Niomi Smart #4 where did Joey goey?

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I can't believe her "Happier" dancing in the field, running her fingers through her hair, smiling while holding a camera up to her face. Imagine being someone driving past on the road? What an embarrassment.

Even though it may be painful now, I think it's great that Joe left her (speculation, but pretty obvious at this point). Their lives didn't mesh well at all. There is nothing wrong with working overtime often/wanting to move overseas for a dream career (Dreamy career for a Dreamy Joe) and putting your career as a massive priority in your life, especially at their age, but your partner needs to reciprocate that. Nimbobs (who barely works) would be bored at home too often -- but any average girl who also has a 9am-5pm where they have to stay late and are significantly less cringe and food/workout-obsessed would be much better for him surely!

I think she's an absolute fraud, shoving "Dreamy Joe" in our face for years and then all of a sudden "Onwards and Upwards!" and "On to better things!" Jesus Christ.
 
I'm finding it quite hard to actually have any sympathy for her! I mean obviously she has gone through something horrible and I wouldnt wish that on anyone but i just cant feel sorry for her. I mean she shoved DrEamY JoEeeeEyyY in our faces like no tomorrow and always acted so smug about how amazing and how good looking he was. In the video where she cuts his hair all her replies in the comments are so cringe just swooning over how attractive he is. She really just boils my blood as to how entitled and out of touch with reality is, the typical youtuber "I work so hard" when really they have no idea what its like to work and do a real job. As evident from the videos she didnt seem to treat him very well with regards to food and probably starved the poor guy. I just find her unbearable
 
When I went through my last breakup, I was doing what she's doing now - hanging out with friends, posting on social media, and having a great time. It wasn't until after about two months that I completely had a nervous breakdown and went into a depression.

I really feel for her - breakups are dreadful and I hope I never have to go through another one.
 
I think she should stop posing in fields in general. The photos of her in the un ironed dress were just so so random!
I feel very sad for her overall but I think it would be best if she put out a a YouTube video explaining that they are no longer together instead of all the angry replies to comments & girl power!
 
I think joey just looked like he was always at work because it is in contrast to Niomi working so little. She was always on her own because we are used to vloggers who live with a partner who also stayed home. I would say Joe's work life was pretty typical for a driven 30 year old, nothing crazy.

lemondaze said:
Just wondering have I missed something about the whole Freddie’s flat drama? Just watched a vlog and she says it’s Joe’s flat and Freddie will be their flat mate. It doesn’t sound like she waltzed into his house and changed everything around like some people were speculating
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Freddie already lived there though, Niomi did waltz in and removed all of his stuff from the living room & kitchen and replaced it with her own. She vlogged it.
 
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rach1903 said:
I don’t see how he could have met someone else. They were in India together, and then in lockdown together in England. He can’t have ended it in a nice way though because she keeps referring to is a very traumatic time.
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I think even if he was nice about it there is no getting around unbelievably awful it would be to be dumped after you've booked your wedding venue! I don't think Niomi saw this coming and thats why its so traumatic.
 
All her references to putting herself first now, shining bright, upwards and onwards blablabla suggest to me 1. Her having to 'compromise' to move to India, 2. Her having to 'compromise' to move into the shared flat. 3. Her 'compromising' her future with uncertainity about Joe's job. 4. Her 'compromising' to accommodate his full time job.

I really think that he wanted to move into the shared flat knowing he would move back to India or Dubai again for the job sometime soon. She was probably already pissed but not expecting the job move and then when he's decided he's going there no matter what, she's snapped. Maybe he also wanted to delay the wedding because he wasn't sure what the future looked like?

I mean I get if she knew that for 2 years they'd live abroad but if he wants to do it indefinitely, doesn't want to settle in the UK and possibly didn't want to get married if she didn't want to live abroad indefinitely, it can all fall apart very fast. Maybe she imagined wedding, buying a 'forever home', starting a family but he sees another 5 years abroad at least, if not more, with no plans to settle anywhere.

For example. three of my ex classmates from high school, three women - each were in a very long term relationship, one bought a house with her partner and shortly after got engaged and within six months, suddenly single. Second one, bought a house with her partner, not soon after, moved to France to teach snowboarding and obviously the relationship is over. Third even had her bachelorette after living together, engagement, constant gushy instagram posts about her man. Even posted '15 days to Mr. and Mrs. ____' and then suddenly, single as well.

I think big life decisions and some built up resentment can quickly cause everything to implode. Doesn't necessarily have to be cheating level 'bad behaviour'. You pretend everything is okay (from both sides) and then one thing pushes you over the edge.

