I’ve never posted on her threads before, and wouldn’t ever speak badly of a grieving mum. I don’t even disagree with how she parents - I’d have to walk a mile in her shoes before I can judge, and I wouldn’t have swapped to her &jaxon’s life for all the money in the world - my kids have their health and I don’t begrudge her a penny of the money people donated to her fundraisers when he was alive to improve his quality of life and to make her life easier. You want to buy a hot tub sis to go make memories with your kid - GO FOR IT.
BUTTTT if she spends a penny of that funeral fundraiser on buying her car, she’s gone too far. There are other sick kids, like Jaxon, all over the UK. That money could, and SHOULD be used to make their lives easier now. That should be his legacy and what brings her joy - that money making other children’s qualities of life better. Not to buy her a Mercedes. She should donate every penny that was donated to Jaxon and is still left - the sooner the better. Anything else is just selfish and denying other disabled kids the chances that Jaxon was given.