Emma Drew #20 Jam jars, pork belly and excuses aplenty. Size slinky 16? No, more like a 20

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Anotherct said:
They don’t love each other at all, it’s a very weird friend relationship. I’m trying to lose weight and my boyfriend won’t offer me anything bad because he knows I’m trying! The clearly have separate lives. They only got married so Imma could be a princess for the day.
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I just feel like it's a very unhealthy relationship for the both of them. Emma wants to control Tony, is clearly annoyed me him, and just wants to keep selling all his toys. He is just no help to her and 'spoils' her, but actually in a very dangerous way that is detrimental to her health, he is an enabler 100%.
 
DoseofReality said:
Ugh her performative caring disgusts me. But then showed her true colours in saying she was raiding his house for things to list on ebay, while the poor man has so many clothes with holes in them.

Don't think we didn't notice the day after you said about talking to his gp your mental health suddenly got really bad all of a sudden Imma. Got him a cleaner, and got it stated that you couldn't be his carer because it would make your own mental health worse. But happy to risk his health for the gram every now and then.

Actually caring for her Dad could give her some purpose, especially as she seems set on only having passive income and a reason she has to get out of her pit. But then we know you can barely take care of yourself and your animals. I don't doubt she has mental health problems but I think they're circumstantial, that she plays the mental health card too easily and also plays a dangerous game not taking her medication properly. Citalopram is not a drug you want to mess with.
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You've got a bingo! Once again the day after she's seen her dad/discussed her dad, her mental health is in the toilet, a 'v dark day' apparently. I wonder why it impacts her this much 🤔
 
Theyallneedarealitycheck said:
Her poor dad, when he went to stay at Christmas, he had clothes with holes, now his coat is broken. He tried to pack ya gurls meds and then she made a comment about needing to get him a cleaner.

How about liaising with adult social care and getting him a half decent domiciliary care package in place. I said at Christmas that how does she know he has the mental capacity to manage at home without putting himself or others at risk. She has so little empathy and understand, I don’t think it’s denial - I’d be devastated and putting things in place immediately rather than making a joke of it on a business page. Nothing screams exploitation like rifling through a vulnerable persons home to sell their belongings for your own gain.
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Also thinking about it... (this may have been mentioned I haven't fully caught up) Doesn't it count as elder abuse? Taking the belongings of someone likely without the capacity to understand the consequences for your own financial gain? Full manipulation to rid him of his own belongings for her own already allegedly inflated savings to waste on make up she doesn't use and resells when the man can't look after himself, has holes in his clothes and a non functioning winter coat when the temperatures are below minus figures in most places?

Seems his entire family are failing him... Poor poor man. Used as a cash cow for years and neglected when he needs the help from those who milked him dry.
 
Anotherct said:
Why does she need Tony to drive her to the doctor? Don’t they understand we’re in a pandemic?????
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It’s stupid things like this that really wind me up! Emma can drive and does drive so does not need a chauffeur! I get that everyone is demented in their houses so some are looking for any excuse to get out. But driving someone who can drive themselves to the hospital is not a valid reason for breaking the huge ‘stay at home’ rule we’ve got going on at the minute. If they got in an accident that’s two beds taken up in a hospital when it could have just been one. But Emma NEVER looks beyond herself so this thought wouldn’t have crossed her mind.
 
princesssparklepants said:
Also thinking about it... (this may have been mentioned I haven't fully caught up) Doesn't it count as elder abuse? Taking the belongings of someone likely without the capacity to understand the consequences for your own financial gain? Full manipulation to rid him of his own belongings for her own already allegedly inflated savings to waste on make up she doesn't use and resells when the man can't look after himself, has holes in his clothes and a non functioning winter coat when the temperatures are below minus figures in most places?

Seems his entire family are failing him... Poor poor man. Used as a cash cow for years and neglected when he needs the help from those who milked him dry.
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It’s absolutely financial abuse. Imma could argue she has her dad’s permission but is he of sound mind to understand.
 
Anotherct said:
They don’t love each other at all, it’s a very weird friend relationship. I’m trying to lose weight and my boyfriend won’t offer me anything bad because he knows I’m trying! The clearly have separate lives. They only got married so Imma could be a princess for the day.

PS I lost 3lb this week, I lost it for you Imma.
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Exactly!

My husband said he wants to shift some lbs so I've been joining him on walks, no desserts in the week and I'm cooking healthier meals. I'm buying so many more vegetables and I by no means was unhealthy before but I also feel better now even if I haven't lost a single lb (I still sneak chocolate or cinnamon rolls at lunchtime :ROFLMAO: ).

Love and support each other, that's what a marriage is isn't it?
 
Burd said:
She needs reporting. She also has admitted she used his money to match bet.. Would have involved access to his bank accounts..
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My grandad was an abuser and my mum and I still looked after him for 16 years at home (he spent 8 years in a carehome after this where they'd ring us over every useless little thing too after that so technically still carers then (!) We did it purely because of duty of care but in doing so it made me have a heart attack in my mid 20's (bad social worker who was since fired because of the handling of the case) and has left me now as a carer of my mum (she was 58 when she started needing care... no age at all) because it (and a host of genetic issues) left her disabled. We STILL never took anything from him Emma - be it belongings or finances! Everything was financially checked and we had a diary every day where we wrote everything down - what we spent, where we went, what was said to us etc (it was that evidence that helped us prove the lies that the social worker had made about her handling of the case that had lead to increased stress levels that never needed to happen)


She absolutely needs the evidence collating and a report to her local social services. Her greed and desire to be seen on social media has left a wealth of information and evidence from her own stupidity. She deserves everything she has coming.
 
Katykatykaty said:
It’s stupid things like this that really wind me up! Emma can drive and does drive so does not need a chauffeur! I get that everyone is demented in their houses so some are looking for any excuse to get out. But driving someone who can drive themselves to the hospital is not a valid reason for breaking the huge ‘stay at home’ rule we’ve got going on at the minute. If they got in an accident that’s two beds taken up in a hospital when it could have just been one. But Emma NEVER looks beyond herself so this thought wouldn’t have crossed her mind.
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Considering the song and dance she used to make about being a ‘nervous passenger’ that needed a blanket ‘fort’ to get through car journeys (in her 30s) you’d think she’d prefer driving herself
 
What do you think she got from Nando’s? A perfectly unhealthy ‘night before your 1 year WLS anniversary’ meal I’m sure.
 

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Grateful for the NHS but goes out of her way to flout lockdown rules, eat herself into diabetes, wallow herself into depression (not saying anyone can turn depression on and off but she doesn’t exactly help herself) and will no doubt need the NHS when her thumb tum finally explodes.
 
NC2020 said:
Grateful for the NHS but goes out of her way to flout lockdown rules, eat herself into diabetes, wallow herself into depression (not saying anyone can turn depression on and off but she doesn’t exactly help herself) and will no doubt need the NHS when her thumb tum finally explodes.
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Omg if that happens you know for well she’ll blame the surgeon. Will be a full series of stories on the complaint she makes . Will be the iPhone all over again
 
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