Niomi Smart #2 Glitch in the Gleam Bot, I'll just have to put Joe's fennel teabag back

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HelloStereo said:
True, but he used to like Niomi's posts before August. I wonder if he just uses it to like posts rather than upload photos.
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I think that's what it is.

Also, I think if he did leave her, there would've been a chance to salvage things if he had the opportunity to miss her. However, she's not giving him one so....

She should've shut her phone off for a week, it could've made a world of difference.

I'm not saying she's being insanely embarrassing or belligerent but it's just immaturity.
 
BrideHouse said:
Rosanna lives in London (either Battersea or somewhere very close). She’s been to visit her parents and in laws in the country recently but doesn’t have her own house there. Pretty sure she’s in London at the moment :)
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Rosanna's posted on her instastories today that she's gone to Suffolk 🤔

Secretadmirer said:
I can’t tell which hand it is because sometimes the camera flips it but either way she’s still trying to create speculation and I lose all respect for influencers who do this.
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You can tell from the side her hair's flipped over - she always flips it to the right.
 
Ramster93 said:
I think that's what it is.

Also, I think if he did leave her, there would've been a chance to salvage things if he had the opportunity to miss her. However, she's not giving him one so....

She should've shut her phone off for a week, it could've made a world of difference.

I'm not saying she's being insanely embarrassing or belligerent but it's just immaturity.
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This. It seems that it was only very recent. Give the man a chance to think! That’s on the assumption that she wants him back. Based on what I’ve seen of them I’d say it’s a fairly safe assumption.
 
lilamay said:
Rosanna's posted on her instastories today that she's gone to Suffolk 🤔
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Maybe it's just for the day?

lilamay said:
You can tell from the side her hair's flipped over - she always flips it to the right.
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Plus this is the same clunky ring on her middle-finger in that story which is clearly on her left hand (this wouldn't have been a flipped picture).

Single Niomi was more fun and less insufferable. I mean, she was still quite boring and workout/food-obsessed but her independence in that lovely Notting Hill flat was when she was at her prime.

I don't think she's blossomed since being with Joe which is what you'd hope a partner would bring out -- enhancing you. Not make you a whiny controlling Joeyyyy fanatic.
 
So the last Instagram post of Niomi’s that Joeeeyyy liked was on the 1st August. She posted another on the 5th (And 6th) August which went unliked. But.... their friend Rosanna posted on the 6th August, and he liked that. So we can establish he was online and liking things but intentionally ignored Niomi’s.....
 
lilamay said:
In this video from a couple of years ago, around 1:10 mins in, Niomi says she's moving because she'd outgrown her current flat and that she needs a bigger place. Her place then was really nice already, and the place she moved into with Joe was lovely and very spacious. Then there was the huge outhouse she and Joe stayed over lockdown. I can imagine coming back to London was a shock for her and she found the flat with Joe and his brother too cramped, not luxurious enough, and it was just too much for her.

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How could she outgrow a flat with 2 people ?! It’s not like they had children or even pets
 
lilamay said:
Haha yeah, although it is Freddie's birthday today so you might think they'd post a happy birthday message.
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Well, yes but they are currently flatmates, so i assume he just offered a birthday greeting when he saw him that morning.

Niomi would be the one to watch for a happy birthday post. Does she post on her personal account?
 
Hi everyone, I'am a new member here I followed the thread for a week or so and decided to join in.
At first I did not believe that the perfect couple broke up mainly because Joeeyyy does not strike me as a person brave enough to even break up with someone especially perfect and controlling Niomi but now I think He asked her for a break but not face to face LOL maybe when she went home to her mom he prayed for like two hours and then called her. I used to like Niomi so much I still do like some of her content but I avoid watching her and Joe because I cringe so bad and get second hand embarrassment. I do not wish them any sadness or unhappiness I can see that she is struggling hope she'll get better soon.
 
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The thing is nobody knows what their relationship is actually like, we only see what she shows and people are good at putting on a front. They could of been struggling for ages, moving to India with him is a big thing then the stress and worry of coming back suddenly, Joe’s job - maybe they just had enough of pretending or one of them (Probably Joe) mentioned they weren’t 100% happy and it’s caused them to have a break 🤷🏼‍♀️ who knows! You never really know what’s actually going on with influencers because they love to create this perfect lifestyle but they also love to cause a bit of drama and speculation.
 
