Ashley James #23 Now that I have baby Thumb, sorry Alf the iPad is your Mum.

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aggytha said:
Ughhhh I can’t even stand to watch or read about her caesarean recovery or rush of love she experienced with Ada. 😫

I never had that feeling with my daughter and it makes me feel so upset to think about. I was too exhausted after a 70 hour labour and trying not to lose consciousness during my emergency caesarean to be able to even think straight. Of course I was so relieved and grateful she was safe, but I didn’t have the energy to feel anything. I was traumatised and numb.

I can’t believe she has the audacity to say “I think Alf will be fine because he knows he’s loved now” when I haven’t even admitted out loud to my own husband how I felt, because I worry how it sounds and that it makes me a bad person. I’d be devastated if my daughter ever knew. I also think I’d feel so guilty and sad if I experienced the perfect healing rush of love birth with my 2nd compared to my 1st. Ashley you are a bleeping emotionless robot as far as I’m concerned.
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You hit the nail on the head there. Perfect example of how Ash feels no guilt. No feeling. Just pure cold-heartedness.
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I didn’t have that rush either. I’d never tell my child that. I’d just birthed a whopper vaginally (much bigger than Alf was) Had a PPH and sepsis AND had a midwife forcing a baby to breastfeed without asking if I even wanted to. I was thinking what the bloody hell is going on? That is completely different to what she’s talking about.

We don’t have the rush of love but we love them SO much once reconnection is made. There’s never been one there with Alf to start with. Then came resentment for ruining her life.

Ughhhhh she needs a goddamn psychotherapist.
 
Let's face it.... she hasn't loved Alf since she did the only mum to have a lockdown gender reveal and knew he was a boy.

That poor boys existence so far has been nothing but disappointing for Trashley, he is just one inconvenience after another and its all been documented for him to see in years to come.

I really hope he forms his own sibling bond with AD away from anyones influence, but I fear he will be so far pushed out and removed over the coming years he will grow up with nothing but resentment for #AD, which ironically is what Ashley is projecting onto him.
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So she actually says that’s she’s basically fully recovered from the c section, but is still not lifting Alf?! That makes me so so sad, I can’t imagine not picking up my toddler, obviously she needs to recover but she says she’s completely fine 🥺
 
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So she actually says that’s she’s basically fully recovered from the c section, but is still not lifting Alf?! That makes me so so sad, I can’t imagine not picking up my toddler, obviously she needs to recover but she says she’s completely fine 🥺
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She'll probably not lift him again without making reference to how big and chunky he is compared to dainty little #Ad
 
Knowing the alphabet by rote isn’t ‘learning’ when a child can’t put a sentence together in real life (ie when they’re not in front of a screen). I don’t understand why she thinks that poor boy is so advanced, when it’s clear to anyone that has a child (and probably everyone else too?) that he needs much more human interaction in order to start developing properly. The research and experts aren’t wrong when they say that children just need YOU to talk to them, not a bloody ipad screen. I just feel so sorry for him. TNB was awful in those stories too…so cold, impatient and demanding. Poor Alf.
 
InTheDollsHouse said:
P for performing monkey 😔
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With A for AFF Link thrown in at the end. And presumably by ‘and aff link’ she actually means AD Aff Link? Grace A strikes again. And the iPad comment is clearly a dig at this thread title. 😂😂😂😂

I note she didn’t include that she earns money from clicks and purchases from posting these links in the little ‘look how honest I am about adverts’ bollocks she did the other day.
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And they’re both ‘good job’ parents. 🙈🙈🙈
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Here you go Ash and TNB. Some ‘research’ for you.
 
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