Nicknacklou #13 We have now entered Black Mirror territory

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Amythomo said:
I do remember before I was blocked/removed/deleted that annie was actively deleting people off her account but I had assumed she deleted her entire account but seems not to be the case if she's still there but private. Where they getting crap off tattlers? I thought a lot of tatters agreed with them both
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Oh no, the Disney Princess Cancer Army went on the attack for daring to be real on NNL’s post.
 
Well Alex is back 🙄. I feel sorry for him, Nick built that much of their lives around instagram he probably doesn't know what else to do. He doesn't want to let go of her and her page is one way to hold on. I imagine he's getting loads of messages from her followers and for now he probably perceives them as a support, but when you break it down they're really not. It's grief tourists who didn't even know her. I just hope he can move away from Instagram soon.
 
Dix99 said:
Well Alex is back 🙄. I feel sorry for him, Nick built that much of their lives around instagram he probably doesn't know what else to do. He doesn't want to let go of her and her page is one way to hold on. I imagine he's getting loads of messages from her followers and for now he probably perceives them as a support, but when you break it down they're really not. It's grief tourists who didn't even know her. I just hope he can move away from Instagram soon.
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100% this. Can no one IRL help this man?
 
The woman who faked cancer for followers! Interview on this morning. About itv show delving into her story...
Now I'm not saying these ladies fake the cancer. But obviously some do. Andcwe sll no nicky faked alot. From who she was yo how she was. For clicks,freebies,likes etc.
Shows its big business. And gor a type of person. Ego. Narcs etc. Mean girls whatever social media hook they get,they run with.
Cleaning. Domestic abuse. Illness. Kids etc etc. All tge same type you spot. Haha strangely sll the same that tattle has pages gor.
Not gor bullies. But gor people they damage.folk they harm! Ring leaders gathering their minions and playing them. Sooo many people on here have e spoken about how inadequate or down they ended up. How this fuels their sell. Their fix. Their persona.
"It's such dangerous messages influencing a very vulnerable set of people"
For attention. Financial. Following. Scammers.
They aren't pathological liars who can't control it. These people are vindictive ans purposeful. They can and do control it. They change and get defensive when challenged. Gather a community. They portray a narrative"
Ring Bells?
 
What we want and what he needs is to close her page down. Leave it up by all means, say I will pop in any updates re the clothing line she was clearly doing and step away. This is not healthy for anyone. She is dead. She’s gone. He needs to grieve and I agree, I think this is his way of not letting her go. I’m torn in one way as I think maybe it’s helping, but in the long run I don’t think it will.
 
In the last story his eyes look so sad and he's looking bloated. I just hope his family and friends are supporting him😢. I don't think instagram is his thing, understandably he's lost. The last 5 years his focus has been upon Nicky, looking after her and making her happy. He probably doesn't know what to do with himself, but I really believe instagram will be detrimental to him.
 
ellyjelly2 said:
What we want and what he needs is to close her page down. Leave it up by all means, say I will pop in any updates re the clothing line she was clearly doing and step away. This is not healthy for anyone. She is dead. She’s gone. He needs to grieve and I agree, I think this is his way of not letting her go. I’m torn in one way as I think maybe it’s helping, but in the long run I don’t think it will.
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I unfollowed her page today. It was just upsetting accidentally thinking it was her yesterday posting.

I feel for him but he is clearly grieving and doing that so publicly is not healthy for him.
 
he looks really unhealthy - very bloated and he looks exhausted. Understandable of course but he really needs to stop all this social media bollocks. Getting back into some semblance of routine would be really beneficial - going back to work, bit of light exercise, stop drinking and just allow himself to miss her and accept that shes gone now. Its been 7 weeks since she died and he hasnt stopped since. Even practical things like starting to clear her thing’s out of the house, returning the motability car, the first tiny steps to the next part of his life. Its awful But he needs to keep putting 1 foot infront of the other rather than stalling and fixating on instagram
 
BettyCrockerr said:
he looks really unhealthy - very bloated and he looks exhausted. Understandable of course but he really needs to stop all this social media bollocks. Getting back into some semblance of routine would be really beneficial - going back to work, bit of light exercise, stop drinking and just allow himself to miss her and accept that shes gone now. Its been 7 weeks since she died and he hasnt stopped since. Even practical things like starting to clear her thing’s out of the house, returning the motability car, the first tiny steps to the next part of his life. Its awful But he needs to keep putting 1 foot infront of the other rather than stalling and fixating on instagram
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Yes. Strangers on the internet who followed his wife are not really what he needs, let’s face it a huge percentage of them are absolute nutters. The amount of crap they used to write, a complete echo chamber, they also showed their true colours over the whole DLP stuff. He needs his real friends and family. Not the falseness of SM
 
Oh Alex, you don't need to do this. I've suffered deep grief, a few times actually and as much as you may want to share/normalise grief, you don't need to parade it to strangers when it's clearly not comfortable for you.. please just go and find your peace with your loved ones privately 💔
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Aside from his obvious grieving process, you've got to wonder how much Nikki's management agency will be talking to him about how to utilise her account and following now that she's gone. I'm sure they'll be desperate to continue to be able to utilise that 330k+ 'community' and won't want to see their commission go up in smoke (literally).
 
FingerMouse said:
Aside from his obvious grieving process, you've got to wonder how much Nikki's management agency will be talking to him about how to utilise her account and following now that she's gone. I'm sure they'll be desperate to continue to be able to utilise that 330k+ 'community' and won't want to see their commission go up in smoke (literally).
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I do feel he is being used to an extent. It's just awful.
 
Yuk. Social nedia crying face. NO stop.
It's not keeping her going or in is thoughts,it sm suck fest.
We all saw tge weirdo comments these folk get on playforms. Ugh. Nn used to bask in it. Gave her a sense of adoration. If they are sending him messages and the like I doubt he could see quite through it. But he didn't like sm for a reason before. And was often really critical of it. It was the only "discord" we really saw openly at the start.
But those friends and family that thought the same need to have an open word with him. This isn't even OK he needs it he's grieving yada yada. Sm is not that purpose. Its not holding onto clothes or items or following old routines. It's a really dark side of sm that he needs to stop.
Because he's in danger of just becoming another sm twit using platform for thinking reasons. And it will become another knob profiteering and manipulating an audience with their hook.
I have huge sympathy for grief. Not getting through it,hiding or suffering with it. Drowning in it even. But taking it online isn't a thing.
 
On Alex's Q&A someone has asked him about Nickys last few days. Why would a stranger need to know that, it sickens me. These people asking questions are not doing it to help him, it's all wrong. I wish he would move away from her insta and seek support from real life friends and family.
 
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