Hello ! as many this week - long time reader here, but today I decided to comment as well !

To be honest, I don´t really hold any grudges on Niomi´s reality - granted, it´s very different from mine, but that is her reality, the reality she grew up into, she knows no different...! what really bothers me are other "influencers" who have come from nothing, get everything for free and pretend that that´s what they are used to.

Anyways, I used to love Niomi and her life style - but truly it seemed to have gotten a bit out of hand after a while... the portion control thing still bothers me so MUCH, because my husband is also quite tall (1,93m), and even though I´m quite tall myself (1,80m) I would NEVER expect him to eat the same as I do - it´s just illogical. Looking at the pictures, I don´t think Joe has lost much weight, but it seems like he has lost his "spark".. does that make sense? They have become so bland... I used to always look forward to her videos, and then I couldn´t watch them anymore for either embarrassment or just boredom..

I do hope - though very unlikely by this point - that they haven´t broken up because I think they seemed so in love before, and that would definitely destroy her, once she stops to think about it and gets of the internet for a while...! BUT, the whole situation was just doomed from the start, if they weren´t quite strong before as a couple. Moving countries already has a huge toll on family (I work with expatriates), so she focused on what she could control, which was the apartment, etc. I don´t blame her, huge cultural and lifestyle differences to adapt to. But then came covid, and back to the UK, and living in closed quarters for the longest time, and moving in with his brother (sorry, that´s just weird for a almost married couple IMO) then Joe is probably unemployed by now? it´s just too much for such a young couple to emotionally handle..!

sorry about the HUGE post..!
 
ILB said:
I do hope - though very unlikely by this point - that they haven´t broken up because I think they seemed so in love before, and that would definitely destroy her, once she stops to think about it and gets of the internet for a while...! BUT, the whole situation was just doomed from the start, if they weren´t quite strong before as a couple. Moving countries already has a huge toll on family (I work with expatriates), so she focused on what she could control, which was the apartment, etc. I don´t blame her, huge cultural and lifestyle differences to adapt to. But then came covid, and back to the UK, and living in closed quarters for the longest time, and moving in with his brother (sorry, that´s just weird for a almost married couple IMO) then Joe is probably unemployed by now? it´s just too much for such a young couple to emotionally handle..!

sorry about the HUGE post..!
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Welcome! Respectfully— I don’t mean this as an attack— I don’t agree it was too much to handle. Maybe if you’d just started dating someone and a bunch of tit happened it’d seem like your relationship never really got a chance. But they apparently considered themselves ready to take those vows and get married, for better or for worse. Marriage isn’t some cutesy thing meant for Pinterest that might take it easier on young, hot couples who ~seem besotted~, as everyone here says lol. It’s about vowing to face the storms of life together. It means you see the other person fully and are ready to accept them as your partner. You have NO IDEA what the next day of your life brings and that’s why marriage is so serious.

Something like moving to India is an adjustment, yes. If anything it probably cause Niomi to try to control her food and exercise more, maybe. But it’s important to remember that on all these ‘challenges’, both of them were given every privilege. They spent their ENTIRE STAY in India in a luxury hotel. As for COVID, literally everyone around the world... single, couples, married, family with babies or children, etc.... is or was in the same boat in terms of self isolating. And all couples just had to get through. But yet again Joe and Niomi were handed the best possible experience on a gold platter... a fully stocked little cabin of their own on private land and their family nearby. No financial worries at all. No children or even pets to care for. All the space to run around and be outside and others to shop for you and everything.

Also while it’s different now for different people, they got back to living their lives (dining out, socializing, moving back to London), a hell of a lot quicker than a lot of the world.

So if they couldn‘t handle that as a couple, it’s better to realize that now than try to take on life together.
 
getawaywithit said:
Welcome! Respectfully— I don’t mean this as an attack— I don’t agree it was too much to handle. Maybe if you’d just started dating someone and a bunch of tit happened it’d seem like your relationship never really got a chance. But they apparently considered themselves ready to take those vows and get married, for better or for worse. Marriage isn’t some cutesy thing meant for Pinterest that might take it easier on young, hot couples who ~seem besotted~, as everyone here says lol. It’s about vowing to face the storms of life together. It means you see the other person fully and are ready to accept them as your partner. You have NO IDEA what the next day of your life brings and that’s why marriage is so serious.

