Dr Jessica Taylor #6 A personality rarer than her pearl

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Boogs said:
I have no doubt that post about teenagers was prompted by the discussion about her wife here. 👋🏻 Hey Dr Jessica Taylor, you’re morally reprehensible.
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And still a huge goddamn hypocrite

This is old but I think it's telling of Jess's mentality:

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At the time of this tweet she was 27 - young, but describing herself as if she were a teenager. I think she still very much sees herself as a teen, likely because that's when she was abused. It's sad but it doesn't give her the right to take it out on others
 
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Boogs said:
I have no doubt that post about teenagers was prompted by the discussion about her wife here. 👋🏻 Hey Dr Jessica Taylor, you’re morally reprehensible.
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I agree. Not that there's any point in saying it as she just doesn't live in reality anymore, but no one said Jaimi was stupid, or needed constant supervision, or anything even close to it.

Anyone can be groomed at any age, but with teenagers it rightfully, raises safeguarding concerns and red flags. There are many children's services who support children (and adults), up the age of 21 because they're considered to still be of a vulnerable age.

Jess herself was in an abusive relationship at 16 herself at a time when it meant she could have sex legally, smoke, get married in Scotland without permission, leave home without any safeguarding concerns. Does that mean she wasn't vulnerable?

It's just another example of Jess changing her views to fit the situation - Amber heard was vulnerable (when older than Jaimi), but Jaimi isn't.

There are so many red flags about Jess and her conduct that if she was a man would raise alarm bells, that's what people have an issue with. Her hypocrisy, her behaviour etc.

No one has criticised Jaimi. I have stories I could share about Jaimi being Jess like, but I believe she is so influenced by Jess I don't put any blame on her.

Jess is using the narrative that we are attacking Jaimi to stop her looking on here, and probably keep her from friends. It's the classic 'everyone hates you apart from me'. It's total isolation, which Jaimi very much is. She works for Jess, Jess is the only person on her instagram since getting together when before it was friends. It's very obvious that she relies on Jess totally for her views and opinions. But I've experienced first hand how Jess reacts to anyone who doesn't share them, so I get why it's easier to go along with it and tell yourself that you're happy in the bubble, that it's you and them against the world and look at the amazing instagram life we have together
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witchofwestbyfleet said:
And still a huge goddamn hypocrite

This is old but I think it's telling of Jess's mentality:

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At the time of this tweet she was 27 - young, but describing herself as if she were a teenager. I think she still very much sees herself as a teen, likely because that's when she was abused. It's sad but it doesn't give her the right to take it out on others
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Sometimes she talks like she's never met any lesbians or been part of any sort of lesbian community. No one ever has ever said a Fringe looked lesbian. Yeah, sure if you shave all your hair off or cut it short, but never a Fringe.
 
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witchofwestbyfleet said:
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Jess: I'm so young, basically still a teenager myself, stop oppressing teenagers by saying that they don't have the decision-making capacity of an adult.
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That's how I saw it, her identifying as a teenager, which in my experience is a trauma response or a sign that perhaps she didn't have the easiest youth.


But yeah...teenagers do need supervision and guidance, not because they're stupid, but because even the smartest teenager can't have the life experience to protect themselves in the adult world.
 
BigYellow said:
Sometimes she talks like she's never met any lesbians or been part of any sort of lesbian community. No one ever has ever said a Fringe looked lesbian. Yeah, sure if you shave all your hair off or cut it short, but never a Fringe.
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There is a stereotype of "TERF bangs" ie gender critical women having a very short fringe, but still nothing to do with being a lesbian. Maybe that's what she's talking about? And, yeah, she doesn't seem to have ever been part of any kind of lesbian community. Her first and only relationship with a woman is Jaimi and they are each other's entire world, she has no interest in socialising with other lesbians - again, seemingly based on offensive stereotypes that they're all older, ugly, bitter, etc. while she's young and beautiful and feminine
 
Her fringe isn't the problem, I agree.
It's being bad at her job and being a narcisstic so tearing down anyone who gets in her way.

Maybe she should use one of her reflective journals or seek therapy herself
Ive heard it said that a narcissist very rarely ends up in a therapy room as a patient (I'm sure a few of them are therapists, though).

If she's working with women and girls who are traumatised, wouldn't she need therapy herself ....to keep her own responses in check..
 
