resent the fact that Ada has actually taken a bottle because it doesn’t fit her narrative. How can she have complained so much about Alf not taking a bottle then say she’s been “lazy” with getting Ada on a bottle? You literally posted videos of her drinking from a bottle so you barely had to do anything!! Just keep it up as a regular thing. Oh but then sorry, you wouldn’t be able to stand on a street corner feeding her with you gargantuan tit hanging out in a disgusting dress from the 90s.
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The way this kid is sat surely can’t be good. His legs and hips!
 

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I feel like the Bluey thing is another example of her finding something that Alf seems to enjoy a bit, and then just doing that on repeat. I like Bluey (and actually quite enjoy watching it as an adult!) but there are SO many educational, slower paced TV programmes out there that I think would be more suited to Alf's age. If she's insistent on him having some TV time, which I think is more for her than for Alf tbh, then at least give him some variety, rather than the same episode of the same show every night.
 
I feel like the Bluey thing is another example of her finding something that Alf seems to enjoy a bit, and then just doing that on repeat. I like Bluey (and actually quite enjoy watching it as an adult!) but there are SO many educational, slower paced TV programmes out there that I think would be more suited to Alf's age. If she's insistent on him having some TV time, which I think is more for her than for Alf tbh, then at least give him some variety, rather than the same episode of the same show every night.
I find it really weird that she complained about him watching what I'm assuming was Genevieve's playhouse on youtube because it was a man's hands playing with toys like it was something seedy, would she have objected if it was a woman's hands? My son occasionally watches it(under supervisor unlike Alfie who apparently had free reign) and it's actually pretty good for helping them with colours and numbers. I think if Alfie shows interest in something once she decides he's obsessed with it like the "that's not my books" that seemed to be his only books for a long time.
 
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