Whatmummymakes #7 A mother who smothers, refers to husband as the ‘Other’

[Pinkii]

The only person she considers in her decision making is herself.

She might actually be that deluded that she thinks she is doing the right thing as she probably doesn’t have anyone around her to tell her otherwise.

nina is really going to struggle when she has to be in school everyday and wont have had much interaction with kids her own age.

 

[Multi-21]

I wonder if it will backfire and when she’s at school Nina will want random days off to do ‘fun’ things with mum and won’t understand why she can’t when she could come and go random days at nursery.

 

[Flip&Flop]

I cannot stand the whole ‘trust your mama instincts’ tripe that Rebecca and so many others wheel out every time somebody disagrees with them.
It’s used to justify every single decision, however idiotic.

Instincts are what you use when your child has a different cry and you know something is wrong despite not receiving help from doctors. Or choosing the right nursery or school.

Instincts are not randomly taking your child out of preschool for yet another NT trip.

And no, she won’t have learned just as much as she would do on a normal preschool day. Because a long car drive and NT trip are a regular feature. It’s not like it was a holiday to learn about a different culture or a one off opportunity for a special event.

Rebecca, you are not teaching her just as much in one of your BFF days as a team of trained childcare professionals do had you allowed Nina to be in preschool. Such arrogance.

I wish her instincts would tell her to get those bleeping ghastly eyebrows and Hagrid hair sorted out

 

[TheBabeWithThePower]

You can see in her camera roll when she's showing people how she made her post that it looks like they went to pizza express and Nina had an ice cream sundae type thing too. Good balanced day!

 

[squatternutbosh]

U know what if it was a one off- then yeah fine. But she is literally dragging Nina out of preschool every single week for ‘mummy & Nini’ days.
not to mention the day she dropped entirely, why couldn’t she take her out on that day?
ofcourse She is going to use the ‘trustyour own instinct’ droll when challenged about her crappy parenting choices. It seems to be the go to rebuttal these days- usually the same ppl who justify their crappy decisions are the same ‘yew dew yew hun’ & ‘they’re just haterz’ crew.
she seems to be in some kind of denial. She acts like when Nina starts full time school she won’t b able to do all this so is condensing 10 years worth of away trips into 1 year- but it’s supposed to be a transition, and if she left Nina in preschool without reducing her days she probably would have benefitted from it as much a Nina. I can see mother Grendel experiencing withdrawal symptoms in September, and she will spiral & instead of seeking help in handling her overbearing behaviour she will channel it in another way- I dread To think what the future holds for poor nini.

 

[rockhoppernroll]

If she does have a second child, then poor Nini is going to really suffer having been forcefed this whole ‘besties’ and ‘mummy and Nini together forever’ narrative. Really not healthy.

 

[Summernights]

Rebecca annoyed that the sun is shining today and not yesterday. Why didn’t she just check the weather and plan her self obsessed nini day today instead ?

 

[Hellomynameis]

Excuse my poor geography knowledge but anyone know how long that trip to the NT would have taken? Also agree with everyone else, also they don't have to do full days at pre school/nursery she could have just arranged mornings and still go out after that ! I know they are flexible but I'm planning on using pre school for my child for the year before they go to school purely to get then used to the environment, making friends etc, get used to school holidays, it won't be every day but it will give me a little time alone not working also ! I will still have nearly 2 full days with my child to do fun things ! Do they do any groups or classes like swimming? Think they will both struggle when Nini goes to school!

 

[Erzxo]

Excuse my poor geography knowledge but anyone know how long that trip to the NT would have taken? Also agree with everyone else, also they don't have to do full days at pre school/nursery she could have just arranged mornings and still go out after that ! I know they are flexible but I'm planning on using pre school for my child for the year before they go to school purely to get then used to the environment, making friends etc, get used to school holidays, it won't be every day but it will give me a little time alone not working also ! I will still have nearly 2 full days with my child to do fun things ! Do they do any groups or classes like swimming? Think they will both struggle when Nini goes to school!

I think it's about 3.5 / 4 hours from Bamburgh or 1.5ish from Carlisle (I know they are opposite ends - but i'm not sure where she stays!)

