Two sets of twins killed in fire- mum arrested for neglect

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Warriorqueen said:
I’ve been told by someone who knows her she was at sainsburys with her boyfriend. That completely seals it for me as blatant neglect. Before I heard that, I was holding no judgement having never had 4 under 5s but that’s it for me.
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Even IF you had 4 under 5, there is time to go shopping? The 2 eldest were at the school down the road. Could she not have gone during the day?
Was she at sainsburys? I’m not too sure.
My heart is with the neighbours and firefighters who had to deal with that last night 💔
 
Jellybean093 said:
Even IF you had 4 under 5, there is time to go shopping? The 2 eldest were at the school down the road. Could she not have gone during the day?
Was she at sainsburys? I’m not too sure.
My heart is with the neighbours and firefighters who had to deal with that last night 💔
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I agree but I was trying to hold out no judgement having never walked the shoes of a 27 year old single mum of 4 children under 5, holding down a full time job. That’s all pointless now though and more fool me.
 
I have a nearly 4 year old, 2 year old and one on the way and there’s just no way on earth I would ever leave them home alone at these boys ages and our corner shop is literally across from our house. She was gone for 90 minutes 😱 There are always alternatives if you really need something. This is the most heartbreaking thing.

Rest in peace beautiful boys ❤️
 
Those poor kids 😭 it breaks my heart that they could have spent the last moments of their little lives in desperate fear. I also have deepest respect and sympathies for the firefighters and medical staff who fought hard to save their lives. Reports claim that they firefighters themselves are traumatised, I can't imagine having to face a situation like that. Truly devastating.

May those beautiful boys rest in peace ❤
 
Warriorqueen said:
I agree but I was trying to hold out no judgement having never walked the shoes of a 27 year old single mum of 4 children under 5, holding down a full time job. That’s all pointless now though and more fool me.
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Sorry if that was snappy. It’s happened roads away from where I was brought up and where I now live, and it has literally shocked everyone
I didn’t realise she had a full time job, but even so, you fit these things around your kids. I’ve had to drag myself out of bed when it was me and my eldest just to get milk. Never would I have left her that young
And also, it was before 7pm. There’s no way 4 boys are asleep before then?
I know this is from the sun, but this is just awful if true
 

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I keep seeing too many people trying to be sympathetic here, giving the mother the benefit of the doubt, IMO. Maybe she had to work? There is no excuse for leaving four little children home alone, absolutely none. It’s unthinkable. It’s insane.

Anyway, it seems like it wasn’t even that. Wouldn’t surprise me that it’s another Asiah Kudi… left alone regularly and the mother kept getting away with it so she kept doing it.
 
maytoseptember said:
I keep seeing too many people trying to be sympathetic here, giving the mother the benefit of the doubt, IMO. Maybe she had to work? There is no excuse for leaving four little children home alone, absolutely none. It’s unthinkable. It’s insane.

Anyway, it seems like it wasn’t even that. Wouldn’t surprise me that it’s another Asiah Kudi… left alone regularly and the mother kept getting away with it so she kept doing it.
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I agree, there is no need to physically go food shopping anymore, and especially not too Sainsbury’s - it’s expensive.

If it was an emergency e.g kids medicine you would go to the corner shop and drag the kids out with you.
 
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Tublet83 said:
I agree, there is no need to physically go food shopping anymore, and especially not too Sainsbury’s - it’s expensive.

If it was an emergency e.g kids medicine you would go to the corner shop or drag the kids out with you.
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and then it even sounds like she just strolled back smoking a cigarette, not even in a rush. I also don't get who would see their house on fire and not be in a huge panic, even without anyone inside!
 
maytoseptember said:
I keep seeing too many people trying to be sympathetic here, giving the mother the benefit of the doubt, IMO. Maybe she had to work? There is no excuse for leaving four little children home alone, absolutely none. It’s unthinkable. It’s insane.

Anyway, it seems like it wasn’t even that. Wouldn’t surprise me that it’s another Asiah Kudi… left alone regularly and the mother kept getting away with it so she kept doing it.
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True bet this was not the first time those little ones have been left alone.
 
One witness said she strolled back smoking but another witness said she was on her knees trying to do CPR.

Just seen a newspaper say it was Christmas lights that started the fire on a door but then another paper said the fire officer hasn't released his official findings yet.
 
It’s just so sad 😞
I didn’t want to judge because I don’t know the situation.
This week after the news about how baby Star passed away just weeks after hearing about the horrendous death of Little Arthur I’m really sick and worried about how little children are being neglected,abused and disregarded 😓
Something drastic needs to change all children should be entitled to a loving and safe environment !!
 
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