So there was 24 minutes between her story about her being in a v dark place and the one of her packing things to send out?? Erm pretty sure it takes more than 24 minutes to get out of such a dark place (unless the dark place was her in the fridge with the door closed).
Also, Tony. Your wife has had WLS because she has a SERIOUS eating problem, that at the very least she has acknowledged and admitted to. One that could genuinely kill her in the not so distant future. You offering pizza at every opportunity is NOT HELPING. I cannot imagine having such an unsupportive partner, who doesn't even try to motivate her to be better. Yes Emma doesn't put the effort in herself, but knowing that why would you make her even less likely to succeed by offering pizza and Chinese 24/7. As much as her weight is her own problem to deal with, as a husband, he should be helping her.