Syd and Ell #15 Syd’s personality trait is being Ocean’s mum, Luxury stationary? Ell, are you ok hun?

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Maybe it’s just me but I still feel like she’s dodging the truth. Both friendships ended abruptly so it’s more than just ‘big life changes’. Pretty sure there was over a year between her falling out with Ell and getting pregnant with Ocean so that can’t really be used as an excuse. The ‘big changes’ that line up with the fall out are buying their flats and Ell getting a boyfriend, neither of which should cause a friendship to end (unless there’s an issue with the boyfriend..).

I can maybe understand the Molly situation because they really did go from 0 to 100, they pretty much latched onto each other when Syd and Ell fell out. But again they went from being best mates doing everything together to suddenly Molly getting a half arsed ‘I’m pregnant’ reveal from Syd and then we never see her again. The common denominator is still both Ell and Molly getting boyfriends and then falling out with Syd not long after🤷‍♀️

It’s not even like Ell and Molly aren’t interested in babies considering Molly is currently pregnant and Ell acts like her niece is her own child. So surely Syd having Ocean would bring them closer since they’re all baby mad and not be this ‘big change’ that would cause them to drift apart?

Call me cynical but I’m just not buying it🤣
 
I said ages ago and I stick by it taking attitudes out of the equation when Syd has been in relationships she’s still made a lot of time for her friends. I am sure there is more to it but I wonder if when both Ell and Molly met their boyfriends she either felt or was abandoned a bit? There’s deffo more to the story as if that’s how you were feeling then they should be able to have a conversation with their ‘best friend’ and a resolution should be had. But I do wonder if that’s played into it a bit. Particularly in mollys case like since she met her boyfriend I haven’t really seen her with any friends for that matter let alone Syd!

side note should ELL’s stories show as Ad? I’m so confused by these Virgin cruise stories I’ve seen so many influencers go and they all post but some say Ad and some don’t!
 
xbxbx said:
Maybe it’s just me but I still feel like she’s dodging the truth. Both friendships ended abruptly so it’s more than just ‘big life changes’. Pretty sure there was over a year between her falling out with Ell and getting pregnant with Ocean so that can’t really be used as an excuse. The ‘big changes’ that line up with the fall out are buying their flats and Ell getting a boyfriend, neither of which should cause a friendship to end (unless there’s an issue with the boyfriend..).

I can maybe understand the Molly situation because they really did go from 0 to 100, they pretty much latched onto each other when Syd and Ell fell out. But again they went from being best mates doing everything together to suddenly Molly getting a half arsed ‘I’m pregnant’ reveal from Syd and then we never see her again. The common denominator is still both Ell and Molly getting boyfriends and then falling out with Syd not long after🤷‍♀️

It’s not even like Ell and Molly aren’t interested in babies considering Molly is currently pregnant and Ell acts like her niece is her own child. So surely Syd having Ocean would bring them closer since they’re all baby mad and not be this ‘big change’ that would cause them to drift apart?

Call me cynical but I’m just not buying it🤣
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Yeah these “big life changes” must be Ell and Molly getting boyfriends as it’s in time with both fall outs
 
She's just a very self centred human being. She makes herself the star in other people's lives. I just get the vibe that she thinks her friends are beneath her from how she spoke about someone wanting more of her attention or to show up for them more and she basically ended the friendship cause her life is more important. How do you fall out with your two best friends and you're *not* be the problem.
 
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Just watched that part of the video, probably in the minority here but I found it sad lol. Unpopular opinion again but I actually hope they can eventually rekindle, they had a connection that would be a shame to completely disregard and I feel like Syd has kinda matured. The content would be a bit more enjoyable too
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I do not think she’s mature enough to be the bigger person and apologise in order to reach out/rekindle SHE is the reason they’re not friends (obvs Ells bf was the reason they argued initially but we all know the reason the friendship was cut off so abruptly was miss the truth will come out eventually)

Whereas I feel like if Ell wanted to be her friend she would be her friend you know??? Syd strikes me as the type to stalk Ell/Molly and see what they’re doing constantly whereas I genuinely feel like Ell has family/real friends to keep her life fulfilled and doesn’t need Syd back….all of Syds friends are superficial influencer ones that aren’t real and won’t last I agree it's a shame she lost her one genuine friend but hopefully it was a wake up call to her lol
 
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So bright and colourful 😍😍 how on earth is she gonna decide?!
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