Edit: Her references to a 'shitstorm' also makes me think that plans changed very fast and unexpectedly that ended up at a point where he couldn't offer her anything she wanted and she was pissed off by all the changes. i.e him possibly jumping to a new job in India/Dubai without even considering what their future would look like.
 
hnoz said:
I think joey just looked like he was always at work because it is in contrast to Niomi working so little. She was always on her own because we are used to vloggers who live with a partner who also stayed home. I would say Joe's work life was pretty typical for a driven 30 year old, nothing crazy.
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Absolutely, working late and traveling for work is normal for someone with a mid-senior level role in London. If her life was so "go-go-go" up at 5am and working until whenever, she should respect that his life is actually "go-go-go" and he has a team depending on him.

All these vloggers who are so out-of-touch won't expect what hits them. I'm sure somebody else would've been able to see this coming but not sheltered AF Nimbobs.

As a side note, there's no way she's moving to Australia.
 
Wonder what she’s got planned for the next 12 months then. Australian dreams coming back?
 

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OppositeFeature said:
I really think that he wanted to move into the shared flat knowing he would move back to India or Dubai again for the job sometime soon. She was probably already pissed but not expecting the job move and then when he's decided he's going there no matter what, she's snapped.
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True, though if Niomi had a brainstem she would have noticed this by then. If my partner asked us to move in with his sibling I'd be like "Uhhh... why? We can afford our own place, why would we move in there?"

However, being as self-centered as she is, it's unsurprising to me that she wouldn't have "seen it coming", though, no offence, lots of other girls would've.
 
Ramster93 said:
Absolutely, working late and traveling for work is normal for someone with a mid-senior level role in London. If her life was so "go-go-go" up at 5am and working until whenever, she should respect that his life is actually "go-go-go" and he has a team depending on him.

All these vloggers who are so out-of-touch won't expect what hits them. I'm sure somebody else would've been able to see this coming but not sheltered AF Nimbobs.

As a side note, there's no way she's moving to Australia.
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I agree with this. Niomi's life is not go-go-go at all, she is under an illusion because she wakes up at 6am to squeeze in a workout - but there's no reason for her to do that. Afterwards she's always just floating around aimlessly, "I think I'll pop into Gleam" "I'm going to go do emails in a cafe". She could probably sleep in till 10 and it wouldn't make a difference. The amount of times she's referenced her "next meeting" and it was actually a haircut or a pilates class is laughable. Joe had to work late sometimes but from what I can tell from snippets his work life was way more typical and normal, I think he needs someone who can actually understand what that is like.
 
Niomi, girl, you're going to put yourself first?! It's what you've been doing for the past ... (how old is she?) years! I get so tired when these influencers start preaching about "taking time for yourself" or"selfcare". It's like milionaires writing books about their "burnout". And I'm here, just happy to find 5 minutes a day so I can take a shower in peace. What is this life they're talking about? I don't want it. Too much time for yourself and too much selfcare isn't good for you, get off your ass and work or care for others.
 
I remember when he was in India one Vlogmas and he had to go straight to work after landing back in the UK, was there till very late, then had to get up at 6am and go back to work. Everyone was pitying Niomi, who was sulking for days afterwards. I was feeling way more sorry for Joe! He was only away for two weeks and bloody sent her a thoughtful present every single day he was gone, and I highly doubt he wanted to go straight back to the office when he got back. Niomi could never understand that kind of pressure.

bumblebee212 said:
Niomi, girl, you're going to put yourself first?! It's what you've been doing for the past ... (how old is she?) years! I get so tired when these influencers start preaching about "taking time for yourself" or"selfcare". It's like milionaires writing books about their "burnout". And I'm here, just happy to find 5 minutes a day so I can take a shower in peace. What is this life they're talking about? I don't want it. Too much time for yourself and too much selfcare isn't good for you, get off your ass and work or care for others.
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I agree with this. Why do all influencers act like they need more time to work on themselves when that is often their entire life? They could all do with thinking about and dedicating time to helping others.
 
bubbledogs said:
I'm finding it quite hard to actually have any sympathy for her! I mean obviously she has gone through something horrible and I wouldnt wish that on anyone but i just cant feel sorry for her. I mean she shoved DrEamY JoEeeeEyyY in our faces like no tomorrow and always acted so smug about how amazing and how good looking he was. In the video where she cuts his hair all her replies in the comments are so cringe just swooning over how attractive he is. She really just boils my blood as to how entitled and out of touch with reality is, the typical youtuber "I work so hard" when really they have no idea what its like to work and do a real job. As evident from the videos she didnt seem to treat him very well with regards to food and probably starved the poor guy. I just find her unbearable
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Agree! And the thing was, I think she didn’t realize that most of us found him completely unattractive very early on, once we saw how dull and personality-less he is. Her smugness just made me laugh because I could see she was ending up with a pretty exterior but absolutely nothing beyond it kind of guy.
 
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