Ashley James #23 Now that I have baby Thumb, sorry Alf the iPad is your Mum.

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msmith2006 said:
forgive me for this as I know we have touched on this subject before and some people felt offended by strangers on the internet diagnosing something as complex as autism from videos of a young child but Alf's memory of the alphabet to me is another sign that points towards that?

people with autism are known for their high intelligence & excellent recall. throw in the repeated nature of things he says and does, lack of emotion/smiling, not talking much, unusual sleeping and eating habits (although well aware these 2 in particular are prob down to Ash) and I've definitely seen him do hand flapping too?

really not out to annoy anyone so I apologise if I do. I'm a teacher and I have family members who have severe autism (in their 30s, need full time care and still only say max 10 words) so I'm not saying it lightly.
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As everyone knows, I’m autistic and have previously taken real exception to the way this particular question has been phrased historically. Thank you for your sensitivity.
I think at this point, given the other circumstances in his life which are so severe they practically stand as comorbidities, we just can’t tell. Alf lacks stimulation from parents and peers. His most profound relationship is with an iPad. He is denigrated and now, since the arrival of Doll-Daughter, rejected. His sleep schedule has been interrupted by the freezing cold room in which he sleeps. His mobility has likewise been improved due to too-small footwear and endless occasions when he is crammed into his pram. His so-called mother’s primary relationship is with her phone. His diet is utterly appalling, consisting of products of low nutritional value, few vegetables and fruits, low protein and high carb/saturated fat - which can affect his mental development by up to ten IQ points. He repeats behaviours, I personally believe, because he lacks exposure to new ideas, events and people. And he parrots that which he hears on his iPad because Ms James lets the tech do the parenting for her.
We’ll probably get a better idea when he is 3.5-4y.o. and starting school.
 
Don’t know if trash knows that you can get out of bed with a newborn?
 

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Here I am only a few days post partum c section, with my hair and make up professionally done with my eldest inconvenience child nowhere to be seen
.....yeah totally realistic for the vast majority of new mums
well done 👏🏻
ps ...why do you say you do your make up in the bedroom when you've got your very own boudoir upstairs Alf 's bedroom to be for eye bleeping yourself while preening and applying make up
and saying the Dyson fan/ heater got Alf through the winter....liar liar pants in fire 🤥
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Cariad said:
Here I am only a few days post partum c section, with my hair and make up professionally done with my eldest inconvenience child nowhere to be seen
.....yeah totally realistic for the vast majority of new mums
well done 👏🏻
ps ...why do you say you do your make up in the bedroom when you've got your very own boudoir upstairs Alf 's bedroom to be for eye bleeping yourself while preening and applying make up
and saying the Dyson fan/ heater got Alf through the winter....liar liar pants in fire 🤥
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she’s obsessed with formaldehyde?!
 
Not a bit of wonder the child had jaundice…instead of feeding her non stop to bring the levels down, she was having hair and makeup done and filming a stupid AD for a thing she never used in her life.
One of my twins had jaundice and I was waking her through the night to feed every 2 hours so I could get out of hospital. Was absolutely shattered. Not sitting eye bleeping the camera. I have no words for this excuse of a “mother”
 
It’s funny how apparently they were “in and out of hospital” yet at 3 weeks she was bragging about how relaxed she felt, how happy she was that she has already left bbygirl for “several hours” and ash had already got her nails done etc

As usual everything she says is a pile of shite and she blows with the wind depending on what she thinks will do better on Insta.
 
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