Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #102 See you next Tuesday, the premiere of 102 Damnations

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Bridgeofsighs said:
BIB correct. It's a major hassle.

She would get around the PRO by moving anyway in the sense that she would have to be deported to face CA justice. It's not foolproof but it makes things a lot harder.
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The thing IG has got on his side though is that Alice can’t even get off the couch, let alone move away.

ReturningthePearls said:
Can I just say that I applaud you for teaching him that? I’ve noticed that some parents don’t express that wisdom to their children, and they tend to get a little out of control without it, but it is so important to know and understand. Good on you, and your boy. ❤👏🏼
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Totally agree with this @ButterTart
I tell this to all the young people I work with. Your feelings are valid. Feeling angry, sad, disappointed and everything in between can be a perfectly healthy and normal reaction to whatever experience they have endured. It’s how you process it and what you do with it that’s important.
 
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Diamonds60 said:
Could one actually write a book in her state? Serious question, bcos I have my doubts
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Emotional state or legal state? The only book she could write is a roman à clef--a fictionalized version of true events. And TIL about the small penis rule. Via Wikipedia:


The small penis rule is an informal strategy used by authors to evade libel lawsuits. It was described in a New York Times article by Dinitia Smith in 1998:

"For a fictional portrait to be actionable, it must be so accurate that a reader of the book would have no problem linking the two," said Mr. Friedman. Thus, he continued, libel lawyers have what is known as "the small penis rule". One way authors can protect themselves from libel suits is to say that a character has a small penis, Mr. Friedman said. "Now no male is going to come forward and say, 'That character with a very small penis, that's me!'"[1]
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So that's where that missing inch got to!
 
Is she happy now that the big day is nearly here and she doesn't have to be "silenced" (lol) anymore? She gets to play the lead in the drama she was born for "Alice Evans - Restrained at last"

Or have her meds been adjusted?

I can't believe IG won't get the PRO - as AE would say "From my lips to god's ears!" 💋

M33L4 said:
How does she reconcile in her own mind that Ioan isn’t paying his lawyers but is paying all of us?
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We are cheaper and labour 24/7. Bargain!

PS. Thanks Yo. Just in time for my trip to Wales.
 
I'd be bloody delighted if @unobtrusive lurker is the gorgeous YoYo or someone close to him, because then he'll know for a sure what a ton of support there is for him, and how so many people can see through Alice's bullshit and manipulation. Oh, and if it is you, Yo, next time you're in the UK, if you're in the midlands and need someone to keep you company, I could drag myself out of the house... (B can come too I guess, but tell her she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to ;):ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:).
 
Howdy said:
I've got that anxious feeling (perhaps just perimenopause wreaking havoc) that we're all going to have a massive anticlimax tomorrow and she won't get her just deserts. I hope she finally does feel the consequences of her actions. Understand them she wouldn't, of course.
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We all need to manage our expectations! As the saying goes, "Hope for the best, expect the worst."
 
welp said:
wait what tweet

same. it's so rare that abusers actually get justice served. Especially women (partly because they are more rare and thus the system biased in their favor)
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Welp - the tweet about her brother starting he’s the best. She was relating a (fictional!) conversation she had about some guy. I think this was one of her crumbs to make ppl think she is discussing her new imaginary friend with her bruv.
 

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House of Tea said:
Welp - the tweet about her brother starting he’s the best. She was relating a (fictional!) conversation she had about some guy. I think this was one of her crumbs to make ppl think she is discussing her new imaginary friend with her bruv.
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ah I see

Well, a bit younger than her is still older than Ioan :p


M33L4 said:
How does she reconcile in her own mind that Ioan isn’t paying his lawyers but is paying all of us?
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I checked my bank account today: still nothing. I'm disappointed, Ioan!
 
ReturningthePearls said:
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I’m starting to get really bleeping triggered over her implications that domestic abuse victims confronting physical violence are the only people deserving of taking legal action against their abusers.

My father has physically harmed me, sure, but he has verbally abused me for 15 years, and I’ll go so far as to say that—in my personal situation—the latter caused more damage to me than the former. It has been proven already that verbal violence can inflict the same degree of psychological harm as physical violence.