 

[HashtagRealTalk]

Own up, which one of you commented on Becki’s story telling her to get a grip?! I love to see it.

Her mother-daughter relationship with Nini appears to be a few “pinki-promises” short of being totally toxic to be honest. She is moulding Nini into a ‘mini’ version of exactly what she wants her to be to the point where it’s unusual to see any “Rebecca Wilson Food” marketed without Nina’s smiling face and ringlet hair being part of the campaign. There is only one way this ends when children used as business props finally get old enough to call bullshit on it all...(think Britney or Charlotte Church back in the day!)

Also I’m all for soaking up time with your child before school and think they can learn an awful lot from you as a parent in those early years, however Nini isn’t a toddler learning to regulate basic emotions or learning to play independently - she is a young child probably in need of much greater amounts of social stimulation with starting school just around the corner so I hope Rebecca is letting her have that time she so desperately needs with ya know, learning from other children her OWN age and supervising adults who are not her own entirely biased mother...

 

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You can see in her camera roll when she's showing people how she made her post that it looks like they went to pizza express and Nina had an ice cream sundae type thing too. Good balanced day!

And she has screenshot a couple of replies to her stories there. I wonder if Nina eats anything without a photo being taken on it.
It does show she is really planning putting it all together, not just uploading a few random pics so it must take her a while in the evenings

 

[Erzxo]

Her mother-daughter relationship with Nini appears to be a few “pinki-promises” short of being totally toxic to be honest.

Oh it absolutely is! I am not friends with my kids - I am their parent & it's my job to teach them right from wrong & show them boundaries.

When they are adults, I'll be friends with them as i'll have worked my ass off present day to ensure they are mature adults who know boundaries and respect. The amount of people that are shocked when I say my son's aren't my friends is ridiculous!

 

[Roz99]

Imagine getting your photo taken every time you eat. Imagine your mum has sold multiple cook books and a meal planner but you still eat out every single day!

 

[Eenymeenyminymo]

Excuse my poor geography knowledge but anyone know how long that trip to the NT would have taken? Also agree with everyone else, also they don't have to do full days at pre school/nursery she could have just arranged mornings and still go out after that ! I know they are flexible but I'm planning on using pre school for my child for the year before they go to school purely to get then used to the environment, making friends etc, get used to school holidays, it won't be every day but it will give me a little time alone not working also ! I will still have nearly 2 full days with my child to do fun things ! Do they do any groups or classes like swimming? Think they will both struggle when Nini goes to school!

Only 52 miles from Carlisle, 1 hr 15 from Becky with the tit hairs house

 

[squatternutbosh]

“What I like to hear”

This psycho doesn’t like to hear criticisms, doesn’t like to hear the word no, and Nina must oblige to everything…. If anyone needs proof of what a knobhead this woman is…. Here is ur evidence.

 

[Noodles28]

Looks and sounds as good as last weeks taco pasta…

 

[Strikeapose18]

Cheesy pasta once again!! How original.

It’s the type of tit I ate when I was 18, broke and had limited cooking skills.

Not exactly a walking advert for pasta several times a week either.

 

[waterwitch]

I’ve recently learnt about emotional parentification, when I read about it my mind instantly went to Rebecca.

 

[Lilykins]

Bex likes to think she is mum of the year but with all her ‘im making the most of time with my child before they go to school’ but has she thought that for some of her followers they don’t get to do this? I work full time so can’t just have random bestie trips! She is so up her own arse she has no idea what’s realistic.

 

[Yellow_brick_road]

What annoys me is she dresses this up as good for Nina, she says she is wanting to spend time with her which I actually think fair enough but she has taken her out two days a week anyway and it's her that wants to go to National Trust properties and eat out not Nina. The whole thing is done because Bex wants to go and do her favourite activities and Nina is dragged along so she doesn't have to go on her own, if she was doing it for Nina surely she would choose activities that are good for her. I only put my daughter in nursery three days while I'm working but the other two we have her activities and meet her friends, I don't take her shopping or for days out to places I want to visit. I'm surprised Bex shared a negative message to be honest normally her inbox is bursting with lovely messages and people asking where Nina's clothes are from (apparently).