Made in Chelsea #7

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@Musings30 I’m very sorry to hear about your experience with Julius and I bet it was expensive too as he clearly has a huge ego who definitely would price ‘his time’ highly. I was wondering did he show you what qualifications he has taken in becoming a ‘life coach’? I would love to see what qualifies him to give people advice. Unfortunately in this country there is no regulations on this and I could go and call myself a life coach tomorrow with no repercussions even though I don’t think I possess the skills or knowledge to advise anyone!
 
ldngirlxoxo said:
@Musings30 I’m very sorry to hear about your experience with Julius and I bet it was expensive too as he clearly has a huge ego who definitely would price ‘his time’ highly. I was wondering did he show you what qualifications he has taken in becoming a ‘life coach’? I would love to see what qualifies him to give people advice. Unfortunately in this country there is no regulations on this and I could go and call myself a life coach tomorrow with no repercussions even though I don’t think I possess the skills or knowledge to advise anyone!
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Thanks for your lovely words. It's a hard lesson learned and in honesty, I do look back and wonder what the hell I was thinking enlisting his services in the first place. I do know that I was in quite a difficult place career-wise and in certain aspects of my personal life. He actually didn't discuss or deign to show me his qualifications, and this detail also appears to be very scant on his LinkedIn page. What attracted me to his life coaching (this was way back last year btw) was the fact he presented himself as quite a decent and considerate person during his Instagram lives, but obviously his true and unpleasant self has well and truly emerged in the recent months' Made in Chelsea episodes. Yes, it's absolutely scandalous that life coaching isn't at all regulated here and that people like Julius are allowed to operate freely. I really hope people will have the wherewithal to see his actions on TV and not be daft enough to hire his services.
 
Musings30 said:
Thanks for your lovely words. It's a hard lesson learned and in honesty, I do look back and wonder what the hell I was thinking enlisting his services in the first place. I do know that I was in quite a difficult place career-wise and in certain aspects of my personal life. He actually didn't discuss or deign to show me his qualifications, and this detail also appears to be very scant on his LinkedIn page. What attracted me to his life coaching (this was way back last year btw) was the fact he presented himself as quite a decent and considerate person during his Instagram lives, but obviously his true and unpleasant self has well and truly emerged in the recent months' Made in Chelsea episodes. Yes, it's absolutely scandalous that life coaching isn't at all regulated here and that people like Julius are allowed to operate freely. I really hope people will have the wherewithal to see his actions on TV and not be daft enough to hire his services.
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it honestly seems like julius and his brother are out of touch, entitled and we’ve all seen how manipulative he is.

i wouldnt beat yourself up over it - they target vulnerable people and yet aren’t willing to hold themselves to any ethical standard, or even accountable to their customers. The whole thing is shady AF and imo, deeply unethical.

it honestly just feels like.. a scam. Not illegal, but unethical and dodgy as hell.
 
cee-bee said:
it honestly seems like julius and his brother are out of touch, entitled and we’ve all seen how manipulative he is.

i wouldnt beat yourself up over it - they target vulnerable people and yet aren’t willing to hold themselves to any ethical standard, or even accountable to their customers. The whole thing is shady AF and imo, deeply unethical.

it honestly just feels like.. a scam. Not illegal, but unethical and dodgy as hell.
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Oh, completely. Funnily, I think his brother is a genuinely decent bloke and very professional (well, from what I've observed anyway). It looks like Julius saw his brother's success and decided he'd jump on the bandwagon because his music career didn't exactly take off. What I don't understand is why his brother made the very daft decision to set up a new life coaching business with Julius, as surely that's going to tank his own career?! Also, he needs to do a better job at calling his brother out and holding him to account for his b/s.

Your point about targeting vulnerable people - that's exactly my huge concern here. He's got over 90K followers on Instagram and it doesn't sit right with me that a number of them might be swayed by his rubbish and enlist his services.

Dodgy, unethical and shameless as hell to go with it. I'm trying to see the mildly amusing side - the fact there are various parallels between Julius and Jez from Peep Show. He's literally an IRL Jez 🤣Failed-musician-turned-life-coach with a vastly overblown sense of self. To be honest, I'd rather employ Jez as a life coach.

