I think she was a very committed attachment parent to violet and it’s the only way of parenting that sits right with her.
It must be hard being the sole breadwinner but wanting to attachment parent your new babies too. I think her doing a reality TV show was the only practical option she had to fulfil both of those wishes.
When I wanted more time with my daughter, I became a nanny and took her to work with me. If I could have done a reality show during that time, I would have.
I also think that BK has sacrificed a LOT to come and live in England and not see his friends very often. It sounds as though KR is very aware that it must be hard for him.
I do agree that she seems to have a bit of a blind spot with regards to internalised misogyny but she’s so smart, I’m sure she’ll work it out eventually.
Step 1. Stop being the cool wife. That’s just code for not calling out poor behaviour in your partner.
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Also, choosing a child’s safety over your cat is fine. The cat was revoked somewhere lovely.
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Re-homed.