Katherine Ryan #2 Katherine was feminist to the core, married pyro BK and became an obedient bore

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tellmewhy said:
She said the cat had bought home mice and then she couldn’t see the cat as anything other than dirty from then on.
Correct me if I’m wrong but many people bring up children in smaller properties with cats, I’m sure she could have kept them separate and safe if she wanted to
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Also if she’s rehomed it then fine, sounds like it’s better off but when I listened to the podcast there was no talk of rehoming it and she had just kicked it out
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I’m glad she rehomed it for the cat’s sake, but it sucks!

I think she’s got rid of the dogs too. Not seen them for a while. Everybody is disposable. She needs to rehome the freeloader
 
tellmewhy said:
She said the cat had bought home mice and then she couldn’t see the cat as anything other than dirty from then on.
Correct me if I’m wrong but many people bring up children in smaller properties with cats, I’m sure she could have kept them separate and safe if she wanted to
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Also if she’s rehomed it then fine, sounds like it’s better off but when I listened to the podcast there was no talk of rehoming it and she had just kicked it out
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Imagine going off cats because they catch mice, it’s like going off men because they … breathe?
 
Lalalalaaaaaa85 said:
What has BK sacrificed? I’m assuming you mean being with his family but from what I can see he’s gone from small town Canada to living the celeb life, no job, no money worries, swimming pool and golf. He doesn’t even need to parent his children
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I think sacrificing your autonomy, regular contact with your support network, friends and family is a huge deal. One that, no matter to comforts of your gilded cage, would feel like a huge loss.
Maybe for you living a celebrity lifestyle would be enough compensation. For me I know I’d feel cut off and depressed.
 
brianbutterfield said:
I think sacrificing your autonomy, regular contact with your support network, friends and family is a huge deal. One that, no matter to comforts of your gilded cage, would feel like a huge loss.
Maybe for you living a celebrity lifestyle would be enough compensation. For me I know I’d feel cut off and depressed.
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You say things like he had no say in the matter. If that all meant so much to him then he wouldn’t have sacrificed it? He clearly wanted her and this life more?
 
tellmewhy said:
You say things like he had no say in the matter. If that all meant so much to him then he wouldn’t have sacrificed it? He clearly wanted her and this life more?
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Nothing is so black and white. He can enjoy living a luxurious lifestyle, his kids and being married to Katherine, but at the same time feel aimless and totally divorced from his previous life and loved ones, right?
 
tellmewhy said:
You say things like he had no say in the matter. If that all meant so much to him then he wouldn’t have sacrificed it? He clearly wanted her and this life more?
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You’re being very simplistic here.
He loved her, he and her had a fab time rekindling their relationship. He wanted to commit to her and violet whilst at the same time he lost regular contact with his whole community and support network.
Both can be true simultaneously.
 
brianbutterfield said:
You’re being very simplistic here.
He loved her, he and her had a fab time rekindling their relationship. He wanted to commit to her and violet whilst at the same time he lost regular contact with his whole community and support network.
Both can be true simultaneously.
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I personally wouldn’t move to be with someone and then expect them to make such huge changes for me to accommodate me as if they owed me.
 
I don't care much for Bobby but maybe he plays so much golf as he is bored rigid and life feels a bit meaningless.

If we had her money my husband who is a SAHD would probably still not hire a babysitter and go the gym 5 hours a day. But he is pretty paternal when I think Bobby really isn't. He only seems interest in his little cranky, beady eyed mini me!
 
tellmewhy said:
I personally wouldn’t move to be with someone and then expect them to make such huge changes for me to accommodate me as if they owed me.
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I think if you make that choice you cannot hold it over the other person but I also think that there is no doubt it would be hard for him. Maybe he never winged about it and KR is just aware of that sacrifice.

I’m in the same position as bobby K (minus the pool, celeb lifestyle and thankfully the golf). I’m sure I’ve waffled on about it on last board but it can be complicated. I’m happy with my choice but it can feel so isolating. Even in a country that has a similar culture and shares a language, it can feel like no one gets you and it os HARD making friends as an adult. So I do give him sympathy for that but it’s still not a good enough reason to turn into pyro bob.

On a different note, if I were KR, I’d get my iron levels checked. She sounds exhausted and breathless and it’s so common, especially having two babies relatively close together.
 
