Tiffany Thinks #13

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I had to cringe when she asked for anyone who knows about induced menopause to "comment down below'.

I commented months ago with chapter and verse about my experience following losing my ovaries to cancer. I'm not going to waste my time again, seeing as she clearly only reads posts from certain posters!
 
Turaj said:
i think he has been with other women for sure...I think that approach is an awkwardness for the camera and honestly I don't think he feels much romance in the air these days. The hugs seem staged and not meaningful. He seems to do things on Q for the camera.
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They act more like sharing a house friends

SueB said:
I had to cringe when she asked for anyone who knows about induced menopause to "comment down below'.

I commented months ago with chapter and verse about my experience following losing my ovaries to cancer. I'm not going to waste my time again, seeing as she clearly only reads posts from certain posters!
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She has no interest in people's replies
 
c.sabatier said:
For some reason, I hold the minority view here that he will be staying with her, and probably eventually marry. From what is shown in the videos, they do seem to match (and by that I am not referring to outfits)
(a) They are both food-centric (however much or little she eats)
(b) They both seem to thrive on details (such as wrapping, fancy socks, plants, clothing in general)
(c) They are both optometrists.
(d) They both, in theory at least, are the same religion.
(e) They both enjoy their outings together.

At this point, Matt seems resigned to Tiffany as his partner, and future wife. He is just used to her, and would most likely miss her company. After all, he is the one who insisted on moving in, according to Tiffany. She was the one prepared to let him go at the beginning of her cancer journey.
What other type of woman would be better suited for Matt?
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I woyidbt even say resigned: I think he's seriously smitten with her. Had this happened when they were younger maybe not, but in their 30s I'm guessing he's ready to settle diwn- and maybe the extent of this surgery hadn't fully hit him yet?
I remember saying I'd love my son no matter what when I turned down amnio, the obstetrician saying to me that the reality is very very different.
 
Turaj said:
I find that phone call (if it was for real) to be really a good indicator that either this surgery is not what she has led people to believe or she is simply in a dream land that HRT will be the biggest issue post surgery.
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I'm trying to remember what has actually come out of her mouth about the surgery (I don't think it's much). Did she saying anything about taking skin/muscle from legs to reconstruct or was that in the comments? I know she mentioned a list of organs to be removed, was it definite or "possible list". Has she said how long she'll be in hospital to recover? I don't believe she's ever mentioned a stoma, correct?
 
Turaj said:
I find that phone call (if it was for real) to be really a good indicator that either this surgery is not what she has led people to believe or she is simply in a dream land that HRT will be the biggest issue post surgery.
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Yes very strange. I wonder if she lied about getting pelvic exenteration. She never actually mentioned 'pelvic exenteration' (she likes to keep the mystery high to generate more interest and also PE is not cozy). Nothing indicates that she is in fact having it, she doesn't mention preparing for it (such as meeting with stoma nurses) apart from saying 'removing everything from the pelvis' and then listing the organs to be removed (she did not mention some which are usually part of a total pelvic exenteration). Yes she mentions a reconstructive surgeon but that could be a lie. And it's hilarious that she keeps menitoning HRT. Like you said, early menopause would be the least of her worries. She first needs to survive PE and a very long recovery from it. Also, I think none of her viewers (us included) are interested in this HRT issue. We want to know when is the surgery etc. She does it all the time though; she talks about other issues (cold sores, neuropathy, etc) to avoid talking about the important and less cozy ones.
 
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jenh526 said:
I think she will have a surgery. Pelvic exenteration though? I am dubious. I’ve never even heard her mention it specifically.

Interesting about the gynecologist mentioning 6 weeks after surgery in the phone call. That is the typical recovery time for a hysterectomy.
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But if the tumour is in her rectum, why would she get a hysterectomy? Just to prevent further spread? If so, wouldn't that point to the cancer being inoperable?
 
stardust22 said:
But if the tumour is in her rectum, why would she get a hysterectomy? Just to prevent further spread? If so, wouldn't that point to the cancer being inoperable?
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The tumor grew through the wall of the rectum and into the vagina and uterus. Because of this the first doctors told her it was too big for surgery. But the Royal Marsden was willing to evaluate her for possible PE and then agreed to do the PE.
Google T4B colorectal cancer.
 
jenh526 said:
I think she will have a surgery. Pelvic exenteration though? I am dubious. I’ve never even heard her mention it specifically.

Interesting about the gynecologist mentioning 6 weeks after surgery in the phone call. That is the typical recovery time for a hysterectomy.
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I'm kind of leaning towards possible lesser surgery as well, now. I didn't think she'd have the surgery at all but if she is, possibly not what she's led people to believe.
I just watched a clip from Cancer Q&A, dumbass me figured it was about cancer but most was fluff. She did get asked what surgery she is having, got obviously flustered and said "of course I'll tell you guys, removal of rectum, cut out a bit of uterus, back line of uter.., oh I don't want to talk about it, you'll see in Thursday's video, I watched that and nothing. I don't think she's told us anything, which is pretty much when I ended up frustrated with her channel.
 
