Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #102 See you next Tuesday, the premiere of 102 Damnations

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Trying desperately to catch up... Oh, Alice you silly mare 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤪
Well, the newest Devonshire Pixie 👣 arrived on her due date and I have been busy looking after my family doing the boring stuff, cooking, cleaning, keeping the older Pixie occupied and now I'm home knackered and need some sleep. But Tattle has kept me entertained... Viva Alice getting the Pro, Viva the revolution #mentoo Love you Turddie brothers and sisters 🥰
Congratulations on the new addition to your family. New Devonshire Pixies are always a blessing. Perhaps you could give malingering mAlice a lesson on how to look after her family as she is so tit at it, and you are able to do that while entertaining small Devonshire Pixies at the same time 💖
 
Yes. IG might give permission for a holiday only to find out it's a permanent holiday in the UK.



I don't think AE has any problem feeling angry. In fact she is swimming in anger right now (and has been for the last 18 months). It's also interesting that she is stuck in the anger stage after all this time. I predict she will stay there until IG returns to live in the garage, ie, forever. She has been through denial (saying IG might come back - we haven't heard that in a while) but we are nowhere near bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Also her bullshit about "moving on and living her best life" seems to have lasted for all of 5 minutes. Then back to raging publicly again. 🥴

What she never learnt was empathy, self-control, self-reflection and self-awareness. At 53, I don't see that changing.
Don't forget personal hygiene.
 
Since she is always reading here: a DVRO is a Permanent Restraining Order, it just specifies that it's between partners, you can get other types of restraining orders too (like civil harrasment or workplace violence). Permanent means 1-5 years, but it can actually be made really permanent when you apply for an extension.
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He doesnt need to make you look bad, you do look bad
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these two tweets are art
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Yes, we indeed need to draw attention to DARVOs like Alice Evans
I can’t see that getting past any publisher’s lawyers.
 
I've got that anxious feeling (perhaps just perimenopause wreaking havoc) that we're all going to have a massive anticlimax tomorrow and she won't get her just deserts. I hope she finally does feel the consequences of her actions. Understand them she wouldn't, of course.
They could throw the book at Alice and she will never accept any responsibility for her part in the proceedings against her. Whatever the outcome she will carry on playing the victim with her snide digs and lying trying to save face.
 
If Alice does turn up in court, I predict she will put on a bit of a performance for the judge. This may include a walking stick and trying to appear weak and frail, cos of her multitude of newly-diagnosed conditions. There may well be crying (but no tears). She will want to give the impression she’s all sweetness and light (though I’m sure the facade will slip within minutes). As if any of this means she’s not an abuser after all. 🙄
Judges are not fools, and they will have seen all this before. Plus she was never much good as an actress.
 
I am surd she has hinted that her new boyfriend is slightly younger. See that tweet to her brother talking about some random guy. This was a message to IG. I have someone interested in me who is younger than you. Alice is so thick skinned she still doesn’t compute that he does not give a tit who has taken her on, as long as it isn’t him. He has the massive Ick so flashing your jubblies writhing around on the floor or trying to hint about a new boyfriend is absolutely futile. I quite admire her self delusion. She still thinks she is a massive catch.
 
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I’m starting to get really bleeping triggered over her implications that domestic abuse victims confronting physical violence are the only people deserving of taking legal action against their abusers.

My father has physically harmed me, sure, but he has verbally abused me for 15 years, and I’ll go so far as to say that—in my personal situation—the latter caused more damage to me than the former. It has been proven already that verbal violence can inflict the same degree of psychological harm as physical violence.

She’s REALLY out here disparaging and delegitimizing the trauma of verbal abuse victims, simply because she doesn’t think that “upsetting people” (with some of the WORST verbal abuse I have EVER witnessed) is much of a big deal. Alice, you bleep, you didn’t merely “upset” them. You DEGRADED them. You DEVALUED them. And you FRIGHTENED them. Don’t downplay the damage of your emotional instability to illustrate yourself as some kind of victim in this. Don’t minimize the impact of the harm you’ve committed.

I just need to get this off of my chest as it has been battering me for weeks: she has BPD. She has NPD for goddamn SURE, but she has BPD. It’s untreated. She’s not receiving help. THIS is what untreated BPD can turn into at its worst. I’m positive now. Again, the narcissism is the main player, please don’t mix them up, but THIS degree of emotional dis-regulation is BPD-associated. I’m a Borderline. I know when I’ve found an (untreated) Borderline. You memorize the symptoms and you understand them because you’ve lived it.

I’m just begging—please don’t respond to this post with tales of your BPD mother or sister-in-law or nephew. It’s just extremely uncomfortable, devaluing, and triggering for me to read in this space; witnessing it in Alice is triggering and upsetting enough. I don’t mean to kickstart a BPD discussion at ALL, as I feel it’ll spiral into talking about how terrible Borderlines are, which is awful because there are Borderlines in here. I’m just offering, as someone who should have the right to say it based on lived experience as opposed to witnessing it secondhand: she has BPD. Or at least BPD traits paired with the primary personality disorder of narcissism. I’m sure of it now.

She’s about to fly off the rails.
I’m so glad you are here, and here to explain these things that some of us have no knowledge about. I would hate to say something, however we’ll meant, that turned out to be crass and upset people. If I do folks please call me out on it just so I know, and won’t do it again. None of us here would ever want to do or say anything to cause you worry or harm my dear, you are far to precious for that.💖 Now Alice on the other hand? not so much
 
i btw find it interesting, reading the TRO, that at no point she mentions that Ioan has failed to take care of his responsibility (whether during the marriage or by leaving) to help with her fibro issues, maybe she did and it was just not included, but neither did she say this in public until she found out about Bianca's MS.

Pre-Bianca her complains were
- money/status (in private)
- lack of good sex (both private and public)
- kids/home/school etc. (both private/public)
- emotional support because she has no family/friends (public) - this completely disappeared lol

She is a complete fraud


she is active and going batshit. the last two threads are a fun read
Well I am off work tommorow so will spend it wisely reading them 😂
 
I am surd she has hinted that her new boyfriend is slightly younger. See that tweet to her brother talking about some random guy. This was a message to IG. I have someone interested in me who is younger than you. Alice is so thick skinned she still doesn’t compute that he does not give a tit who has taken her on, as long as it isn’t him. He has the massive Ick so flashing your jubblies writhing around on the floor or trying to hint about a new boyfriend is absolutely futile. I quite admire her self delusion. She still thinks she is a massive catch.
wait what tweet
I've got that anxious feeling (perhaps just perimenopause wreaking havoc) that we're all going to have a massive anticlimax tomorrow and she won't get her just deserts. I hope she finally does feel the consequences of her actions. Understand them she wouldn't, of course.
same. it's so rare that abusers actually get justice served. Especially women (partly because they are more rare and thus the system biased in their favor)
 
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BTW, if by saying that BPD “excuses” her you really mean that BPD explains her behavior, I apologize for the above^ Please pardon me, haha, I thought you meant “excuse” as in “justifies” her actions!
@ReturningthePearls
Yes, I probably worded that a little badly, my apologies. ♥️
There is no excuse for her behaviour 😡

I don't want to sound like Alice, but I'm on strong pain meds today, my back is giving me some grief and I'm liable to type all sorts of crap if left unattended for too long. On a positive note, I'm not at work today and possibly won't be going in tomorrow either. What will I do to fill the time? 🤔😊
 
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