Syd and Ell #15 Syd’s personality trait is being Ocean’s mum, Luxury stationary? Ell, are you ok hun?

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sydneymae said:
Omg the way I audibly gasped 😳
I have never seen hairs on a woman’s fingers, not even on the elderly!

The way you can actually see the pores where they sprout from is really bizarre to me, apologies if anyone here happens to have hairy fingers but my mind is blown 😂
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This is really strange from you, a lot of women have hair on their fingers? I have hair on mine, I’m a person of colour with dark thick hair in general so yes I have some on my fingers as do lots of other people. I also find a lot of the other comments on this thread about the hair not being shaved off weird. It is such a minor thing in my life and does not bother me at all that I don’t even see the need to shave it and find the revulsion people are expressing just wildly overdramatic.

I’m not a syd defender at all but some people really need to step out of their insulated bubbles and expand their horizons.
 
sydneymae said:
Omg the way I audibly gasped 😳
I have never seen hairs on a woman’s fingers, not even on the elderly!

The way you can actually see the pores where they sprout from is really bizarre to me, apologies if anyone here happens to have hairy fingers but my mind is blown 😂
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I’m extremely dark haired and have hairy fingers and I think you’d find a lot of naturally dark haired women do. Hairs on the fingers are often amplified when under a manicurist’s light. If you “audibly gasped” at that, you need to get a grip.
 
sydneymae said:
Omg the way I audibly gasped 😳
I have never seen hairs on a woman’s fingers, not even on the elderly!

The way you can actually see the pores where they sprout from is really bizarre to me, apologies if anyone here happens to have hairy fingers but my mind is blown 😂
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Erm this is a bit of an ignorant statement 😕. It’s completely normal to have hair on fingers.
 
The host was awful!! She kept interrupting and trying to fill in what syd is about to say. Let syd speak

I didn’t agree with what they were saying either. The host said to normalise calling friends up and ending friendships. But I think that’s bizarre. If it’s been a while and the friendship isn’t working then talk with each other, don’t just call and end it. Also, just because someone is on a different journey to you doesn’t mean you stop being friends. Adults have busy lives, we can’t always hang out at the same time etc. No need to cut someone off because of that

She makes it out like friendships ending is normal. Yes it is but that’s if you have naturally drifted. They were best friends for 20 years and fell out. There’s a difference
 
I’ve always thought Syd was such a bitter Betty but this podcast actually showed me how truly nasty she is. Did anyone catch these two parts? She was talking about how her ex cheated on her and she stayed with him, she starts saying how his ex messaged her saying it had happened and she never responded to the message. She went on to say she’s so glad she never replied because she didn’t give the girl the reaction she was hoping and that she knows it eats the girl up? I was like what a gross thing to say, direct your anger at your ex who stepped out and not the girl.
Then another part of the podcast viewers wrote in questions and one was a really terrible situation, it was a girl who was pregnant and her bf had cheated on her and gave her an STD. You could hear Syd sniggering and laughing at the question, I was so SHOCKED. Nasty nasty nasty
 
sephylily said:
This is really strange from you, a lot of women have hair on their fingers? I have hair on mine, I’m a person of colour with dark thick hair in general so yes I have some on my fingers as do lots of other people. I also find a lot of the other comments on this thread about the hair not being shaved off weird. It is such a minor thing in my life and does not bother me at all that I don’t even see the need to shave it and find the revulsion people are expressing just wildly overdramatic.

