nelly2317
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I watched it about half an hour ago! Is she back on?
@warwickshiremumstruthexp
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She’s just gone off to go out for a dog walk.. what do you think about how’s she’s been on live? I honestly think she’s badly mentally unwell.
Thegoodelife
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Can anyone recap the live? Xx
I can see how she’s ended up with no contact - 100% she’s not helped herself! Her attitude isn’t ‘I’ll do anything to get my children back’ it’s I’m so hard done by and shouldn’t have to do anything.. she comes across very immature and I think she does have mental health issues
I seen bits. She basically blocked anybody who even remotely questioned her, she’s wanting to live in a vacuum were everybody agrees with her then flashes tablets “to get to sleep “ she’s really not helping herself at all.
nelly2317
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She was only on for about 20 mins both times before it ended. She kept rambling shite tbh “once upon a time there was two boys called Ashton and Alfie who lives happily ever after with their mummy.. yeah once upon a time..” kept repeating that. Then said there was no upcoming court date and ignoring when people would ask why she isn’t getting supervised visits. Comments were just filled with bumsooks saying “aw I can’t believe this ur so strong hun xx” then it cut off the first time, second time she went back live ranting how someone calling Warwickshire police saying they’re concerned for her and that something happened on NYE where they turned up because someone phoned. She said something like “Paul’s phoned up concerned, I don’t know why because I’m in my bed on tik tok give me a break leave me alone you have the kids what else do you want” then started rambling further shite, and it cut off.
gimm3more
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She also said about the pinned video of her with the kids at the drive thru that “she was the one being followed and stalked” that day
The kids look terrified on it and clearly they’ve just been picked up from school on it
Also there’s a video she’s posted from the dad’s POV from that same day/incident and she’s clearly crossed through a whole separate (supermarket?) car park because she’s seen their car and walked towards the drive through. She’s actually insane
Schmetterling1990
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She’s filled with hatred for her ex (I don’t blame her - he’s a bastard) but until she can get past that she can’t move on. Definitely needs counselling / therapy but the (non private) waiting lists are just insane. I feel so bad for her but TikTok is definitely not helping anything.
shes my age and honestly I couldn’t get over her live.. she was so immature and the way she was commenting back?She isn’t helping herself which is the worst part. She seems to be missing out the reasons why she has no contact,like I’ve said numerous times on this thread my ex got granted supervised contact and he’s a significant risk.. but he did everything childrens services & judge ordered.. she definitely hasn’t had the best legal advice or hasn’t listened.. but eveytime sometone brings this up they’re accused of being the kids dad
Schmetterling1990
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I wonder if being in a toxic relationship so young plays a part in that. I can’t believe he seemingly got away with having a relationship with a teenager at his age, he should be on a register imo.
Regardless there is 100% more to the story, sounds like COVID got in the way of legal proceedings at the start and it’s spiralled from there. I wish she would get the help she needs so she can work towards getting contact. She’s erroneously letting the kid‘s dad ‘win’ at the moment with how she’s being. I would go totally grey rock with everyone and just do as I was told - no matter how insulting it feels, it’s still better than letting him have the satisfaction of getting a rise out of her.
I don’t think she’s got a great support system, which would explain all the ‘attention seeking’ things she posts. I don’t mean that to come across like I’m being a total witch, but I just never understand why people post such things.. I go to my friends, family etc when I feel I need someone to talk to, but she thinks posting a tik tok is the answer. Her latest one she’s just showing she’s mentally unstable. Again, doing herself no favours.
she says she’s given up, but she wouldn’t keep posting on the account if there was any truth in that.
people in her real life need to tell her to get help and complete the courses or whatever they’ve suggested.
gimm3more
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She’s the type to check in at the hospital on fb and when someone asks why says “pm me babe”
Or posts a hospital wristband with gown/bed in shot on Snapchat
Schmetterling1990
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I don’t think you are being a witch. The whole thing makes me want to be her friend in real life to try and help her get on the right course! It’s why parasocial relationships are so damaging because you don’t get the real life support you really need from them.
Toffeebythesea
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What do you all think of her posts tonight? She's clearly struggling a lot
I’mThankyou_
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I dont think she's struggling.
This is typical narc behaviour, to create attention.
She wants another welfare check, she wants people to worry. She wants the attention.
She KNOWS people will worry, call the police etc so it doesn’t make sense her posting this to then say the police harras her.. ?! She’s literally bringing them to her door
She does this a lot.
she sits and calls their dad, says it’s abuse etc but why give him the satisfaction/evidence he needs to further stop contact. Honestly, I think I need to leave this thread as it’s so obvious she’s not innocent herself
sjayjuniour
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I don’t think she’s a narc. She’s said she met Paul when she was 15 and he was in his 40’s he then got her pregnant at 17, he is a predator and it’s clear he made things difficult for Charlotte from the get go, constant accusations and mind games. He literally said in a message that she will never see her kids again if she’s been with another man.
This being said I don’t condone her behaviour but I do believe that it’s been caused and escalated by the abuse she experienced and as someone who’s been in a similar relationship it can make you lose your mind: I think she definitely has some underline mental health problems and a lot of trauma which is causing her behaviour to escalate and she’s become really unpredictable and irrational which will never help her case at all: I don’t think she ever was a risk to her children but her behaviour now is not making her look very good and I think she’s just making things worse for herself! But she won’t take any advice or acknowledge her behaviour so I don’t see how her situation will ever change.
This being said I don’t condone her behaviour but I do believe that it’s been caused and escalated by the abuse she experienced and as someone who’s been in a similar relationship it can make you lose your mind: I think she definitely has some underline mental health problems and a lot of trauma which is causing her behaviour to escalate and she’s become really unpredictable and irrational which will never help her case at all: I don’t think she ever was a risk to her children but her behaviour now is not making her look very good and I think she’s just making things worse for herself! But she won’t take any advice or acknowledge her behaviour so I don’t see how her situation will ever change.
I’mThankyou_
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I think she gets pleasure from it all.She KNOWS people will worry, call the police etc so it doesn’t make sense her posting this to then say the police harras her.. ?! She’s literally bringing them to her door
She does this a lot.
she sits and calls their dad, says it’s abuse etc but why give him the satisfaction/evidence he needs to further stop contact. Honestly, I think I need to leave this thread as it’s so obvious she’s not innocent herself
Personally, I don't think they're harassing her. I know the police aren't angels, but not every copper is out to get her like she makes out. I imagine the attitude they give her is only in retaliation to her behaviour
She’s on live ripping papers up , definitely needs mental health help