Everyone on this thread knows he has always been a big part of J's upbringing and that he paid maintenance as well as having him for weekends and long stays. We all knew when he was with him even if she was posting pre-recorded footage of him making out she had him. I wasn't making judgements, I asked as I have never been able to understand how he has known about this thread and seen for himself what has been going on but never said anything. On the other threads people have discussed why he hasn't said anything, I was only asking why he cant have a voice. It doesnt matter with him whether he has 110k or 400 followers, he isn't the same as anyone else who would get shot down by her followers, he is J's dad and that holds weight. He hasn't always been blocked or removed, he has been able to see everything up until recently, she only removed him as a friend when she read her tattle threads and saw that we was telling people to look at her friends list to find him, that wasn't that long before J fell ill, they had followed each other up until that point and then she quickly deleted him. I was curious as to how he could follow her and allow himself to be made to look like a absent father, even this easter gone, she was posting J to her stories but he had him for nearly 2 weeks, they went on holiday together and he was at their home quite alot. It must have been difficult to be friends with her whilst she made him look like he was an absent father, I wouldn't have been able to cope with a ex like that.