Twinsandme #40 Off she goes to Garryvoe, you wouldn't think the twins were in tow

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Oh the twins dad is in Ireland for a holiday. Presume she's changed her mind after saying no he couldn't see them when he contacted her but it taking her ten million stories to say it. And p.s. Julie if u explained things to them properly it wouldn't be so mind boggling🙄
 
I think she should let him see the kids but only if he’s actually going to keep up contact, nothing wrong with letting them face time and letting them get to know their dad, I do understand the panic of of she’s doing the right thing but she seems to not realise they’re almost 5, like show them a map and explain where he lives? Why would they think he’s dead unless she said it to them.
 
Tbh I do understand her dilemma and why she would find it agonising to decide. Does she let them see him and he tells him he’s their dad at this age where they remember everything and will wonder where he is when he pisses off again.. or does she just halt it now while they don’t know him and don’t ask for him and aren’t missing him but pay for it down the line when they accuse her or standing in the way. It’s a tough situation and I don’t envy it. Like who wins at the end of the day? The twins are still left without and wondering where he’s gone.
 
For once I actually agree with her & the neck of him to arrive home to Ireland after god knows how long & expect to walk into those childrens lives and upend them again. He knew well when he was arriving home & would have booked his flights weeks/months ago. They should of being his only priority when setting foot back in this country. Hopefully he has a big maintenance cheque for Julie after all they money he has made working in OZ & not supporting his children. Good time for her now to get him to go sign official documents for the twins name changes to Haynes. If I were in her situation I’d be very reluctant to introduce him to those kids especially when he’ll walk out of their lives again in a few weeks. Not the best time when those children are starting school and dealing with enough change already. She’s dammed if she does & damned if she doesn’t.
 
Julie has very rarely told the truth about anything over the last few years I'd find her version of events non believable ... why did the tiktok about maintenance only go out now when he's back in the country and she has never mentioned it before ... for all we know he has already seen the twins and she's afraid they were spotted with him
 
Memaw said:
Julie has very rarely told the truth about anything over the last few years I'd find her version of events non believable ... why did the tiktok about maintenance only go out now when he's back in the country and she has never mentioned it before ... for all we know he has already seen the twins and she's afraid they were spotted with him
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Exactly! Please lads take what she says with a pinch of salt!
 
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