Cancer Influencers #4

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ginnyw said:
I think her disease is advanced.....sadly seen that frail look before. Even if she gets that surgery it is a massive op. I fear for her and feel sorry for her lovely mum.x
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May I ask what type of surgery will she get? I stopped watching her for some time because of the baby voice that's why I'm shocked by her appearance. Will she get pelvic exenteration like Natalie Woodward? I fell so sorry for her, I'm not sure if I'm right but she was stage III at the beginning? I remember thinking that it's good and she's in better situation than Natalie, but now when I think of it... Nat never looked so poorly :(
 
clairexx23 said:
May I ask what type of surgery will she get? I stopped watching her for some time because of the baby voice that's why I'm shocked by her appearance. Will she get pelvic exenteration like Natalie Woodward? I fell so sorry for her, I'm not sure if I'm right but she was stage III at the beginning? I remember thinking that it's good and she's in better situation than Natalie, but now when I think of it... Nat never looked so poorly :(
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I think when she gets her results soon then she will know what surgery. The tumour I think has said has invaded the vagina so yes, it might be the radical surgery that Nat had. She doesn't even look strong enough for surgery to me. Poor girl.
 
It's interesting that Tiffany never really talks about her diagnosis. There is no detail at all. She has had extensive biopsies recently and was in a great deal of pain from them which, she said, really surprised her. She could barely sit down.

She is going to do another YouTube video on Thursday, which will give more details about her tumour (s) and her future treatment and possible surgery.

I feel a lot of worry for her.
 
Tricia Doll said:
That bleeping Blandy prick, why is he being SO dishonourable to his poor dead wife? So many photos/tags of other women on his grid, you need to scroll really far back to see her. Bloody Sarah Harding gets a more recent photo than poor Rach and she died a year ago on Rachael's anniversary so that's a year since he posted about her. I hate him.
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It’s disgusting. I usually defend people moving on because I think everyone deserves to have happiness but NOT to the point where your previous wife is completely erased. She lived for 40 years, he loved her, they have a child together FFS. Do you think Amy had a written clause in their marriage that Rachael was to be written out of his memory once she’d signed on the dotted line 🤣 it’s insane!
 
Warrior said:
Awful thought - this big announcement that Blandy and Lauren were working on last night and tagging Amy in on - surely she is not taking Deborah’s place on the podcast to you know give the clinical experience of caring for those with cancer Etc. Hope I am wrong but WHY is she tagged?
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Really hope that this would get a load of complaints if they did so, how unbeliveably disrespectful would that be (not that steve or lauren give two hoots about disrespecting people).

I see that his 'very important speech' talks about Rachael so wondering if he'll somehow shoehorn in something like: 'Rachael would have wanted, beyond everything, for my new slug browed wife to take her place at the podcast table with me and Lauren - in fact, it was all Rachael ever dreamed about!'
Or some such shite, and then intro in the replacement wife.
 
Jvuddie said:
Really hope that this would get a load of complaints if they did so, how unbeliveably disrespectful would that be (not that steve or lauren give two hoots about disrespecting people).

I see that his 'very important speech' talks about Rachael so wondering if he'll somehow shoehorn in something like: 'Rachael would have wanted, beyond everything, for my new slug browed wife to take her place at the podcast table with me and Lauren - in fact, it was all Rachael ever dreamed about!'
Or some such shite, and then intro in the replacement wife.
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God I do hope not, I can't bear this man or his new slug browed (love that :LOL: ) wife. Poor Rachael, I was never a huge fan of hers but she certainly deserves better than this treatment 😥 Can't believe there was no mention of the anniversary of her passing. It didn't need to be huge and gushing, just a recognition.
 
Warrior said:
Awful thought - this big announcement that Blandy and Lauren were working on last night and tagging Amy in on - surely she is not taking Deborah’s place on the podcast to you know give the clinical experience of caring for those with cancer Etc. Hope I am wrong but WHY is she tagged?
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I wondered this too. She has no need to be tagged.

I don’t think Steve’s allowed to publicly acknowledge Rachael’s anniversaries. Remember that it’s a hard day for the new wife.. She said so in the podcast.
 
candyland_ said:
I wondered this too. She has no need to be tagged.

I don’t think Steve’s allowed to publicly acknowledge Rachael’s anniversaries. Remember that it’s a hard day for the new wife.. She said so in the podcast.
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Urgh, it’s so disrespectful to Rachael’s family and their son. It makes me so angry for them that Amy has came along and feels jealous so now Rachael is never mentioned unless it’s her shoes being sold 😡
 
Kittens1988 said:
Urgh, it’s so disrespectful to Rachael’s family and their son. It makes me so angry for them that Amy has came along and feels jealous so now Rachael is never mentioned unless it’s her shoes being sold 😡
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It's embarrassingly immature to be that insecure about your new partner's (edit - your current HUSBAND's) dead wife at her age.
 
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I don't think it's that Amy is joining the podcast - I don't think Steve is heartless and batshit!

But I still think whatever it is, it is weird to tag one dead person, but not your own dead wife? And also your new wife? Why was Amy tagged?

I wonder if the big speech is an announcement that the podcast is going to finish, maybe one final episode?
 
I'm honestly flabbergasted that the woman who started it all, the woman they owe for being in the position they are today... didn't even get a mention on the anniversary of her death. Are they that heartless? Is Amy that Insecure?

If it was Seb not mentioning Debs in a year or two I wouldn't bat an eyelid, because he's so private. But you would think Mr attention seeking Steve would at least mention her considering how much he's on Instagram.

So disrespectful to her memory and most of all, her son. Up until yesterday I didn't want to criticise Amy because I know certain aspects must be hard. But not even saying anything yesterday made me lose any sympathy I had.

Edited to say ... looks like my nickname Mr Attention Seeking Steve van be shortened to Mr ASS and that's fine by me.
 
Glitteryflipflops said:
I wonder if the big speech is an announcement that the podcast is going to finish, maybe one final episode?
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I bloody hope so - or maybe it is a presenter change announcement to someone actually currently relevant to the cancer community in 2022. Not a girl happily in remission for 6 years and a guy who has just replaced his dead wife.

These two badly need to move on
 
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