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AlwaysScience said:
The tumor grew through the wall of the rectum and into the vagina and uterus. Because of this the first doctors told her it was too big for surgery. But the Royal Marsden was willing to evaluate her for possible PE and then agreed to do the PE.
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Ah ok, thanks. I realised it had grown into the vagina, but didn't know it was in her uterus.
If it has changed to a hysterectomy I would be quite baffled. The only reason I could think of would be as a preventive measure to keep it at bay, but surely it would be classified as inoperable in that case as they won't get it out with a hysterectomy.
 
PuzzlesAndWine said:
I'm trying to remember what has actually come out of her mouth about the surgery (I don't think it's much). Did she saying anything about taking skin/muscle from legs to reconstruct or was that in the comments? I know she mentioned a list of organs to be removed, was it definite or "possible list". Has she said how long she'll be in hospital to recover? I don't believe she's ever mentioned a stoma, correct?
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She once said something like "I don't mind having bags on my body and losing all these organs ...". It was in that 'raw' "removing organs" video where she was crying quite a bit. That's the only time she ever referenced the stomas.
 
LeonorG said:
Yes very strange. I wonder if she lied about getting pelvic exenteration. She never actually mentioned 'pelvic exenteration' (she likes to keep the mystery high to generate more interest and also PE is not cozy). Nothing indicates that she is in fact having it, she doesn't mention preparing for it (such as meeting with stoma nurses) apart from saying 'removing everything from the pelvis' and then listing the organs to be removed (she did not mention some which are usually part of a total pelvic exenteration). Yes she mentions a reconstructive surgeon but that could be a lie. And it's hilarious that she keeps menitoning HRT. Like you said, early menopause would be the least of her worries. She first needs to survive PE and a very long recovery from it. Also, I think none of her viewers (us included) are interested in this HRT issue. We want to know when is the surgery etc. She does it all the time though; she talks about other (boring) issues (cold sores, neuropathy, etc) to avoid talking about the important and less cozy ones.
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Agree. I too wonder if the operation is bowel resection/ileostomy/ hysterectomy… a lot less compared to PE.
Interesting she doesn’t mention by name and seems quite calm for pending PE!
Well we know she lies… it’s very possible.
 
puddleduck said:
I cannot work her out at all since in theory we have been led to believe that she is going for surgery within the next week or so. Wouldn't a normal person be referring to it in some way?
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She probably thinks it would be too hectic for us to know the details. :D
jenh526 said:
I think she will have a surgery. Pelvic exenteration though? I am dubious. I’ve never even heard her mention it specifically.

Interesting about the gynecologist mentioning 6 weeks after surgery in the phone call. That is the typical recovery time for a hysterectomy.
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It has to be PE from all she's said. When she came out of the big meeting they were talking about a 12 hour surgery. They talked about reconstruction. She's met with all 4 surgeons you'd meet with for a PE - urologist, gyno, reconstructive gyno and colon surgeon. There is no other surgery that I know of that would need all those people for 12 hours for colon cancer with spread to the uterine wall (and potentially bladder involvement). I had a hysterectomy. It took very little time in the operating room and I was out of the hospital and back at work the next day. It's definitely not just that - but that is part of it.
 
PuzzlesAndWine said:
I'm trying to remember what has actually come out of her mouth about the surgery (I don't think it's much). Did she saying anything about taking skin/muscle from legs to reconstruct or was that in the comments? I know she mentioned a list of organs to be removed, was it definite or "possible list". Has she said how long she'll be in hospital to recover? I don't believe she's ever mentioned a stoma, correct?
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I recall her saying something about her thigh. Taking “it” from the the thigh muscle but I don’t recall her saying where they’d put it.
 
Grow-a-Pear said:
She probably thinks it would be too hectic for us to know the details. :D


It has to be PE from all she's said. When she came out of the big meeting they were talking about a 12 hour surgery. They talked about reconstruction. She's met with all 4 surgeons you'd meet with for a PE - urologist, gyno, reconstructive gyno and colon surgeon. There is no other surgery that I know of that would need all those people for 12 hours for colon cancer with spread to the uterine wall (and potentially bladder involvement). I had a hysterectomy. It took very little time in the operating room and I was out of the hospital and back at work the next day. It's definitely not just that - but that is part of it.
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Yep you are right. There is quite a bit of evidence she is having PE, the letter stating the operation lasts 12 hours (a standard for PE) is a good one. Of course, it's just her words, we have not actually seen the letter. I don't know why she cannot just say "I'm having pelvic exenteration", like a normal person. She is such a weirdo, everything is one big mystery (including her old surgeries) and instead she tortures us with an in depth explanation of how a boiled egg is made. bleeping hell.
 
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