Looking at autotrader I’ll be shocked if they quote less than £40k given it’s only a year old with low milage.
I get everyone grieves differently but something seems so off with her for me. When I lost my baby, the materialistic items didn’t bring me comfort. She’s not fake crying over a beaten up Yaris and hiding away in a travelodge. She’s going on luxury holidays and crying over keeping a Merc.
Sincerity would be crying over their smell on the bed sheets, their medicines still in the fridge, their hair still in the brush. Not ‘he loved the sunroof’.
I find the whole grave thing very odd too. I completely understand the pain of visiting but she’s turned it into some tourist eye sore, encourages others to go but not herself. Like others said, she’s not considered anyone else’s need to grieve.
A postbox seems a bizzare decoration too unless she’s begging for donations, even on a bloody grave.