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The filler migration mustache 😭

I realised recently that she's a chronic pick-me. The way she is with Bobby, her responses to the Jonah Hill thing, her opinions on maintenance sex and this wanking thing. She's so desperate to be the cool wife that's okay with everything. It made sense when she posted her beauty queen stuff from when she was younger as well.

I think years ago she was a badass outspoken opinionated and funny woman. Now she's a bit of a desperate pickmesha but she's always trying to square the two and people can see it doesn't work and she gets a little defensive about it
 
Natterbox80 said:
I was blown away when she compared that woman Rachel Dolezal who pretended to be black to people with gender identity issues... In what vein is gender identity issues and someone doing blackface the same thing!?
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Well personally I can’t see the difference between RD saying that she feels like a black person inside, and presenting herself as black, with someone who says they feel like the opposite sex inside. What does it mean to be a man who says he feels like a woman (and vice versa)? I don’t think man or woman is a feeling, any more than I think blackness is a feeling.

There’s nothing wrong with being gender non-conforming. But no one is born in the wrong body ✌️
 
weeweegie said:
Have I had a bleeding cracked nipple through breastfeeding? Yes I have. Did I take a photo and share it with the world? No I did not. I’m all for normalising bf, by that I mean don’t be a d*ck to a mum feeding her kid wherever she wants. Taking pics like this and posting on socials isn’t normalising it. It’s just unnecessary. Same when someone posts any bloody injury. I don’t want to see your cut knee, busted eye or bloody nips thanks. What happened to boundaries.
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I personally love that she posts the realities of parenting from a mother’s point of view. Did Rob Becket/ Jimmy Carr/ Romesh/ Josh have bleeding nipples and have to get rid of their PR to cost cut when their babies were born?
No. Of course they didn’t. They got millions of followers bemoaning parental life while their wives did all the hard work of actually keeping their children alive and well.

Feminism is just a fantasy. We aren’t making any bleeping progress.

Good on Kathryn for highlighting how hard it is on a woman.
 
This kind of self-induced martyrdom does not in any way contribute to progress of any kind. She absolutely does have the means to hire any help she needs. She is also in a position to have her partner to shoulder his share of parental responsibilities. If she does neither, that’s really on her.
Her daughter is now at an age when she doesn’t have to be breastfed exclusively. In fact, if by now she is breastfed exclusively, it does her more harm than good. So in reality the only thing Katherine is highlighting is her thirst for attention. Which is a very real problem but again, she also absolutely has means to get any help she needs to deal with it.
 
Meowsy said:
This kind of self-induced martyrdom does not in any way contribute to progress of any kind. She absolutely does have the means to hire any help she needs. She is also in a position to have her partner to shoulder his share of parental responsibilities. If she does neither, that’s really on her.
Her daughter is now at an age when she doesn’t have to be breastfed exclusively. In fact, if by now she is breastfed exclusively, it does her more harm than good. So in reality the only thing Katherine is highlighting is her thirst for attention. Which is a very real problem but again, she also absolutely has means to get any help she needs to deal with it.
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Sorry can you give a source for demonstrating how it does more harm than good? Or is that just your opinion?
 
angelblueface said:
Sorry can you give a source for demonstrating how it does more harm than good? Or is that just your opinion?
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Katherine's daughter was born in 2022 I believe, so she must be over 7 months old, and any breastfeeding guideline will tell you that exclusive breastfeeding is recommended up to 6 months. From the WHO website:
If complementary foods are not introduced around the age of 6 months, or if they are given inappropriately, an infant’s growth may falter.
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My friend did some work on the League of their own lionesses special, and said that Katherine was great to work with. An insane work ethic. Nice, professional, hard working. She also apparently travelled home every night after filming, as she wanted to be there for the kids (even though they wouldn’t been in bed by then)
 
SamFoxStuckinaCloak said:
My friend did some work on the League of their own lionesses special, and said that Katherine was great to work with. An insane work ethic. Nice, professional, hard working. She also apparently travelled home every night after filming, as she wanted to be there for the kids (even though they wouldn’t been in bed by then)
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I can totally see this. Despite her questionable choice in men I don’t think she’s a bad mum.
 
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