Twinsandme #40 Off she goes to Garryvoe, you wouldn't think the twins were in tow

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Beavana said:
I get so annoyed but still laugh when people believe what she says about the dad.
Yet we know everything out of her mouth is a lie - yet people will believe every word she says about their dad 🤦‍♀️
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Exactly this! We could debate all day about who’s right and who’s wrong! To me they’re both in the wrong! No doubt there’ll be a story with bells and whistles if or when she does let the twins meet their dad again!
 
Jennymac said:
The father only went back to oz before covid happened and then he wasn't able to leave to get back julie stopped him seeing the kids before he went back because he did not want a relationship with her . He has a business in Australia their life was over there but julie came home ans fecked up her visa so she says so she could stay here she thought he would do the same
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It was way before covid he went back they were tiny when he seen him at the weekend so that's crap blaming covid at this stage you been able to fly for month's
 
Right so she decided to leave Oz and come back to Ireland but everyone’s blaming the dad? Don’t get me wrong it’s shocking he hasn’t seen them in so long but ask yourself the question if he rang and FaceTimed every week would she answer 🤷🏼‍♀️ Absolutely not if he hurt her pride she wouldn’t let him see them at all. I don’t know the father obviously or what they’ve all been through but I don’t for a second believe anything that comes from her mouth. How is she affording to live the way she is if he doesn’t pay maintenance? Instagram doesn’t pay her that well and she’s not working now because schools are closed 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
She is still In love with him and bitter he didn't want her.Iook all tick tok she makes about him.if she doing them of course she talking bad in front of kids.These kids will see videos in few years which be very sad.She knew he was going back to Australia there was something to do with visa.she came home cause father was sick.This girl told everyone her mom had mastectomy and reconstruction but was in pub having lunch few days later.I wouldn't believe word out of her.
 
Not a fan but to be honest if the shoe was on the other foot and she fucked of and left him with the kids everyone be saying he is right not to want her to see them and confuse them totally at this age . Not saying she was right either when he didn't want to be with her and her being bitter over it and using the kids but he should have brought her to court and fought for his children because I can guarantee nobody would keep me away from children . I know a couple in the same circumstances and they make it work if with the dad being in Australia they both make a effort for the children
 
I know a woman who moved home from oz when child was 3, the dad was in contact weekly and she moved back to oz with the child when she was 10 so she could have a relationship with the dad. He wouldn’t move to ireland so mom did what was needed for child and dad to have a meaningful relationship.
she’s happily married to an Ozzie now and has more kids.
 
Malahide woman said:
I know a woman who moved home from oz when child was 3, the dad was in contact weekly and she moved back to oz with the child when she was 10 so she could have a relationship with the dad. He wouldn’t move to ireland so mom did what was needed for child and dad to have a meaningful relationship.
she’s happily married to an Ozzie now and has more kids.
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I’m sorry but that dad should be ashamed of himself
 
Justhere4thegoss said:
Why though? Why would anyone want to come back to Ireland? They no doubt all have a better life out there.
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He is from Australia, wouldn’t move to Ireland so she left with child and they broke up. All happy now and even babysit each other’s kids when needed, beautiful blended family. It wasn’t easy to get there but my friend put her child first before her own needs
 
she stopped him seeing the kids. He then chose to return to Australia and then COVID hit. So this is his first time since COVID finished to come home and Australia only returned to normal in the last 6 months. I have a sister who lives there and she only came home for the first time since COVID finished this year and our father died and she couldn’t even come home for the funeral. If you go back through Julies stories you will see she admits she was the reason they split up. There is three sides for his story and for Fionns sake I hope his father makes an effort for them both.
 
Jembelle said:
she stopped him seeing the kids. He then chose to return to Australia and then COVID hit. So this is his first time since COVID finished to come home and Australia only returned to normal in the last 6 months. I have a sister who lives there and she only came home for the first time since COVID finished this year and our father died and she couldn’t even come home for the funeral. If you go back through Julies stories you will see she admits she was the reason they split up. There is three sides for his story and for Fionns sake I hope his father makes an effort for them both.
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Ya but the point is he left this country in the first place without fighting to see his children he let her win to as a parent I can't fathom how him or any other parent walk away and not fight tooth and nail to see their children that's what we mean covid or not he didn't fight for his children was happy enough to duck back to Australia. Hopefully after this time seeing them he will keep up contact and build a relationship with his children . I am with a man that has a child with another woman and she tried to pull that card when we got together and he brought her to court for access
 
Ioweyou said:
Ya but the point is he left this country in the first place without fighting to see his children he let her win to as a parent I can't fathom how him or any other parent walk away and not fight tooth and nail to see their children that's what we mean covid or not he didn't fight for his children was happy enough to duck back to Australia. Hopefully after this time seeing them he will keep up contact and build a relationship with his children . I am with a man that has a child with another woman and she tried to pull that card when we got together and he brought her to court for access
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None of us know what he did / didn't do as regards making an attempt to "fight" for them.
The only side of the story we've been given is here, and tbh I wouldn't trust her to read the weather.

I hope for their sake he is going to continue contact if they meet up with him
 
Sandyclaws said:
None of us know what he did / didn't do as regards making an attempt to "fight" for them.
The only side of the story we've been given is here, and tbh I wouldn't trust her to read the weather.

I hope for their sake he is going to continue contact if they meet up with him
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But what has she got to gain by lying about him ,she's on a very public popular platform saying this stuff surely to God if she was lying age he called out publicly over it by himself or even his family, because I know if someone was spreading these horrible lies about me publicly I will make a holy show if them and get my name cleared . Yes she definitely has told lies on other stuff but this I do think she is telling the truth namely because she hasn't been called out on it yet and sure even the time he told her he didn't want her and her saying she took the kids back to cork her own parents gave out to her over it and said she shouldn't have done that ...she told everyone that and she didn't have to either. I don't know whatever happens I hope them two children don't suffer

Ioweyou said:
But what has she got to gain by lying about him ,she's on a very public popular platform saying this stuff surely to God if she was lying she be called out publicly over it by himself or even his family, because I know if someone was spreading these horrible lies about me publicly I would make a holy show of them and get my name cleared . Yes she definitely has told lies on other stuff but this I do think she is telling the truth mainly because she hasn't been called out on it yet and sure even the time he told her he didn't want her and her saying she took the kids back to cork her own parents gave out to her over it and said she shouldn't have done that ...she told everyone that and she didn't have to either. I don't know whatever happens I hope them two children don't suffer
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I think until you live in this situation yourself no one can image how hard it is to make the right decision in everything, I'm a single mother to a ten Yr old and my sons father disappeared out of he's life 5 yrs ago that was he's choice and we had no say in that so I can tell you if I got that message I'd tell him straight out to duck off. Not so much as a hello r a message about him in 5 yrs and my son doesn't ask for him so I wouldn't hurt my son by letting this man come bk for 5 minutes. I think Julie is very brave to make that decision because I think it definitely wouldn't b my choice..
 
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