Sliceofpizza said:
Fred said he shouldn’t have mentioned his ‘life coaching business’ on the show. Perhaps he should’ve taken this sage advice, seems greed and ego took over!
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Ah Fred, the voice of reason and sanity🙏I'm surprise he associates with Julius. The "Tricep Trio" make me want to gag.
 
Musings30 said:
Oh, completely. Funnily, I think his brother is a genuinely decent bloke and very professional (well, from what I've observed anyway). It looks like Julius saw his brother's success and decided he'd jump on the bandwagon because his music career didn't exactly take off. What I don't understand is why his brother made the very daft decision to set up a new life coaching business with Julius, as surely that's going to tank his own career?! Also, he needs to do a better job at calling his brother out and holding him to account for his b/s.

Your point about targeting vulnerable people - that's exactly my huge concern here. He's got over 90K followers on Instagram and it doesn't sit right with me that a number of them might be swayed by his rubbish and enlist his services.

Dodgy, unethical and shameless as hell to go with it. I'm trying to see the mildly amusing side - the fact there are various parallels between Julius and Jez from Peep Show. He's literally an IRL Jez 🤣Failed-musician-turned-life-coach with a vastly overblown sense of self. To be honest, I'd rather employ Jez as a life coach.


Ah Fred, the voice of reason and sanity🙏I'm surprise he associates with Julius. The "Tricep Trio" make me want to gag.
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And just like Jez, Julian probably likes it up the bum too 😂
 
Musings30 said:
Thanks for your lovely words. It's a hard lesson learned and in honesty, I do look back and wonder what the hell I was thinking enlisting his services in the first place. I do know that I was in quite a difficult place career-wise and in certain aspects of my personal life. He actually didn't discuss or deign to show me his qualifications, and this detail also appears to be very scant on his LinkedIn page. What attracted me to his life coaching (this was way back last year btw) was the fact he presented himself as quite a decent and considerate person during his Instagram lives, but obviously his true and unpleasant self has well and truly emerged in the recent months' Made in Chelsea episodes. Yes, it's absolutely scandalous that life coaching isn't at all regulated here and that people like Julius are allowed to operate freely. I really hope people will have the wherewithal to see his actions on TV and not be daft enough to hire his services.
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Save your money, just ask me.
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Seems to be a I hate Julius mean girls club in here.

What I would say, is anyone who watches Made In Chelsea and then thinks they will make a good life coach, cannot then throw it back due to their ‘character’ on the show when they knew this from the off.
 
JulianC_ said:
Seems to be a I hate Julius mean girls club in here.

What I would say, is anyone who watches Made In Chelsea and then thinks they will make a good life coach, cannot then throw it back due to their ‘character’ on the show when they knew this from the off.
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The second part of your message doesn't make any sense

Not a mean girls club, but simply people calling out Julian's bullshit 🤗
 
JulianC_ said:
Seems to be a I hate Julius mean girls club in here.

What I would say, is anyone who watches Made In Chelsea and then thinks they will make a good life coach, cannot then throw it back due to their ‘character’ on the show when they knew this from the off.
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I don’t hate Julius but he makes me cringe so hard it’s painful. I have no idea why anyone who had access to his social media would want him as a life coach from what people have posted here (the singing videos) let alone how he comes across on the show given he lacks basic self-awareness and continues to believe he can sing and that the world wants to listen 😂
 
Anyone else not feel one bit sorry for Ruby in the cheating thing with Rez? I am at a point where I really can't stand either of them and they both deserve one another. They are the definition of water seeking its own level. When she was crying and Miles gave info, I did not see a single tear. That kleenex was dabbing at nothing.
 
micfan said:
Anyone else not feel one bit sorry for Ruby in the cheating thing with Rez? I am at a point where I really can't stand either of them and they both deserve one another. They are the definition of water seeking its own level. When she was crying and Miles gave info, I did not see a single tear. That kleenex was dabbing at nothing.
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It was the worst fake crying I’ve ever seen on tv 🤣🤣🤣

Laughalong said:
Julius is the biggest sap on tv why on earth has anyone watched him and thought to book a session with him

I thought the life coaching was a joke
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When he comes on tv my vagina physically closes up. Makes me cringe so bad
 
JulianC_ said:
Seems to be a I hate Julius mean girls club in here.

