Nicknacklou #13 We have now entered Black Mirror territory

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RiaYoung said:
A few months back there was uproar from the minion followers when a brave lady with stage 4 bc dared to comment some reality on NN’s gram. Her stories today articulate better than ever why she felt compelled to say ‘why not me?’ I wish I knew how to save and upload. MotleyLu is her handle, she’s the salt of the earth, as real as it gets and the antithesis of NN.
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I follow her, she is hilarious and keeps it real. No Disneyfying of cancer.
 
RiaYoung said:
A few months back there was uproar from the minion followers when a brave lady with stage 4 bc dared to comment some reality on NN’s gram. Her stories today articulate better than ever why she felt compelled to say ‘why not me?’ I wish I knew how to save and upload. MotleyLu is her handle, she’s the salt of the earth, as real as it gets and the antithesis of NN.
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From what I recall there was two of them? Motleylu and another woman but can't remember her name. Other one completely outed NNL on her stories and made all her DMs she had off people slagging NNL off public, so people could see that NNL was a fake. As far as I know she deleted her account due to all the hate she got. I follow motely still, she's amazing!!
 
Amythomo said:
From what I recall there was two of them? Motleylu and another woman but can't remember her name. Other one completely outed NNL on her stories and made all her DMs she had off people slagging NNL off public, so people could see that NNL was a fake. As far as I know she deleted her account due to all the hate she got. I follow motely still, she's amazing!!
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It was a lady called Annie/Anny?? Shes still on Insta but has made her profile private.
 
BettyCrockerr said:
It was a lady called Annie/Anny?? Shes still on Insta but has made her profile private.
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That's the one! Ironic really because I'm sure someone on here said I was annie but then also said I was BBB. I'm not surprised she went private, I remember her posting saying about all the hate she was getting. Shame really...
 
Amythomo said:
That's the one! Ironic really because I'm sure someone on here said I was annie but then also said I was BBB. I'm not surprised she went private, I remember her posting saying about all the hate she was getting. Shame really...
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I think initially what she was saying was fine and a lot agreed with her & Lou but then the pair of them just kept going on & on about it for days after, particularly Lou, she kept repeating the same thing and it just got a bit boring
 
BettyCrockerr said:
I think initially what she was saying was fine and a lot agreed with her & Lou but then the pair of them just kept going on & on about it for days after, particularly Lou, she kept repeating the same thing and it just got a bit boring
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Yeah I agree! Breast cancer awareness month seems to have rattled motely now and she's been going on about that now. I like her, what she says makes sense but it makes me laugh when she says she's not going to keep talking about it and then a few days later she's repeating the same stuff again
 
Amythomo said:
Yeah I agree! Breast cancer awareness month seems to have rattled motely now and she's been going on about that now. I like her, what she says makes sense but it makes me laugh when she says she's not going to keep talking about it and then a few days later she's repeating the same stuff again
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Yeah agree. The point shes making is valid and I agree with what shes saying, but unless shes going to do something about it, then whats the point in repeatedly talking about it?!
 
I think it was Anne Marie Wilson (anny2424) but I didn't know she'd gone private. I think she initiated the whole thing by calling out NNL, and later Motleylu joined in. I'll miss her :(
 
Mr G is back home with the floof and will be spoiling us with a reel of his holiday very soon 🙄 Does he not work anymore? Will the donations made by the hoomans for Nicky’s living list, or whatever it was called, now be donated to cancer charities? Has this been spoken about? I think it’s about time he went back to work and tried to bring some normality back into his life because let’s be honest, he’s not had a lot of it lately. I really hope he’s not just turning into an extension of his dead wife and is hoping to turn her Instagram page into his career. Maybe I’m just being too cynical 🤨 We’re finding out in the morning if my partner’s cancer has spread and I certainly won’t be broadcasting it on my Instagram page 😞
 
LauraC35 said:
Mr G is back home with the floof and will be spoiling us with a reel of his holiday very soon 🙄 Does he not work anymore? Will the donations made by the hoomans for Nicky’s living list, or whatever it was called, now be donated to cancer charities? Has this been spoken about? I think it’s about time he went back to work and tried to bring some normality back into his life because let’s be honest, he’s not had a lot of it lately. I really hope he’s not just turning into an extension of his dead wife and is hoping to turn her Instagram page into his career. Maybe I’m just being too cynical 🤨 We’re finding out in the morning if my partner’s cancer has spread and I certainly won’t be broadcasting it on my Instagram page 😞
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I hope we're going to see the last of him on NNL's page but I'm not convinced he plans to quietly slip away.
It's so weird how some people make a whole new life and career out of the worst thing that ever happened to them.
Off topic but there's a young widow called Whitney Allen who lost her police officer husband to a reaction to a bee sting.
She met someone new within months and introduced him to her very young children. Was a lawyer is now a self proclaimed grief expert, even writing a book very very quickly on how to move forward. It's her whole career now. Wtaf!
 
Londonlady68 said:
I hope we're going to see the last of him on NNL's page but I'm not convinced he plans to quietly slip away.
It's so weird how some people make a whole new life and career out of the worst thing that ever happened to them.
Off topic but there's a young widow called Whitney Allen who lost her police officer husband to a reaction to a bee sting.
She met someone new within months and introduced him to her very young children. Was a lawyer is now a self proclaimed grief expert, even writing a book very very quickly on how to move forward. It's her whole career now. Wtaf!
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He will keep her going. I think it’s his way of feeling like he is keeping her alive. Credit to him for not grief bombing his trip away though.
 
BettyCrockerr said:
Yeah agree. The point shes making is valid and I agree with what shes saying, but unless shes going to do something about it, then whats the point in repeatedly talking about it?!
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To her credit she is, a little here and there in between chemo and three little ones. She challenged one of the huge campaigns language. It was something like ‘celebrate breast cancer awareness’. They acknowledged they’d got it wrong and changed it. One other major charity publicly acknowledged her and promised a call which never came.
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BettyCrockerr said:
It was a lady called Annie/Anny?? Shes still on Insta but has made her profile private.
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You’re spot on. I followed but they removed those of us they saw as linked to following from the NNL issue. I think we were referred to as grief tourists.
 
I do remember before I was blocked/removed/deleted that annie was actively deleting people off her account but I had assumed she deleted her entire account but seems not to be the case if she's still there but private. Where they getting crap off tattlers? I thought a lot of tatters agreed with them both
 
Londonlady68 said:
I hope we're going to see the last of him on NNL's page but I'm not convinced he plans to quietly slip away.
It's so weird how some people make a whole new life and career out of the worst thing that ever happened to them.
Off topic but there's a young widow called Whitney Allen who lost her police officer husband to a reaction to a bee sting.
She met someone new within months and introduced him to her very young children. Was a lawyer is now a self proclaimed grief expert, even writing a book very very quickly on how to move forward. It's her whole career now. Wtaf!
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I swear I’d come back and haunt my husband if he did this 😑
 
Alex seriously needs to just stop now. Saying he’s going to put together a reel of his trip to florida - why? There is no need. i can understand him contining to post stuff if it was about the project she was working on before she died, but this is becoming ridiculous. Without sounding callous, people followed Nicky for nicky and her journey as a breast cancer patient and Alex was a small fraction of that within her online persona - him trying to carry on with her online presence is just weird, especially as it’s clearly not really his wheel house and he’s not particularly au fait with how instagram works.
 
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