Twinsandme #40 Off she goes to Garryvoe, you wouldn't think the twins were in tow

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I don't believe for a single second he doesn't provide, just nope, she'd never be on about it if he didn't, and yes that's not sufficient.

But she also had a right to let those kids know daddy works in Australia and show them a map and end of. Kids for the most part at their ages in recent yrs would have been happy with that explanation. Instead she chose the narrative of you have no dad.

He didn't want a relationship with her, so she cut him off. We don't know how much he tried to keep in contact etc and Julie will love bread crumbing now he's back etc.
 
ahtisyourself said:
Tbh I believe her when she says there’s no contact at all and I’d say the twins haven’t an iota of who he is. Why is it so hard for some people to believe that some men just get up and leave and don’t bother to have any contact and then feel they can walk back into their kids lives on their own terms whenever suits. It actually annoys me that this topic goes around in circles so often but I’ve no doubt in my mind he is in Australia without a care in the world and his kids are an afterthought and a stop off among many during his visit home. I’m sure he’ll take loads of photos and plaster them all over his Facebook for the next few years to make him look like dad of the year. Sure the baby ones he is currently using aren’t going to last forever.
It happens.
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I agree with this 100%. It’s happened to me with my own father. Up and left without a care in the world and now years later expects me to drop everything when contacts, but it’s all on his terms. At the time left us all with nothing and honestly did not give a tit either. Sorry to derail the thread but my point is that there is deadbeat men out there that have nothing to do with their kids.
 
It's very sad that the twins have these two grade A cunts for parents. She, for denying him access at the start and he is a spineless prick for pissing off to oz and not making any effort to fight for access.
Julie is a liar and obviously we don't know the full story, but the fact is if he cared for and wanted to see his kids, he should have stayed, forsaking any job or business, and fought for them. There is no forgiving that in my eyes.
However, the way she presents those kids online, whether true or exaggerated, is very damaging and if he was wise he would be saving it all to use against her. But he will probably piss off back to oz once he updates his dad of the year pics and it will be months and years of tik toks of it. Its just content to her.
She should let them see him because the fallout now when he leaves will be easier than the fallout if they know she kept them apart. She can't be spiteful, regardless of him being a dick, he is their dad. She probably just torn by which scenario will give her better tiktoks.
 
I don’t for one minute believe she’s not getting money for those kids from him, Julie isn’t the kind to let that slide, she’d fight ya for any cent she could and she’d never stop slating him on her socials if he wasn’t paying up, she’s just not saying in case it’s affect her Hap etc…We’re talking about the one who went to the Red Cross during Covid ffs, she doesn’t miss a trick!
 
Justhere4thegoss said:
Just to balance the argument why didn't Julie relocate to oz. Why should he have to give up whatever he's worked for to come home to no job/ career and be allowed see his kids for an hr or 2 on a Sunday.
From what I can see he's not far away enough from her.
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Why should she? Her family is here, they give her support. There is no justification for him living in Oz and never seeing those kids. I don’t care how annoying she is, he is in the wrong
 
The father only went back to oz before covid happened and then he wasn't able to leave to get back julie stopped him seeing the kids before he went back because he did not want a relationship with her . He has a business in Australia their life was over there but julie came home ans fecked up her visa so she says so she could stay here she thought he would do the same
 
Jesus Christ!!! All I’m going to say is not all men are losers. Not all women are making it up about deadbeat dads. Not all men will stay around for their kids if they have an abusive ex, Not all women are maternal. I’ve been in this situation but told my daughter lie after lie about how much she was loved, that her dad was working, etc and when he wanted to see her I warned him that she will grow up and realise the truth. I left him have access when he wanted and smiled and chatted to him for my daughter. Now my daughter doesn’t want anything to do with him and that’s her choice. My child knew from 2 so why on earth is Julie making out those kids don’t understand anything at nearly 5? She over on tik tok with a load of 12 year olds telling her he’s scum, she’s amazing etc 2 dickheads who got together, got pregnant very quickly and realised oh tit this is not what we want! The kids then suffer it.
 
I got up at 5am said:
Even if he had to go back working he could have had contact on the phone on face time etc.
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How do you know he doesn't? Because Julie said so? I don't for one minute think the twins aren't aware they have a Dad on the other side of the world. I also don't think for a minute he's not paying maintenance. They mightn't understand 'why', but they're old enough to have asked by now 'where's our Dad'.
 
Kilingtime said:
How do you know he doesn't? Because Julie said so? I don't for one minute think the twins aren't aware they have a Dad on the other side of the world. I also don't think for a minute he's not paying maintenance. They mightn't understand 'why', but they're old enough to have asked by now 'where's our Dad'.
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I don't believe a word julie says.... she's a manipulative twit..



That video of her laughing with the kids wasn't an off the cuff candid video of a loving mom that just so happened to be caught on video ... she actually would of asked her ma to film it .... mortified for her ...
 
Kilingtime said:
How do you know he doesn't? Because Julie said so? I don't for one minute think the twins aren't aware they have a Dad on the other side of the world. I also don't think for a minute he's not paying maintenance. They mightn't understand 'why', but they're old enough to have asked by now 'where's our Dad'.
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Of course they know they have a dad. I didn’t mention maintenance but I’ve no doubt he pays it however maintenance alone is not enough when it comes to parenting.
 
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