I’m not a syd defender at all but some people really need to step out of their insulated bubbles and expand their horizons.
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I am paler than Casper himself with blonde hair, and I still have hair on my fingers 😂 I think some people are a little too far up their own backsides sometimes lol
 
Thegoodelife said:
I’ve always thought Syd was such a bitter Betty but this podcast actually showed me how truly nasty she is. Did anyone catch these two parts? She was talking about how her ex cheated on her and she stayed with him, she starts saying how his ex messaged her saying it had happened and she never responded to the message. She went on to say she’s so glad she never replied because she didn’t give the girl the reaction she was hoping and that she knows it eats the girl up? I was like what a gross thing to say, direct your anger at your ex who stepped out and not the girl.
Then another part of the podcast viewers wrote in questions and one was a really terrible situation, it was a girl who was pregnant and her bf had cheated on her and gave her an STD. You could hear Syd sniggering and laughing at the question, I was so SHOCKED. Nasty nasty nasty
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I haven't listened but this is gross - she's truly such an ugly individual on the inside, all her ex friends are better off
 
Thegoodelife said:
She was talking about how her ex cheated on her and she stayed with him, she starts saying how his ex messaged her saying it had happened and she never responded to the message. She went on to say she’s so glad she never replied because she didn’t give the girl the reaction she was hoping and that she knows it eats the girl up? I was like what a gross thing to say, direct your anger at your ex who stepped out and not the girl.
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this doesn't surprise me in the slightest and I do NOT know why people like her or think she's a nice person bc she clearly isn't saying "I didn't give her the reaction she was hoping for"????? girl YOU look stupid for staying with a cheater who obviously didn't want you or like you enough to stay faithful and wanted to go back to his ex are you not embarrassed?? I would be embarrassed if my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and I would not ignore the message and carry on like nothing happened lol

She's the type of girl to know a boy is cheating and deliberately NOT tell the girlfriend and be nice to her face but when it comes out be like oh yeah i knew all about it....in the words of the current MAFS scandal she is NOT a girls girl
 
This podcast host acting like Syd has been to war and seen the worst of the worst 🤦🏻‍♀️ yeah her mum died, she wasnt even really in her life anyway and her Granddad died which is totally normal unfortunately, doesnt give her the right to be an entitled selfish witch?? She’s literally the opposite of humble
 
Sorry if I offended anyone for being baffled at hairy fingers, I’d genuinely not known any women to have them but turns out it’s something I’d just never noticed!! I’d noticed it on plenty of men just never picked up on it on women.

Ugh I attempted to tune into that podcast but couldn’t stand the holier than thou attitude that miss lego headed crouch was displaying. The way she expresses herself whilst speaking is so smug and you can just tell that in her life and relationships with people, it’s always been her way or the highway. It also really doesn’t sit right with me how she uses the excuse of losing her mum (whom she circumstantially wasn’t close with) and her grandad as a way to be cold toward others.

Most human beings have lost people close to them and some of us unfortunately have lost more than others from a young age. I know that I personally do not weaponise my losses against others and let it dictate my attitude toward fellow human beings.

I had to click out, she’s just so off putting and that god complex of hers is written all over her Lego headed face.
 

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I think she has had a very traumatic life, you can’t take that away from her.
However she hasn’t dealt/ coped with it properly and it’s now affecting her life with relationships and friendships etc.
Cutting years long friendships off for things like getting in a relationship is genuinely dry toxic behaviour.
I know she was joking about it, but Syd baby you really ARE the problem.
Seek therapy instead of dropping 5k on Chanel bags.
 
Thegoodelife said:
I think she has had a very traumatic life, you can’t take that away from her.
However she hasn’t dealt/ coped with it properly and it’s now affecting her life with relationships and friendships etc.
Cutting years long friendships off for things like getting in a relationship is genuinely dry toxic behaviour.
I know she was joking about it, but Syd baby you really ARE the problem.
Seek therapy instead of dropping 5k on Chanel bags.
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Has she said she’s ever tried therapy? Surprised if she hasn’t given what she’s gone through. The Molly friendship ending is pretty petty to me but with the Ell fall out I kinda get it as she was being slagged off and her bf called Syd a bleep and I’m assuming Ell just sided him based on the fact they fell out, which is hurtful like she said on the pod. But then again there’s gotta be more to it considering they were slagging her off in the first place and Ell sticking by her bf. I mean we did all point out her mistreatment by Syd on here before the fall out
 
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