She’s REALLY out here disparaging and delegitimizing the trauma of verbal abuse victims, simply because she doesn’t think that “upsetting people” (with some of the WORST verbal abuse I have EVER witnessed) is much of a big deal. Alice, you bleep, you didn’t merely “upset” them. You DEGRADED them. You DEVALUED them. And you FRIGHTENED them. Don’t downplay the damage of your emotional instability to illustrate yourself as some kind of victim in this. Don’t minimize the impact of the harm you’ve committed.

I just need to get this off of my chest as it has been battering me for weeks: she has BPD. She has NPD for goddamn SURE, but she has BPD. It’s untreated. She’s not receiving help. THIS is what untreated BPD can turn into at its worst. I’m positive now. Again, the narcissism is the main player, please don’t mix them up, but THIS degree of emotional dis-regulation is BPD-associated. I’m a Borderline. I know when I’ve found an (untreated) Borderline. You memorize the symptoms and you understand them because you’ve lived it.

I’m just begging—please don’t respond to this post with tales of your BPD mother or sister-in-law or nephew. It’s just extremely uncomfortable, devaluing, and triggering for me to read in this space; witnessing it in Alice is triggering and upsetting enough. I don’t mean to kickstart a BPD discussion at ALL, as I feel it’ll spiral into talking about how terrible Borderlines are, which is awful because there are Borderlines in here. I’m just offering, as someone who should have the right to say it based on lived experience as opposed to witnessing it secondhand: she has BPD. Or at least BPD traits paired with the primary personality disorder of narcissism. I’m sure of it now.

She’s about to fly off the rails.
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I'm 62, my parents have been dead for 17 years and I'm still suffering from the aftereffects of verbal and emotional abuse, made more confusing by spoiling and effusive love at other times. I had sympathy from his nurses and from waitresses sent into the loo after I had fled from his public abuse, and the whole congregation saw my head whip round in shock at his funeral when the priest said how he had been so vocally proud of me. He only once laid a hand on me. I fought back verbally and my mother gave in for a quiet life. I have been diagnosed with BPD too but everything I have researched points to ADHD, possible ASD and possible CPTSD. When I had my operation to fuse a joint due to osteoarthritis, I yelled to the sky "see, Dad, I wasn't just dwelling on my ailments for attention!".

Verbal abuse fucks you up as much as any other kind. I've spent my life looking for love in all the wrong places. Now I just live with my animals, having given up hope of someone to love me.

A wee thought from the last thread: wouldn't mAlice's English brother, never having lived anywhere else but England, use the British spelling of tyre rather than the US tire like the swivel-eyed loon? [Soon as I start typing sw, my predictive spelling comes up with swivel-eyed loon... 🤣]
 
Well- I’ve got a packed diary of home visits tomorrow, full of people who have REAL PROBLEMS Alice and still get up and out to work and parent their kids properly. You should volunteer and you might learn something.


Anyhow, I have scheduled in a bottle of wine and some Spicey nik naks to catch up when I get home tomorrow. <<can’t wait>>
 
Blurp said:
I'm 62, my parents have been dead for 17 years and I'm still suffering from the aftereffects of verbal and emotional abuse, made more confusing by spoiling and effusive love at other times. I had sympathy from his nurses and from waitresses sent into the loo after I had fled from his public abuse, and the whole congregation saw my head whip round in shock at his funeral when the priest said how he had been so vocally proud of me. He only once laid a hand on me. I fought back verbally and my mother gave in for a quiet life. I have been diagnosed with BPD too but everything I have researched points to ADHD, possible ASD and possible CPTSD. When I had my operation to fuse a joint due to osteoarthritis, I yelled to the sky "see, Dad, I wasn't just dwelling on my ailments for attention!".

Verbal abuse fucks you up as much as any other kind. I've spent my life looking for love in all the wrong places. Now I just live with my animals, having given up hope of someone to love me.

A wee thought from the last thread: wouldn't mAlice's English brother, never having lived anywhere else but England, use the British spelling of tyre rather than the US tire like the swivel-eyed loon? [Soon as I start typing sw, my predictive spelling comes up with swivel-eyed loon... 🤣]
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I don't know maybe give em enough trope and they'll outsmart themselves 🤭
 
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