What do you want to rant about today? #23

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TRIGGER - POTENTIAL DV.

Please, when someone shows you who they are; believe them the first time. I have just been screamed at because I didn’t boil some eggs for long enough and he has thrown the eggs all over the kitchen and told me to clean in up.

I should have left before a house was involved. I feel like there’s no escape.
I'm sorry he's putting you through this. From someone whose ex was a total control freak but I didn't realise until we split up there is better out there. I remember when he locked me out the house for being 10 mins "late" home and I thought it was normal. Look after yourself and don't let him ruin your self worth.
 
I've still got this poxy cold. I bought some decongestant today and have seemingly dropped it on the way home. So my face still feels about to burst.

My house is a tit tip. I have what feels like a million jobs to do and most of them I can't do myself for various reasons, and I have no help - and tbh my to do list for both jobs I can do and those I can't is so long I don't even know where to start. Just as an example, I've got new flooring to put down in my home gym and porch, but I also need to decorate them as well. 2 of my external doors don't close properly, they lock but there's a massive gap above them. I've got no ceiling in my living room and no working shower room because of a previous flood which was meant to be covered by insurance but I took too long to sort out, and the list goes on.

Plus I feel like tit, so am stressing because I'm wasting my week off and have so far achieved the sum total of duck all.
 
cant get my adhd meds(3rd month in a row) as there is now a shortage... again and il be left a week unmedicated before i can get them.. again
God forgive me, but for the 30-40+ year olds that are newly diagnosed (tha ks to SM) and have gotten this far in life without needing pills, can ya continue on functioning without meds and leave the rest of us that have life altering tit with enough tabs
il get roasted... i dont care!!!
"oh you have adhd, if you are messy"
"you have adhd if you add and subtract like this"
"you have adhd if you watch a film and already know the ending"

suck dicks

thank you
 
cant get my adhd meds(3rd month in a row) as there is now a shortage... again and il be left a week unmedicated before i can get them.. again
God forgive me, but for the 30-40+ year olds that are newly diagnosed (tha ks to SM) and have gotten this far in life without needing pills, can ya continue on functioning without meds and leave the rest of us that have life altering tit with enough tabs
il get roasted... i dont care!!!
"oh you have adhd, if you are messy"
"you have adhd if you add and subtract like this"
"you have adhd if you watch a film and already know the ending"

suck dicks

thank you

I've seen my best friend go through this with her daughter. Months waiting for the meds, months getting the dosage right, months of side effects, then the stress of being told they're unavailable and having to switch to something else.

These self-diagnosing social media idiots are the reason people come out with "I think everyone is a little bit ADHD." 😒 Because if you listened to them all, you'd think everyone's got it. They don't seem to realise there's so much more to it than "oh haha, look at me, I'm so easily distracted!"

I hope you get your meds soon.
 
I've seen my best friend go through this with her daughter. Months waiting for the meds, months getting the dosage right, months of side effects, then the stress of being told they're unavailable and having to switch to something else.

These self-diagnosing social media idiots are the reason people come out with "I think everyone is a little bit ADHD." 😒 Because if you listened to them all, you'd think everyone's got it. They don't seem to realise there's so much more to it than "oh haha, look at me, I'm so easily distracted!"

I hope you get your meds soon.
It's the constant videos "signs you have adhd" that duck me off. Or someone posts on a Facebook group that their kid is so cute and lines his cars up, then you have a million twats yelling AUTISMMMM in the comments. Rips my knitting!
 
cant get my adhd meds(3rd month in a row) as there is now a shortage... again and il be left a week unmedicated before i can get them.. again
God forgive me, but for the 30-40+ year olds that are newly diagnosed (tha ks to SM) and have gotten this far in life without needing pills, can ya continue on functioning without meds and leave the rest of us that have life altering tit with enough tabs
il get roasted... i dont care!!!
"oh you have adhd, if you are messy"
"you have adhd if you add and subtract like this"
"you have adhd if you watch a film and already know the ending"

suck dicks

thank you
Lucky you being diagnosed early enough that you didn’t have to muddle through life like those in their 30s and 40s
 
My husband's alarm clock went off at quarter past 5 this morning. Probably every but I checked the time this today. He usually doesn't even get up straight away.
I'm tired and it wakes me up and puts me in a bad mood. No wonder I feel like I'm running on empty.
 
I just say I don't have an email address. 😁
Not the staffs fault and any lurking supervisor can't get round that - short of calling me a liar. 😉
Is this whole 'give us you emailadress' thing another gift that came with Brexit? I can't remember when it started. Because it certainly does not conform with the EU's GDPR directive, and being automatically subscribed to mailing lists and newsletters is also a big no no - you should have to confirm you are the owner of this emailadress first, and they'd have to provide an unsubscribe option in every email they send you.
 
my name is an absolute nightmare to spell (and fairly unusual) so i hate standing there having to spell it multiple times 🤣 and even then they never take it right, i’ve never successfully had a receipt from there! i hate being blunt with shop assistants but i’ve started just saying i’m not comfortable giving my email so either i’ll have a paper receipt or not one at all 🫣

i keep meaning to, like said above, start a throwaway email address for them but i’m also very petty and begrudge doing it 🤣
But no receipt means no return
 
It’s our first year in our home and we have no Christmas decs - used fo not bother when we had a flat as 1) no room and 2) we’d spend the whole Christmas season at our parents anyway.

