Syd and Ell #15 Syd’s personality trait is being Ocean’s mum, Luxury stationary? Ell, are you ok hun?

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fluffybunny101 said:
I listened to the podcast and didn’t take a ton from it one way or the other. Obviously no ‘tea’ was spilt. But I didn’t necessarily think Syd can off super badly but not in a super positive light either. I agree she would definitely benefit from some therapy the whole saying ‘hurt people, hurt people’ applies to her and I think there’s an element of self awareness there but maybe not enough to realise the damage she’s doing. I’m glad her nan has obviously called her out on it. I think sometimes I find it tricky as she can act like such an hole but I remember going through a period of time where I ‘didn’t put up with bullshit’ like she stated but what it meant is I didn’t give anyone a chance ever. I was making up fantasies about the actions I thought they’d take or find faults that weren’t there and give that as reasoning for cutting people off (mine was more romantic relationships though) but in actual fact I was just being an a-hole. My friends use to call me the ice queen etc and I remember thinking hell yeah back then. But after therapy I reflect on that time and it makes me sad. I get why Syd has the mindset she does but her nan is right. She’ll end up with no one if she isn’t careful. Would be interesting to see if her brother is the same. What I did take from that podcast is the host lucy is quite frankly the most overbearing person I’ve ever listened so. She does not stop talking the amount of times she interrupted was madness!
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Just as an aside, Lucy sucks - she has a thread on here mostly about how she makes everyone else’s lives about her - in that respect I can see why she gets on with Syd. She’s also an antivax lunatic who doesn’t have WiFi in her house because she thinks the ‘radiation’ will give her baby diseases or something 😂🤢
 
Thegoodelife said:
yeah the host was also really terrible! I was laughing because that was the first time syd had met this girl in person and she told her the whole story of why her and ell fell out when they met at the coffee shop before they did the podcast. Can’t believe she’d speak so freely to someone she just met 😂😂😂😅
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Literally who does that??? Keep it private from people you don’t know 😭 How can she trust someone that easily
 
gossipgirl59 said:
Also, who was the interviewer? She didn’t know who ell was before the podcast but syd told her all the details about why they fell out off camera. She told a random lady who she isn’t close to about that? Find it a bit weird
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also thought the interviewer was a bit shady going “who’s Ell”“I didn’t know who Ell was” surely you would of done your research before interviewing someone? Also the fact she had to keep dropping that she knew what happened
 
Why was the interviewer so excited to keep saying she knows the real reason Syd and Ell fell out 😂 It’s weird how much she kept saying it and it’s even more weird that Syd told her. That interviewer was 100% sucking up to Syd by saying she had no idea who Ell was and trying to be on Syds good side to get as much gossip out of her as she could and she succeeded cause Syd had no problem telling her what happened off camera.

This isn’t the first time either Syd has been eager to go around saying things to people about Ell to make them dislike her. In 2021 Syd went to saffron barkers birthday party and the day after the party Saffron and some other girls who were at the party all unfollowed Ell when they had been following and commenting on her posts before. They’re also fake people for doing that cause it’s immature. Fair enough there’s two sides to a story sometimes and Im not saying Ell is perfect but from what I’ve read on here over the last few years about what they possibly fell out over , seems to me like Syd is the main problem and I personally find her unlikable most of the time. Ell can be boring with her content but she doesn’t come across spiteful or mean ever from what I’ve seen in all the years of seeing videos.

Part of me thought well at least Syd said some nice things about Ell that was a mature thing to do but at the same time the way she hints at things about the fall out it’s like she’s bitter and god knows what she has said or says about Ell behind her back to people. I would find it hard to trust someone like Syd so even if they somehow ended up properly being friends again I think it’s better for them to be civil with eachother but getting close again I don’t think would be the right or healthy thing to do cause if after that many years as friends you can fall out and go years not being close then was the friendship that healthy and good in the first place?

Yeah they were friends a very long time and no matter why they fell out it would hurt to lose a friend but Syd seems the kind of person that even if she’s in the wrong she won’t be the one to say sorry , she won’t be the one to take accountability and go fix things and instead will let the other person come begging saying sorry even if they’ve not done anything wrong.
 