What I would say, is anyone who watches Made In Chelsea and then thinks they will make a good life coach, cannot then throw it back due to their ‘character’ on the show when they knew this from the off.
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A "mean girls" club? Nope. I'm perfectly qualified to vouch for the fact he is not a good life coach, having previously been a client of his. Did you see my post about my experience and how hideously disrespectfully, unprofessionally and unethically he behaved towards me? If not, I'll briefly reiterate:

- He turned up late to the vast majority of our sessions, and would only notify me minutes beforehand that he would be late to our appointments by 10-30 minutes, or would ask to postpone it to a later time that day. He didn't once apologise for being late or chopping and changing appointment times at a moment's notice. He would simply just ask in a cavalier manner if we could rearrange, as if his time was more valuable than mine, and his clients should have to fit around his schedule and laissez-faire approach to appointment times.

- I once confirmed a session booking with Julius over WhatsApp for the following day, but he didn't get back to me for nearly 48 hours - meaning he missed the session. When I finally heard from him, he didn't even acknowledge the fact he missed our session, let alone apologise, and breezily asked if we could do one the following day.

- He rolled on our sessions to a new block booking without seeking my consent first. I was only made aware of this when Julius messaged me to ask if I could send him payment for this new block booking. Needless to say, I felt embarrassed and put on the spot, so agreed to do so, without having thinking space (due to some personal stress I was going through) to consider whether this was something I actually wanted. Absolutely astonishing and unethical as hell on his part. When I told him I didn't realise we were on a new session, he didn't even ask if I was happy to proceed - or ask me to sign a new contract - as he should have done. Sneaky as hell.

- Had the audacity to judge and virtue-signal about the behaviour of a guy who did the exact same thing to me that he did to India. He's not an honourable person in the slightest and his behaviour smacks of narcissism and a breath-taking lack of self-awareness.

- Julius ignored my requests for a refund four times (for four life coaching sessions I cancelled), and only gave my money back when I threatened to seek legal advice on the matter. I also provided him with feedback on various concerns I had around his unprofessionalism during our sessions, but he completely ignored this too. Any half-decent professional would have been perturbed by such complaints about their service and done their utmost to apologise and try to make amends with their client - but not Julius. He sees zero issue with how he conducts himself both professionally and on the show.

Clickbait said:
I don’t hate Julius but he makes me cringe so hard it’s painful. I have no idea why anyone who had access to his social media would want him as a life coach from what people have posted here (the singing videos) let alone how he comes across on the show given he lacks basic self-awareness and continues to believe he can sing and that the world wants to listen 😂
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I find it mental that he still has such a fanbase on social media. It's like a weird cult of Julius. They fawn over his cringe posts and leap to his defence at the first sign of (perfectly valid) criticism towards him. Either these people are severely lacking in the IQ department or - as Julius might say - have no moral compass.
 
I admit to find him strangely s e x y, I appreciate this is disturbing. Im not overly pleased about myself but you can’t help your reality tv feelings. Certainly not for his actual personality, ability to boyfriend or his extremely challenged height - especially not with those sitty down insta shots 🤢, although give me time 😉. If Izzy’s dad came back I am sure I could re appoint my fancies.
 
Laughalong said:
Julius is the biggest sap on tv why on earth has anyone watched him and thought to book a session with him

I thought the life coaching was a joke
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I'm a former client of his but enlisted his services ages back, when he came across a decent person, before showing his true colours. I dropped his services and called him out on his behaviour on-screen, and he had the audacity to tell me to take it with a pinch of salt. He was also really unprofessional within various aspects of his sessions. I can assure you I'm embarrassed AF about hiring him in the first place. He's a humungous hypocrite and I'm still looking into various avenues for reporting him.

Sliceofpizza said:
I admit to find him strangely s e x y, I appreciate this is disturbing. Im not overly pleased about myself but you can’t help your reality tv feelings. Certainly not for his actual personality, ability to boyfriend or his extremely challenged height - especially not with those sitty down insta shots 🤢, although give me time 😉. If Izzy’s dad came back I am sure I could re appoint my fancies.
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Who are you talking about? Rez?
 
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