Ashley James #23 Now that I have baby Thumb, sorry Alf the iPad is your Mum.

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No wonder she has no friends with that bleeping petulant childish mean girl ‘he’ll be ok guys’ attitude. Open your eyes you POS.
She even corrected herself when she said she had ‘loads’ of messages about the way she talks about Alf to ‘a few’. Which one is it?

If you’ve had a rough c-section experience and recovery I’m sorry you’ve had to watch this moron bleat on about her glorified experience. Once again, trying to scare expectant mums who are doing it vaginally. I dislike her so much.
 
Thing is, it's OK not to feel that initial rush of love, having a traumatic birth I can see how that happens, it can be gradual BUT we aren't all saying it out loud to thousands of people for our child one day to watch. Doesn't matter how loved they are now that will still be difficult for, them to understand! 😢
 
I love that her ✨motherly instinct✨ has only
taken her until Spring time and when her son is nearly two and a half for her to realise he’s cold and that’s why he’s been waking up!! 😂 what a bleeping baboon she is. All through the winter months she’s been moaning about him waking at 3am, 4am etc etc but she never once, despite us mentioning it, didn’t think that he might be cold!!! I just can’t with her. She’s unbearable.
 
Thing is, she doesn't actually love him now does she. What a horrible bleep she is, I hate using that word but she is. I totally understand not everyone gets that "rush" and that's absolutely ok but she absolutely does not love that little boy, never has and I honestly don't think ever will. She needs to stop lying and get herself the help she needs to get over whatever issues she has with herself/Alf/the patriarchy/the way the grass grows.
 
ToolaRoola said:
Teething again? Is he shedding teeth like a shark and on his 10th set?
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She's obsessed with him teething constantly because it gives her an excuse that she can't easily control (except for dosing him up with Calpol) for him not behaving in the way that she wants, unfortunately I see that in quite a lot of parents - and while teething can be disruptive and a challenge I don't think it's the only reason a child might wake in the night or be otherwise grumpy/difficult.
 
She is honestly the woman that cried 'elevenerife' aka if you've been to tenerife she's been to eleven.... 😅

It's OK if your single, she's done it but she'll always do it better then you

It's OK if you've had a traumatic birth, she's done it but hers will always be worse then yours

It's OK if you want to travel solo but she'll always travel better solo then you

It's OK if you have a C section, she's done it but hers had drama/complications more then yours

Her whole narrative has just got to be that much more then some one else's, she isn't humble or kind or genuine.

Also, definitely loving she's had to explain ADs, her posts blah blah etc... someone's been reading here on her precious night feeds 👀👀
 
Mousejen said:
She's obsessed with him teething constantly because it gives her an excuse that she can't easily control (except for dosing him up with Calpol) for him not behaving in the way that she wants, unfortunately I see that in quite a lot of parents - and while teething can be disruptive and a challenge I don't think it's the only reason a child might wake in the night or be otherwise grumpy/difficult.
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That feeling when your kid has all their teeth and you can no longer blame teething and have to accept that it’s just their personality 🤣🤣🤣

He could just be getting his molars, but by that age I think I’d given up attributing anything to teething 🫠
 
Just trash saying she would be fine with not being able to pick alf up in order to have the perfect c section ad birth.
Love the way she changed ‘I’ve had loads’ to ‘I’ve had a few messages’ I think people are picking up on the fact she hates her son.
Did she have a photographer at the birth aswell ?!
 

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... does she forget these posts?

Absolute contrast to her gushing night feed posts about Baby #AD. Honestly poor Alf, he's never been good enough for her 😪
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She worries it’s not right to cuddle a newborn? What the duck was her upbringing like? A cell with no human interaction? My word.
 
Ad's birth was always going to be sunshine and roses. I'm sure if you look closely at that professional photo that was taken by her "tripod", you'll see little bunnies running around, flowers sprouting, bluebirds flying around and everybodies eyes turned into love hearts.

There's a huge difference between not feeling that sudden rush of love, which is perfectly normal, you've just experienced one of the wildest things in your life, your hormones are crazy and you're a bit shellshocked and publicly stating "you didn't love your son". The fact she's worded it like that is so sad, but even sader she's shown time and time again that she has very little love for him 😢
 
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Ughhhh I can’t even stand to watch or read about her caesarean recovery or rush of love she experienced with Ada. 😫

I never had that feeling with my daughter and it makes me feel so upset to think about. I was too exhausted after a 70 hour labour and trying not to lose consciousness during my emergency caesarean to be able to even think straight. Of course I was so relieved and grateful she was safe, but I didn’t have the energy to feel anything. I was traumatised and numb.

I can’t believe she has the audacity to say “I think Alf will be fine because he knows he’s loved now” when I haven’t even admitted out loud to my own husband how I felt, because I worry how it sounds and that it makes me a bad person. I’d be devastated if my daughter ever knew. I also think I’d feel so guilty and sad if I experienced the perfect healing rush of love birth with my 2nd compared to my 1st. Ashley you are a bleeping emotionless robot as far as I’m concerned.
 
@aggytha I felt the same when I had my eldest nearly 21 years ago.

It took me a long time to say it out loud to anyone and I felt guilt for years. I've never told my daughter. Of course I loved her, but in that initial moment I was more like 'WTF just happened and tit, she's real, what the hell do I do now and what do I know about being responsible for a human'.

I think it's absolutely fine to normalise that that sudden rush doesn't always happen but just not repeating it consistently in the way she does for her children to read in years to come. The difference is we do start to feel love,we don't even know it's happening, sadly with her she's never felt that.

She cold and lacks empathy. She thinks she feels magical love for Ada, but reality is she's loving her vision of creating a mini me. When people show you who they are, believe them and she shows 335k followers (plus Tattlers) who she is daily.
 
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