Twinsandme #40 Off she goes to Garryvoe, you wouldn't think the twins were in tow

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She's really stupid telling the kids he was her friend and not their daddy. She needs to realise that it's not all about her.
She has an idea of what a daddy should be and unfortunately it's not gonna happen. I've no idea what he has or hasn't done and people talking here about him fighting for the kids. Realistically how easy is that if he's in Australia. Plenty of dads here being messed about with courts and bitter women. She said herself she wasn't gonna go so I'm just glad she did in the end. It has given her something to talk about and that's all she has really. If she wasn't a single mother to twins what has she?
 
My heart breaks for them that he was introduced as a friend not daddy. Yes he’s going back to Australia, but they’re older now explain this is daddy but daddy works in austrailia so will be gone but we will FaceTime him or something. Regardless of whether he leaves their lives again or not at least they would have this memory of their dad. Again another way for Julie to control the narrative when they’re older of how he left and NEVER saw them (because they won’t remember her friend!!)
 
Justhere4thegoss said:
She's really stupid telling the kids he was her friend and not their daddy. She needs to realise that it's not all about her.
She has an idea of what a daddy should be and unfortunately it's not gonna happen. I've no idea what he has or hasn't done and people talking here about him fighting for the kids. Realistically how easy is that if he's in Australia. Plenty of dads here being messed about with courts and bitter women. She said herself she wasn't gonna go so I'm just glad she did in the end. It has given her something to talk about and that's all she has really. If she wasn't a single mother to twins what has she?
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I don't believe for one minute she introduced him as a friend
 
I’m gobsmacked honestly. I didn’t think she could get any worse. Introducing him as her “friend” and not been honest is horrible, then going on saying he can’t FaceTime them ? It just proves she’s the one who’s stopping contact , so he was around for a year and a half to 2 years and then covid hit so realistically he hasn’t seen them because of covid ?
 
Whats_happening said:
I don't believe for one minute she introduced him as a friend
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Do you know what I think she did?
It would be hurtful,degrading etc for the dad(to reiterate I think he is a piece of tit)and that was her one intention in meeting up.When she met the fourth cousins twice removed she got a sniff he was coming home and it was action stations.It's one of the lowest things you can do keeping children from their father.Which is what she is now doing.She isn't the only woman whose kids dad has asked to be part of their life like this.They're are ways of doing it correctly.A good play therapist could help the transition.It was all about her.She grabbed her chance for vengeance.Phone calls,face timing etc are "no help" to Julie. i.e can't mind them when she is drinking or lying in.But calls/Face-timing would be a way of maintaining a connection and the start of something
 
In what ever length of time: lads remember ur man we went to foto with my friend he's actually ur dad 🤯🤯🤯 she's done more damage now than she ever could have of course they will understand there old enough and if he's willing to face time them I'm sure they would love it course there would be plenty of chat u silly witch telling him all about school and new friends an stuff... she's a witch for this!!!! Imagine they probably lived for this day daddy was there and they didn't even know it. That feeling to know they actually do have a daddy like there friends be he be here or there hes daddy whether she likes it or not ❤
 
Sorry for the language but what a stupid bleeping witch. Introducing him as a friend and not their dad. They are nearly five for god's sake. It could all be explained to them in a way they understand but nope she has to lie to them and make it all about her feelings. And now Scammen praising her on her stories. Another stupid lying bint
 
Mistake. What is going to happen when he WILL see them again? Telling them now that he is a friend is a lie that will harm them when they will be told at some point that he is their father. For someone who supposedly spent so much time thinking about this, she has shown little intelligence around the impact on the children, especially when she said that he was in their lives for the first couple of years when he would have been “dad”. Now he is her friend. What a despicable way to compound a poor situation.
 
Memaw said:
It seems that it's all about her feelings
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Mejoolie is not over him thats for sure and because of that she's putting herself before her children. She really messed up yesterday telling them the Daddy was her friend when they are older and they find out they will see that as a betrayal, poor kids. Mejoolie has alot of growing up to do.

Lets remember she decided to come home from Oz, her decision. He wasn't committed enough to her to come back and stay.

Epic fail yesterday Mejoolie, a right royal f**k up. Invest more time in your children and less in yourself. You are always, whinging, bitching and moaning about how hard it is a single mother (you are not the only single more and you are doing alright for yourself in every way), you had a chance yesterday to do the RIGHT thing for YOUR KIDS and you made it all about yourself. You should be ashamed of yourself.
 
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God that was actually painful to watch. She had zero thoughts for those children when she did that today. There's NOTHING stopping her allowing them to facetime regularly? There are ways and means of establishing a relationship even though they're far apart? I have a family member who's partner and two kids (teens) are in another country and he flies over & back, they come here for summer holidays and a week at Christmas, and they facetime all the time.
 
She’s only gone and made it mroe confusing for when they realise down the line that he’s their daddy and they’re like huh, you said that was your friend. She’s after adding another layer of complexity to an already awkward situation. Like I do think she is trying to do her best for them but she’s really letting her own feelings towards the situation take over. She should have told them their daddy lives in Australia and is over for a visit, let them have their interaction with them knowing him as dad and then when he goes back say he’s going back now to work in Australia. In a way I do feel for her but she’s after making it more complicated.

Why would they want to facetime with a complete stranger who they know as mammy’s friend? If she is sincere about them ever having a relationship then she needs to tell them he’s their dad before it’s too late and they start to question everything she tells them then. I don’t think it was fair on them to be around him without knowing who he is to them. Maybe this is too far but a part of me feels like she likes having them all to herself and wants to keep it that way. Like don’t get me wrong - the dad deserves tit after all this time but Julie needs to put her own feelings aside and be honest with her children. They’re starting school in a few weeks ffs.
 
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U dont fool me said:
This is all for the views and interactions julie dosnt give a flying duck about them kids never did never will what kind of a bleep deprives there kids of known daddy no matter the circumstances and he was bleeping worse to allow it 🤬🤬🤬
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Waiting for the "here's a link to that top I wore, ye are all asking me about" or couple of shite king ads seeing as she's reeling in all the dopes
 
I work with kids and often you hear kids saying my Dad works in England etc. It's not overly unusual. My own Dad worked away Monday to Friday, now that was in the 80s. My husband works away on contracts for months at a time , my kids face time him. Its a situation that could be handled. Just because they're not together doesn't mean he can't have a relationship with the kids. I think it's just gone too far without telling them the truth. However I get she could be nervous with consistency because of thier situation.
 
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