SavannahS said:
she's working with women and girls who are traumatised, wouldn't she need therapy herself ....to keep her own responses in check..
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She had clinical supervision at VF, it led her to realise how much of a victim she was of all the SA stuff and very dramatically needed time off, but it amounted to her not working over the weekend and posting loads of pictures about how great she was.
 
And she shared this all with her team??

I noticed her posting a link to a victim of the tinder swindler...probably she's hoping to be some victim psychologist related to that as well.
 
Jess? Just that clinical supervision had made her realise how burdening all the abuse she was getting from SA and NRAs etc etc and how she needed to recoup. But recouping meant cycling to a sunflower with Jaimi for loads of posed pictures. Why not just live in the moment instead of turning everything into a photoshoot while engaging in organised fun?
 
CuriousTherapyCat said:
Hmm, did she actually have proper clinical supervision? Or did she just chat to a “mate”?
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She did. The clinical psychologist at VF was actually very good. Jess will have just put her spin on events and of course, no one could question her.
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I say spin on things, but I actually think Jess fully believes everything she says.
 
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BigYellow said:
I agree. Not that there's any point in saying it as she just doesn't live in reality anymore, but no one said Jaimi was stupid, or needed constant supervision, or anything even close to it.

Anyone can be groomed at any age, but with teenagers it rightfully, raises safeguarding concerns and red flags. There are many children's services who support children (and adults), up the age of 21 because they're considered to still be of a vulnerable age.

Jess herself was in an abusive relationship at 16 herself at a time when it meant she could have sex legally, smoke, get married in Scotland without permission, leave home without any safeguarding concerns. Does that mean she wasn't vulnerable?

It's just another example of Jess changing her views to fit the situation - Amber heard was vulnerable (when older than Jaimi), but Jaimi isn't.

There are so many red flags about Jess and her conduct that if she was a man would raise alarm bells, that's what people have an issue with. Her hypocrisy, her behaviour etc.

No one has criticised Jaimi. I have stories I could share about Jaimi being Jess like, but I believe she is so influenced by Jess I don't put any blame on her.

Jess is using the narrative that we are attacking Jaimi to stop her looking on here, and probably keep her from friends. It's the classic 'everyone hates you apart from me'. It's total isolation, which Jaimi very much is. She works for Jess, Jess is the only person on her instagram since getting together when before it was friends. It's very obvious that she relies on Jess totally for her views and opinions. But I've experienced first hand how Jess reacts to anyone who doesn't share them, so I get why it's easier to go along with it and tell yourself that you're happy in the bubble, that it's you and them against the world and look at the amazing instagram life we have together
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Sometimes she talks like she's never met any lesbians or been part of any sort of lesbian community. No one ever has ever said a Fringe looked lesbian. Yeah, sure if you shave all your hair off or cut it short, but never a Fringe.
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You mention having similar stories about Jaimi but that she's likely being abused by Jess. I used to think the same but it's hard when you see how complicit she is and the lies she tells. It also makes me wonder about her mother - how does she not see what's going on or is she in on it all too??

It was mentioned earlier but I have also noticed how careful Jess is to show herself as the pursued and Jaimi as the pursuer. She's even made jokes that use the top/ bottom categories to imply Jaimi is the "top" and dominant.

What did their relationship seem like to those in VF?
 
maisiedaisy2 said:
You mention having similar stories about Jaimi but that she's likely being abused by Jess. I used to think the same but it's hard when you see how complicit she is and the lies she tells. It also makes me wonder about her mother - how does she not see what's going on or is she in on it all too??

It was mentioned earlier but I have also noticed how careful Jess is to show herself as the pursued and Jaimi as the pursuer. She's even made jokes that use the top/ bottom categories to imply Jaimi is the "top" and dominant.

What did their relationship seem like to those in VF?
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Very over the top, unprofessional and performative.

I think Mandy has been groomed too. They didn't have a lot as Jaimi was growing up it seems and now Mandy is employed by Jess to not do much and Jess was talking about having a house built for her on their land. Mandy calls Jess her daughter. Jess buys her holidays for Christmas/birthdays.

I didn't warm to Mandy at all. It benefits her that Jess & Jaimi stay together which feels icky to me.
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Many abused women lie for their perpetrators. Its easier than the alternative. Also, if you're being totally coerced, then you don't even know you're lying because the abusers truth is the only truth.

They could tell you the sky was green and you'd believe it and then repeat it to others.
 
Initially I wondered whether Mandy was staying close to keep an eye on Jaimi but seeing how she has behaved I think she has been sucked in too. Narcs are very good at reading people and knowing how to draw them in.
 
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