I think all zoe wants to have is a “perfect child” you see it a lot with youtubers who have had kids they never share the struggles like in a few vlogs backs they talk about how they “couldn’t” and wouldn’t film her when she’s having a tantrum or not behaving or just literally being a baby… She will only ever share Ottie when it fits the influencer perfect life narrative, she doesn’t want to show her just playing or crying or eating or doing normal child things unless it’s something extravagant like having santa visit or baking like these aren’t normal every day activities of a child that age but the camera is hardly out when she is just doing normal baby stuff. I watch this youtuber called Jess her channel is Phoebe&me, she’s just a regular mum to 2 kids and shares the fun stuff they do as a family but also the struggles, the tantrums, the attitudes the fact that being a parent isn’t just ‘let’s do all this fun stuff for the camera’, she talks about the cost of living crisis and it’s just so real compared to the stuff we see on zoe’s channel. A child should be a child not forced to be this ‘product’ to keep the viewers entertained, we see zoe’s vlogs titled “Santa comes to visit” etc but how much more authentic would it be to see something like “Taking ottie to visit santa” and they just take her to que up and visit like 90% of us in the world do with our kids.