Whatmummymakes #7 A mother who smothers, refers to husband as the ‘Other’

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Guessing Nini chooses to listen to music from 90s/naughties sensation The Backstreet Boys herself, eh? 🤔

Also if Becks can do this move without toppling over or being impeded by her massive boobs and stomach I’d be pretty surprised.

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Why post your 4 year old dancing like that and post to social media? I might be being a bit OTT but I think that sort of thing should be kept privately for family to have a giggle at.
There’s a lot of people on her Instagram, a lot of strangers. There’s also a lot of predatory freaks on Instagram. Why put your little girl out there like that? Yeah she’s covered up but it wouldn’t stop some sick creatures.
 
CoffeeMamma said:
I did. I was so upset that I couldn’t take my 4 year old strong willed boy to a cafe for hot chocolate and have “mummy dates” with him. So I hot footed it back to Tattle for a head wobble 😂 seriously though when every day is a battle of wills (me vs. Him), having a little subservient best pal looks like the dream. I tried to take my son for hot chocolate and ended up crying in the car all the way to soft play, we left after 8 minutes. Lunches out happen very rarely and the iPad, along with a sackful of games are the only way to survive. Which she of course makes you feel inferior for.
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I could have written this a year ago, reading it I really felt for you. My son is almost 5 now and although still strong willed he can now go for a hot chocolate or a (quick) lunch without me wanting to cry! It just changed in the last couple of months. I remember last summer going for a coffee with my sister and my niece who is a few months younger (actually Nina’s age) sat so nicely drinking hot chocolate while my son tried to escape the cafe, I was so jealous. However I’ve now realised that she just likes sitting down and if you try to go anywhere she will moan and whine about walking for more than a few minutes. Now a child who is always on the run seems more appealing!
 
Astyanax said:
I could have written this a year ago, reading it I really felt for you. My son is almost 5 now and although still strong willed he can now go for a hot chocolate or a (quick) lunch without me wanting to cry! It just changed in the last couple of months. I remember last summer going for a coffee with my sister and my niece who is a few months younger (actually Nina’s age) sat so nicely drinking hot chocolate while my son tried to escape the cafe, I was so jealous. However I’ve now realised that she just likes sitting down and if you try to go anywhere she will moan and whine about walking for more than a few minutes. Now a child who is always on the run seems more appealing!
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Same here! I have a 3 year old who never sits still and would be beyond bored doing what Nina does. It’s not my parenting, it’s her personality! Plus it’s just Nina being geared up for a sedentary lifestyle of eating…hardly great in reality.
 
So my three year old is quite happy in a cafe or restaurant and loves a trip to Costa for a babychino. However that’s because she generally loves sitting down. If I take her anywhere, she WILL NOT WALK. We go to forest school and she’ll be trying to convince me to carry her from the car park even though it’s literally a three minute walk. There’s def an element of luck in what type of child you get in terms of cafe trips… we’re def not a sedentary family (as you can probs guess from my username…)
 
My 4 (almost 5) year old wont sit still either. She can do a very quick stop for a coffee but she needs constant stimulation, she's bored within moments. Which makes it not exactly a nice relaxing coffee for me as I'm constantly trying to think of entertainment for her! We are more of a walking/scootering/bike riding family, as much as I'd love a nice lunch i know it would be a nightmare so I don't even attempt it. In a few years maybe but right now she's just too active
 
Eenymeenyminymo said:
I’m blocked but has she put any stories up from today?
Passed her house twice, 5 hours apart, both times her car not at home but HUSBAND was out the front cleaning his, both times!! Quite sad if she’s out for the day with N and he hasn’t gone. Such a beaut day in Carlisle
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He always seems to be out cleaning that car from what people on here have said!
But nothing on stories since her videos of Nina dancing.
 
Eenymeenyminymo said:
When she won money on the scratch card and asked what to do with it…I gave her an option she didn’t agree with…charity 🙃
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I’m not sure how you phrased your suggestion but that fact that she’d block you over that shows how thin-skinned and self-centred she is.

Wonder how much that donation to Ukraine, that she had to let everyone know she’d made 🙄, was for? Presume it was less than her scratch card winnings.
 
Sure. name changed said:
Is it a flashy car he drives? I’ve probably spent 5 hours total cleaning my car since I passed my test 13 years ago 😂
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Same 😂 was also wondering what type of car he (and she) has, it must be super clean I know that much! Wonder if she’s had backlash from the dancing stories? Normally what has happened when she goes quiet for a day or two…
 
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