I’ve spent £300+ on Christmas decor and I feel like it’s really not stretched far at all! And we’ve not gone for expensive stuff, just some garlands and ceramic trees etc. how did our parents used to make it look like such a winter wonderland? Was it the foil plastic stars on the ceilings that did it? 😅
 
cant get my adhd meds(3rd month in a row) as there is now a shortage... again and il be left a week unmedicated before i can get them.. again
God forgive me, but for the 30-40+ year olds that are newly diagnosed (tha ks to SM) and have gotten this far in life without needing pills, can ya continue on functioning without meds and leave the rest of us that have life altering tit with enough tabs
il get roasted... i dont care!!!
"oh you have adhd, if you are messy"
"you have adhd if you add and subtract like this"
"you have adhd if you watch a film and already know the ending"

suck dicks

thank you
Surely those self diagnosing aren’t getting medicated? Therefore won’t affect supply issues of meds- you’d only get medicated if you have a genuinely diagnosed condition..
 
Surely those self diagnosing aren’t getting medicated? Therefore won’t affect supply issues of meds- you’d only get medicated if you have a genuinely diagnosed condition..
Exactly and if social media has lead to a rise is people being diagnosed and subsequently medicated, then have some compassion for the fact they will have struggled without medication for years and years!
 
It’s our first year in our home and we have no Christmas decs - used fo not bother when we had a flat as 1) no room and 2) we’d spend the whole Christmas season at our parents anyway.

I’ve spent £300+ on Christmas decor and I feel like it’s really not stretched far at all! And we’ve not gone for expensive stuff, just some garlands and ceramic trees etc. how did our parents used to make it look like such a winter wonderland? Was it the foil plastic stars on the ceilings that did it? 😅
It is the years of accumulations that does it - bit at a time. That said our Christmas tree will be almost 'paid off' this year - £15 on Boxing Day about 13 years ago - Kids were tiddlers and thought the missus could do with some peace for a few hours - so off we trotted to Homebase in Cardiff - the manager was stripping the Christmas tree display and frantically building a bedroom display - I noticed he had 6 8ft Christmas trees all new boxed - said jokingly how much each if I take the lot - his opening was £20 a piece - I half joking said how about £15 a piece - he only went and bloody agreed.

The look on the wife's face when I unloaded the kids then unloaded 6 big boxed trees - no fear - sold them all bar one for £50 a shot in the following November - couldnt move in the loft for nearly a year mind!
 
It's the constant videos "signs you have adhd" that duck me off. Or someone posts on a Facebook group that their kid is so cute and lines his cars up, then you have a million twats yelling AUTISMMMM in the comments. Rips my knitting!

ADHD is the new anxiety. Seems no one has that nowadays…it’s grown into ADHD instead.
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But no receipt means no return

My item doesn’t fit either so I’ll have to show them my bank statement. It’s a bloody joke. It’s not the fault of the staff having to ask but what else can I do in terms of giving them my email address than spell it? And they still can’t get it right.
 
Lol, how completely logical to blame people who have the same condition as you, for needing the same medication as you, because you deem yourself more important. Would you say the same with cancer drugs, or blood pressure meds? It's not the fault of people who need medication that there's a shortage. People who've gone their whole lives suffering because they weren't as lucky to be diagnosed early in life, don't now deserve to spend more time in pain just because of someone elses perceived superiority, honestly give me strength.

It's not people with "self diagnoses" that are on these meds, a doctor has to agree as you should realise yourself.
 
ADHD is the new anxiety. Seems no one has that nowadays…it’s grown into ADHD instead.
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My item doesn’t fit either so I’ll have to show them my bank statement. It’s a bloody joke. It’s not the fault of the staff having to ask but what else can I do in terms of giving them my email address than spell it? And they still can’t get it right.
ADHD is the new anxiety. Seems no one has that nowadays…it’s grown into ADHD instead.
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My item doesn’t fit either so I’ll have to show them my bank statement. It’s a bloody joke. It’s not the fault of the staff having to ask but what else can I do in terms of giving them my email address than spell it? And they still can’t get it right.
Or, those with undiagnosed ADHD and autism are no longer suffering with anxiety and depression due to finally being correctly diagnosed and medicated.
 
Sat here wondering how I ended up with such a dysfunctional family? Got my poor mum with tubes coming out of her left right and centre, she’s been through hell and back the last 6 months and none of my siblings seem to give a flying duck? How on earth has it come to this ☹😟 literally typed out “I told you he was a selfish prick years ago” to my mum and then deleted it again as I don’t want to upset her further. It’s utter madness. You definitely find out who your friends are, Christ, you find out who your real family are, too. Cunts, the lot of them.
 
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