Something like moving to India is an adjustment, yes. If anything it probably cause Niomi to try to control her food and exercise more, maybe. But it’s important to remember that on all these ‘challenges’, both of them were given every privilege. They spent their ENTIRE STAY in India in a luxury hotel. As for COVID, literally everyone around the world... single, couples, married, family with babies or children, etc.... is or was in the same boat in terms of self isolating. And all couples just had to get through. But yet again Joe and Niomi were handed the best possible experience on a gold platter... a fully stocked little cabin of their own on private land and their family nearby. No financial worries at all. No children or even pets to care for. All the space to run around and be outside and others to shop for you and everything.

Also while it’s different now for different people, they got back to living their lives (dining out, socializing, moving back to London), a hell of a lot quicker than a lot of the world.

So if they couldn‘t handle that as a couple, it’s better to realize that now than try to take on life together.
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This 👆👆👆
 
ILB said:
Hello ! as many this week - long time reader here, but today I decided to comment as well !

To be honest, I don´t really hold any grudges on Niomi´s reality - granted, it´s very different from mine, but that is her reality, the reality she grew up into, she knows no different...! what really bothers me are other "influencers" who have come from nothing, get everything for free and pretend that that´s what they are used to.

Anyways, I used to love Niomi and her life style - but truly it seemed to have gotten a bit out of hand after a while... the portion control thing still bothers me so MUCH, because my husband is also quite tall (1,93m), and even though I´m quite tall myself (1,80m) I would NEVER expect him to eat the same as I do - it´s just illogical. Looking at the pictures, I don´t think Joe has lost much weight, but it seems like he has lost his "spark".. does that make sense? They have become so bland... I used to always look forward to her videos, and then I couldn´t watch them anymore for either embarrassment or just boredom..

I do hope - though very unlikely by this point - that they haven´t broken up because I think they seemed so in love before, and that would definitely destroy her, once she stops to think about it and gets of the internet for a while...! BUT, the whole situation was just doomed from the start, if they weren´t quite strong before as a couple. Moving countries already has a huge toll on family (I work with expatriates), so she focused on what she could control, which was the apartment, etc. I don´t blame her, huge cultural and lifestyle differences to adapt to. But then came covid, and back to the UK, and living in closed quarters for the longest time, and moving in with his brother (sorry, that´s just weird for a almost married couple IMO) then Joe is probably unemployed by now? it´s just too much for such a young couple to emotionally handle..!

sorry about the HUGE post..!
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getawaywithit said:
Welcome! Respectfully— I don’t mean this as an attack— I don’t agree it was too much to handle. Maybe if you’d just started dating someone and a bunch of tit happened it’d seem like your relationship never really got a chance. But they apparently considered themselves ready to take those vows and get married, for better or for worse. Marriage isn’t some cutesy thing meant for Pinterest that might take it easier on young, hot couples who ~seem besotted~, as everyone here says lol. It’s about vowing to face the storms of life together. It means you see the other person fully and are ready to accept them as your partner. You have NO IDEA what the next day of your life brings and that’s why marriage is so serious.

Something like moving to India is an adjustment, yes. If anything it probably cause Niomi to try to control her food and exercise more, maybe. But it’s important to remember that on all these ‘challenges’, both of them were given every privilege. They spent their ENTIRE STAY in India in a luxury hotel. As for COVID, literally everyone around the world... single, couples, married, family with babies or children, etc.... is or was in the same boat in terms of self isolating. And all couples just had to get through. But yet again Joe and Niomi were handed the best possible experience on a gold platter... a fully stocked little cabin of their own on private land and their family nearby. No financial worries at all. No children or even pets to care for. All the space to run around and be outside and others to shop for you and everything.

Also while it’s different now for different people, they got back to living their lives (dining out, socializing, moving back to London), a hell of a lot quicker than a lot of the world.

So if they couldn‘t handle that as a couple, it’s better to realize that now than try to take on life together.
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She seemed to struggle a bit in lockdown. When she had very little to do in London she’d still get up early to work out & then check her emails. In lockdown she seemed to lose that spark. I’m sure that’s not uncommon but she normally doesnt struggle to put up a front.
 
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