It’s just weird to me that, after being best friends for 20 years, she didn’t have enough respect for ell and not tell random people about why they fell out

Also, she makes out that her and molly fell out because molly wasn’t there during her pregnancy. But even when syd announced she was pregnant to molly, something seemed off between them. I reckon molly didn’t spend as much time with Syd once she got a boyfriend and syd did not like that. No reason to fall out over it though
 
gossipgirl59 said:
It’s just weird to me that, after being best friends for 20 years, she didn’t have enough respect for ell and not tell random people about why they fell out

Also, she makes out that her and molly fell out because molly wasn’t there during her pregnancy. But even when syd announced she was pregnant to molly, something seemed off between them. I reckon molly didn’t spend as much time with Syd once she got a boyfriend and syd did not like that. No reason to fall out over it though
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How much was she expecting someone to be there for her when she was pregnant? If someone I’m close to was pregnant then yeah of course I’d be supportive, message and call see how they are and how the pregnancy is going while also spending time with them like we normally would seeing each other when you have time but I wouldn’t give up my whole life for them just cause they’re pregnant. It doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be there or wouldn’t care but my life would still have to go on as normal so I don’t get what Syd was expecting Molly or anyone to do. She acts like she’s royalty like everyone has to be at her beck and call and if not you’re automatically a bad friend or selfish.

You’re right when she told Molly she was pregnant in that video something was off then. I can’t say if Molly was a good friend to her or not behind closed doors and maybe she distanced herself and didn’t care at all how Syd was I don’t know but it’s hard to know what to believe from Syd cause when someone falls out with people a lot it does make you think they have to be the problem if they’re losing people they’ve been close friends with for years.

Funny how when both Ell and Molly got boyfriends all of a sudden that’s when things go wrong and fall outs happen but Syd will probably always claim to never be the main problem. Pretty much everyone who gets into their first relationship or first serious relationship you are in a lovey dovey bubble and you invest time to make the relationship grow but maybe Syd didn’t like that her friends started to have their own lives instead of being around her all the time.
 
I think that syd has deffo matured and is maybe even wanting to be friends with Ell again becauee she was very different and almost nice about her on the clip I've seen.
the host I thought was very disrespectful to Ell and syd for that matter saying she didn't know who Ell was. So basically you didn't engage with syds content very much either then because it doesn't take a genius to work out they were best friends!
 
CloudMeringue said:
Just as an aside, Lucy sucks - she has a thread on here mostly about how she makes everyone else’s lives about her - in that respect I can see why she gets on with Syd. She’s also an antivax lunatic who doesn’t have WiFi in her house because she thinks the ‘radiation’ will give her baby diseases or something 😂🤢
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whats her thread name on here I can’t seem to find it?? Interested to hear what people have to say about her
 
I see right through Sydney. She’s god awful. I bet Ells side of the story wouldn’t be ‘boring’ because she would expose Syd for how vile she is. Syd has virtually nothing to say on the matter because she is the problem! It’s so obvious!! Cutting off 15/20 year friend ships because they got a boyfriend and aren’t available 24/7 is shocking behaviour and incredibly controlling. Ell is not a horrid girl and Sydney saying they had different ‘priorities’ is the reason they fell out says all we need to know. Syd never wanted Ell to be happy and find someone who treated her so well.

That host was absolutely awful too! It was giving ‘so glad everyone knows about the pregnancy now I don’t have to keep it a secret’ 🙄🥱
 
This is why not everyone should have a podcast - Lucy was awful at hosting and really distracted me from what Syd had to say. I have ADHD and interrupt in convos less than that! Also not sure why they didn’t prep any questions before hand.. felt the whole thing was very inarticulate from Syd and Lucy and a lot of nothingness was said because nothing was pre discussed. Such an odd podcast I don’t think Lucy should quit her day job 😂😂😂
 
Pxwxp said:
Sorry if this offends anyone but .. her fingers are so hairy 🫣 not that there’s anything wrong with that just doesn’t flow with her ‘clean girl aesthetic’
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Omg the way I audibly gasped 😳
I have never seen hairs on a woman’s fingers, not even on the elderly!

The way you can actually see the pores where they sprout from is really bizarre to me, apologies if anyone here happens to have hairy fingers but my mind is blown 😂
 
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